Candy Barone talks Leveraging Your Human Design for Business Success

GGGR With Candy Barone – Final
Sat, Jul 20, 2024 12:16PM 56:05
SUMMARY KEYWORDS
projectors, feel, energy, people, design, candy, aligned, human, move, generators, magnetic, invitation,
chart, leadership, learn, kandi, years, woodpecker, create, world
SPEAKERS
Karen Yankovich
Karen Yankovich 00:10
Hello, hello, everyone. I’m Karen Yankovich. And this is the good girls get rich podcast. I am so
excited for this conversation today. It’s something I had been wanting to do for a while. And
when I met today’s guests, I might the back of my mind, I was like, I wonder if we can make
this happen for the show. And here we are, we made this happen. So I’ve got candy brown with
us today. And candy is, among other things, I’m going to give you her bio in a second. Among
other things, she is a she infuses human design into a lot of the work that she does. And I am a
human design projector. So I don’t know how much you know about human design. But
projectors are supposed to like wait for the invitation. And my business is helping people with
lead gen. So how do you how do you do lead gen without asking for the sale? Right? So it’s
been something I have been thinking about and wanting to do more talking about, and I gotta
bring candy. I’ll get paid too much now, but that’s what this episode is going to be about. How
do we do this? And I don’t really see anybody talking about this. So I’m excited to do this today.
So let me bring candy here candy. I’m so excited to have you here. Candy Barone is the CEO of
you empowered strong, is a leadership development expert, a trainer, a guide and executive
coach. She’s an international speaker, amazing, Best Selling Author and host of the aligners
podcast. She is catalyst and change agent who works executives and emerging leaders to help
bring heart back to leadership while feeding the soul of their business. With nearly 20 years in
corporate combined with a bachelor’s degree in mechanical engineering, certification as a Six
Sigma Black Belt and an MBA. She’s a master at building exceptional high performing teams
maximizing and leveraging ROI growing Emerging Leaders creating metrics for greater
accountability and catapulting individuals to achieve explosive growth. So you can use a tree
shaker that helps people get aligned so that they can remember who they are and how to step
into their leadership reclaim their personal power and step into the fullness of their gifts. She
brings in tools like human design, and Zhi Jing keys to connect people back into their energetic
blueprint and individual wiring. Kandi believes that leadership is a choice and everyone’s
opportunity. And it all starts with how we choose to lead ourselves first. I can go on and on. We’re gonna put more of this in the show notes. But candy, I’m so excited to have you here
today.
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02:23
Oh, it is my honor. I am so excited to play with you in this space. And yes, let’s please stop go
into the bio and just like jump in. Yeah,
Karen Yankovich 02:31
no, I got it. I got it. No, but I wanted to get to the to the Human Design piece of it. So. So you
heard me in the intro that I you know, I am interesting. I have I always have interest in this
stuff. Right? I was the kid in like, I remember in middle school to welcome from Dallas was
What’s that seventh grader at 12 or something? Walking home from school, I had walked past
the library. And I know I can tell you exactly right now, where the section in the Bergenfield
New Jersey library was that have all this books about astrology and, and palm reading, like I
was always sitting on the floor in this little corner, reading those books as young as like,
whatever, seventh and eighth graders, and I know it’s seventh and eighth grade because that’s
what I had to walk past the library. Right. So. So I have an interest in all of these things for so
long. And then recently, Human Design pops into the into my into my life, right? And I’m like, What is this? Like? Where did this come from? Because I love I was like, it’s as I said, I love this
stuff from the time I was a little kid. But also I was like, what, what is this? Is this something
new? So I’ve been kind of playing with it and learning a little bit about it. I was skeptical about
it. Because I was like, where’s this been? Like, what is this? How did this come out of nowhere?
And then you and I met through the dames which you guys I’ve interviewed a couple people on
the show from the dames. I’m not really sure what order these interviews are coming out. Maybe you haven’t heard that before. But it’s a great organization for networking, meeting
other women. If you go to Karen yankovich.com/tools, you’ll see a link there where you can
check out a free roundtable for the days you totally should do that, because I’ve met some
great people. But I met handy and I learned that he has this expertise in human design and
business. And I asked her the question that I have been asking a million people. What the heck
do I do if my human design is a projector and I’m supposed to wait for the opportunities. But
lead gen is what I do and what I teach. So that’s where we started this conversation. Candy. I
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love it. And yes, I mean, I have your chart because we’re going to add reference some gems as
we go through. You’ve been skeptical about something that feels very kind of new agey, a little
woowoo to some people on this whole, like, where did Human Design come from? I mean, it
really was a download process for rah rah rah who was the original founder of human design, it
was a it was a system that downloaded over a period of eight days. And like other things in if
you look over the course of history and other things, it’s how many He things have come,
they’ve come in various capacities where there’s been a knowing or a download, or there’s
been a vision or there’s been whatever it might be. And what’s interesting is because I know
when I first stumbled upon human design, I had my I had a different kind of skepticism, I was
more like, really, I don’t need another woowoo tool in my arsenal. And then it occurred to me
because I’m a mechanical engineer by background, right? You said that, and it’s energy, which
means it’s physics, which means there’s actually some governing laws inside of what human
design can show us. And one of the things and I think for your skeptical brain with having that
defined head and ajna. And looking at it from a projectors, we look at, well, how does this
actually how is this functional? How is this practical? What am I supposed to do with this,
especially when my work is in lead gen. And I keep being told I need to be recognized and wait
for the invitation. And there’s this actually really beautiful dance that we can sort of unpack
together in that, because one of the things is maybe changing the lens. And I think, you know, I
you know, this, but everybody out there does it, I do a lot of work with projectors, I actually am
a manifesting generator, I have a lot of energy, a lot of power, a lot of stuff in my chart very
defined. But I have felt very called to work with projectors to help them step into their
leadership in a different way. Because I have seen and come to believe that there are a lot of
myths, or misperceptions when it comes to the strategy and authority and the way projectors
show up in this world. And I feel very compelled to break some of that down and dispel that.
And the first one being that waiting for the invitation doesn’t mean you’re sitting around
waiting for someone to actually like hand you an invitation and invite you in. It is a function of
you becoming so magnetic, a lead gen strategy right there. But you becoming so magnetic that
you actually become the invitation. And while you’re waiting for big juicy invitations, in your
day to day life, you don’t necessarily need those invitations. What you need is people that
recognize your value, and seek you out to share that wisdom and counsel and I can’t think of
anything that’s more aligned for a congruent, healthy, more serving, well balanced way to
create Legion, then to understand that it’s about you becoming a magnetic lighthouse and
attracting and calling to you. Those that feel see taste, the magic, the power that is the
projector energy, and are seeking out the counsel and wisdom because they somehow
inherently know that you see things they can never see. And they just feel this draw to then
say, Hey, Karen, I think I need to work with you. Here’s the invitation. And it becomes this very
organic dance rather than something that’s been the old way of Legion, which is our auto so I
gotta go like build my list. I got to do all the things and it’s like, you actually know you need to
work on you to create the energetics to draw the right things. I
Karen Yankovich 08:24
love that so so just so you listeners know, Kandi did a reading on my chart a couple of like a
week ago or two weeks ago, so that when we came to here, we can talk about it. Because I you
know, like I said to you earlier I am I brought like came with it. I wasn’t really skeptical about
another new agey thing. I was skeptical and like, where has this been? It just dropped out of
the sky like so I didn’t have skepticism around it being new agey, I had more skepticism around
what is this thing is whatever. However, when we did that reading, more than any astrological
reading or any mediumship reading or any of the billion different kinds of meetings I’ve read,
I’ve had in my life over the decades I’ve been here. I have never had a reading that I was like,
Oh, I can point to things I was doing alone that 3040 5060 years ago, like many many years
ago, right? So it more than any reading I’ve ever had. I could relate to it. And not just in the
Yeah, I probably will do that in they Oh, I specifically did that thing in 1995. You know what I
mean? And, and it was? So it was really interesting to me. And part of the conversation that we
had, as we talked about what we were going to talk about here today was were we going to
talk about human design in general. Or were we going to talk about human design for
projectors? And Kandi was the one that kind of said to me, no, no, Karen, you need to do this
for you, and all the other projectors out there. So we’re going to talk about human design for
projectors. So if you are a projector, you totally want to listen and if you’re not you definitely
still want to listen because there’s a lot of things that that we’re going to be able to talk about
that will help you understand all of this Because here’s the thing at the heart of it, I have been
talking about magnetic marketing for years, for years, and maybe you’re experiencing this too.
But I know, in my business and in many people, many of the people I speak to their businesses,
and Kandi mentioned it a few minutes ago, what worked five years ago, doesn’t work anymore.
I spent six figures, you know, hefty six figures in learning, like webinar marketing, Facebook
ads, to webinars, like click to client and 24 hours kind of thing. And it worked really well, five
years ago, it doesn’t work anymore, at all, at least not in my world. And in many of the things
we did. So we’ve, so I have been shifting my own marketing and teaching. Because what I
teach is not that click to client webinar stuff, I learned that and that’s one funnel of where I was
getting clients from. But where I was still always getting clients from was the LinkedIn and PR
strategies, which is a magnetic profile using keywords. If you go back to episode five or 10 of
this podcast, you’ll hear me talking about that five or six years ago, right? And having this
magnetic approach being featured in newspapers and magazines, so that people see when
they see that credibility, and they come to you looking for what it is that you do so so this is
baked in to everything that I teach. And then I have this reading with kandi where she explains
why that makes so much sense, right. So it’s just so interesting to me. Well,
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and that’s the thing I you know, a lot of people, I think, to step back for a minute, people think
or teach human design as a function of this is who you are, and this is some kind of construct or
another label or another. And none of that is true, it is not who you are what you are, it is an
operating system that literally maps out how you are which means what energy do you have
consistent access to? And what energy are you taking in or borrowing from others and
amplifying around you. Inside of that we all have a DNA coding or an innate wiring that is ours.
That is the various pieces depending on what’s open and defined in your chart and how you use
that energy inside that quoting their lives a language. And one of the most beautiful things that
I have seen for projectors, especially for someone like you who has that undefined throat who
sometimes struggles with where’s my language for how I want to express myself and when and
what does that look like? There’s language you can extract from your own coding, that also
becomes an amplifier in terms of that magnetic field you are creating. And when you step into,
Oh, that feels that feels so confirming or validating and the biggest thing I’ve heard from
people, especially projectors, Oh, I feel for the first time really seen. And that just validated all
the magical unicorn pneus of who I was that I didn’t fit in some kind of like, because here’s the
reality. And I say this with a lot of compassion. And that’s one of the reasons I feel so compelled
to work with projectors. Our world was never designed for projectors, projectors are the
youngest type. In the five types. They have only been on the planet the last 250 years when we
moved and mutated from being a seven centered being when we look at our chakras into a
nine centered being the energy of the projector was really birthed at that time. And so it’s a
newer energy because it’s here to guide us into our next level of consciousness and help us
shift evolution. And there’s a wisdom and guidance the projectors are bringing that all of the
other four types cannot see, they cannot see especially the generators, we can’t see it. So we
need this projector leadership. And it really is a leadership energy to be healthy and really
connected into your own sense of self worth. However, you’ve been brought into a world that is
not designed for you. So there’s this whole idea of projectors trying to live in a generator world.
And I always feel like I hear the Madonna song. And anyway, we have this world that’s not
designed for you. And so it’s only when we can bring people back to remembering because it’s
really human design doesn’t give you anything you don’t already have. It’s basically just giving
you the operating plan or the playbook or the you know the instructions on how to mod your
your prototype of a vehicle. Where do you need gas? Do you need electric? Are you a hybrid?
Like how do you operate? All human design does is remind you and bring you back to that
validation of Oh, Oh, that feels so much more like how I operate that feels like my natural way
of being and remembering that there’s always a spectrum, right? There’s the high vibration of
how we operate and then there’s the low vibration of how we operate. And when you can
understand that. You then learn how to make decisions that feel more aligned. You learn how
then you work, rest and play best, you learn how you set up your optimal nutrition and wellness
to actually nourish and feed your body, how you read, like all of those things, how you interact,
that then becomes the function of where you can tap into your natural superpowers and your
gifts and the magnetics and the things. But we’ve got to remain, we got to remember how to
get back to that wiring that coding that says you were, you’re in the world right now for this
reason. And this is how you best operate in that knowing.
Karen Yankovich 15:35
Oh, my gosh, I love that. And you know, I did not ask you this before. So I’ll ask you this now. If
somebody’s listening, and they don’t know, their human design type, how, what is the best way
for them to find that out? Is that you help them with or is there a site, we can link below that
they can do that, like you tell me how you want to hear what works for you. I
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will tell you, there’s lots of ways. First of all,
Karen Yankovich 15:58
I would imagine, I mean, we’re gonna get to the end and talk about how you can learn more
about candy bars, generally people that there is out there, right now, if
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you’ve never if you’ve not accessed your chart, to get just your chart, you can get that for free.
And you get that for free. And a lot of different ways. If you want to get it free off, you go to my
website, candy brown.com, verily scroll down, and there’s a link right there it says access your
Free Chart, all you need is your time of birth, date of birth and location of birth. And if you don’t
know the time, you needed as close as possible. To that time to actually run a chart that is the
right chart for you. I will say if you go on my website and do that, you also have the option to
download a free PDF summary that pulls out some understanding for you so that you because
when you look at your chart, it looks like this, and there’s a lot and it can be overwhelming. i A
lot of people, myself included, will give you an opportunity to get some basic understanding of
what some of that means. Now, you always have the option to say okay, I really want to
understand this, then you set up a reading with somebody. And if you don’t know your birth
time, I would say run it as close as what you can then find somebody who can do a birth range
chart for you and help you muscle test. Which time really feels best for you based on what the
various because there can be up to five or six variations in a day of what and sometimes it’s
significant. You can go from being a projector to a manage end and a couple of hours and a
time in a day. So the more you know the exact time the better. If not, there’s ways you can get
somebody that’s trained to move through that to help you figure out how to land on a time that
feels
Karen Yankovich 17:45
Yeah, well, you know, it’s interesting. And I think I popped this into a conversation that you
were having with somebody on Facebook, I have where I I was born in Jersey City, New Jersey,
were having with somebody on Facebook, I have where I I was born in Jersey City, New Jersey,
and apparently there was some identity theft thing that went on in Jersey City, my original birth
certificate did not have the time on it. But I knew the time because my mom had told me the
time, right. But I had to like the requirement was original birth certificates were no longer going
to be valid. If they came from Jersey City, you had to go to the state of New Jersey to get a new
one. When I went to the state of New Jersey to get a new one, it had the time it had all that on
there. So I’m saying that because if you don’t know the time, it may be that if you go to your
state or your county that you were born, they may have a more detailed birth certificate than
the one you have in your hands. You know. So anyway, I laid
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that out without not every state gets the time on their Texas, the time on theirs, not every
state puts the beard. And that being said, there still could be records, because everything has
to be documented in order for you to be especially in the US. In order for you to be a citizen,
there has to be a documentation that has your time, date and location of where you were born
in order for you to actually fit the requirements of you being born. And right. So there’s a record
somewhere, if not, like I said, if for whatever reason you can’t ask if your mom’s like I think it
was kind of in the morning sometimes great. We start with a general time. And then what we
would do is run a birth range chart or a time range and really hone in on is it this or this and if
it’s close enough, we can play with that and still pull out some of the fundamental pieces that
will help you understand the nuances of your own energy for sure.
Karen Yankovich 19:18
Awesome. Cool. So hopefully by now you at least have a sense of where you can get your chart
if you don’t know that but we’re still focusing on the projectors here in this episode. That being
said, I I also think people that are not projectors are listening going well I want magnetic
marketing really doesn’t mean you don’t have to be a projector to want magnetic marketing,
right? Or how do you you know, and I’m not asking you this question, but they you know, my
caught my eye in my mind, I think how do I help? How do I use this magnetic marketing which
I’m basically I’m really calling it now. It’s our empowerment era marketing. Like we have to
show up differently. We have to show up showing being worthy of people’s investment of time
and money. So How do we so so whether you’re professional or not, that kind of marketing is
important, because marketing has changed. Like we talked, we started talking about a little
earlier, it has changed the things that used to work or not working. But what is working is
people are new. And maybe this is the kind of new era stuff that you’re dealing with candy, but
it’s, or that we’ve moved into in the past couple of years. But people want more know, like, and
trust, they’re hesitant more in investing. Nobody wants a harddrive full of training anymore.
They want to know they want more confidence that their investment is going to produce
results. Yeah, never. And and of course, we always say that, right? We always think that. But
now more than ever, it’s important that we I feel it’s important that we look worthy of people’s
time and investment. So even if we’re advertising them to us, we still have to look worthy of
their time and investment. So tell me what you’re seeing in general about this and why you
decided to build human design in to the business planning work that you’re doing with the
people you work
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with. Yeah, so I love this because I think even though we’re talking about projectors today,
anyone that’s not a projector, this this part in particular, is really important. And there is a
reason why we’re focusing on projectors, because they really are the guides that are going to
move us into this energy that is coming. So first and foremost, everything has a human design,
it could be an idea. It could be your business, it could be the world itself. And so one of the
things I’ve started to do is anytime I get a really big ideas I write down the time, where am I at
and the location because I can run a chart to see the energy of what is happening that is
inspired that I’ve run a chart for my business. The reason I say that is because I think we need
to take a step back for a second second to address what you’re just asking what is going on
collectively in the world right now, that is really pushing us in a new direction. So first of all,
every 400 years, we go through these cycles in evolution. And so we are right now and and the
pandemic I truly believe served appointed. This is why marketing isn’t the same as it was four
or five years ago. Because what’s happening is we are closing out a 400 year cycle of where we
have been in in from a human design lens, we’ve been in this energy that’s known as cross of
planning, which has been this very we energy, very governance, it’s where the Industrial
Revolution came out, it was a lot of how do we push and get more work out of and we
systematize and create processes that are going to allow us to like accomplish more run
through and it was all about output in turn, turn over and turn through or push through, right.
It’s all about making things more efficient, effective, and literally creating processes and
systems to create more output. That is the energy we’re in right now. It’s a very honestly
imbalanced masculine energy. It is a weak governance. And it’s a lot of everybody looking the
same because it was where that whole industrialized revolution came in that said, how do we
just get all these people in like an assembly line and just bring up stuff. And also, that served a
point. And we’re noticing right now that a lot of those same systems are starting to implode, it
happened through the pandemic, how we work, how we look at money, how we look at
government, how we look at our schools, how we look at business, marketing, sales, so
everything is pushing, because they’re starting to implode, because what’s happening is over
the next two and a half years, we are moving into a very different energy globally, that energy
is moving us into what’s called cross of the sleeping Phoenix. So imagine, to rise, which means
we got to burn some shit down in order for the Phoenix to rise. Now, this energy we’re moving
in, it’s February 2027. Now it’s not like all of a sudden a switch goes off. But it is where that
energy starts to really anchor in. And now we’re moving into a brand new cycle of energy. This
energy is a very with we choose because again, we have the power of choice throughout this
and it’s why you even see what’s going on politically right now. We have the choice to move
into a very delicious divine feminine energy. That starts to say leadership power success is a
more individualized energy that I love this that we move away from when I take care of you I
can take care of me or when I take care of me I can take care of you. And we have all these
definitions about power and success and leadership. We start to disrupt all that which is all in
my chart. I’m here to disrupt powering leadership all day long. And our beautiful projectors are
here to redefine success from a place of well being and I place of impact not investment and
money and all these material things that we’ve been caught up in this current energy we move
into cross of the sleeping finish which becomes this very Individual divine feminine energy that
says, and I want you to really let this settle because this is a very different way to approach the
world. It’s not what not even moving into well, when I take care of me and put me first I can
take care of other people. No, it’s when I take care of me stop, all is taken care of. When we
learn to lead ourselves, it becomes one of the principles in the Dow that says there is no need
for governance when I learned to govern myself. So we move into this very beautiful Now,
here’s where we’re gonna go around, if the generators and even the manufacturers who have
been run in the world, in the current, hustle, winding grind, burnin churn, all that stuff. If we
keep thinking, oh my god, we’re just gonna push it harder. It is the definition of insanity. It is
not the generators who are going to get us to this next evolution and this next level of
consciousness because we can’t do the same thing we’ve been doing and tried to get a
different result
Karen Yankovich 26:03
that we are seeing that happened more than I have ever seen in all of my years of market. More and more people are just abandoning their businesses and doing other things because
they don’t know what to do. Right. They keep trying to do what they’ve always done. And
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the projectors come in and this is why whether you’re a projector listening or whether you’re a
generator or a manifester listening, that manifester is manifesting generators and generators
need to learn how to ask and invite the projector wisdom in and the projectors needed to get
themselves how healthy in their own sense of self worth, and get to a place where they are
sufficiently and sustainably resourced, so that they can then move into that role as the Rising
Phoenix I call my projectors witches, because they are the warriors igniting transformational
change and healing. And they are the Oracles they have the freaking crystal ball that shows us
how the pieces need to be rearranged yet they need to be in an energy that feels like an
invitation. So here’s the thing, they don’t need to be invited to the table, they need to freaking
create the damn table and be the invitation at the table itself. But it’s the projector leadership
that is aligned with that cross of the sleeping Phoenix. That is that very delicious, individual
divine feminine energy that is going to guide us into our next level of evolution. And we have
two and a half years right now to get everybody ready. And so that’s why I bring humans like
Karen Yankovich 27:36
I want to hear when you say we have two and a half years for everybody ready
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to see more. I’m going to tell you right now you think we’re hitting rock bottom right now. And I
think it’s interesting. And this is my belief. People can tell me I’m crazy. That’s fine. People tell
me that you’re crazy all the time. I’m gonna have that in my eulogy when I pass candy.
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Yeah, it’s fine.
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Here’s what is going to happen and what is happening. I find it personally interesting that
people are so fearful of some kind of apocalypse, zombie apocalypse, it’s going to come and
take us over. I have a news flash and wake up call for most of us that are in society right now.
take us over. I have a news flash and wake up call for most of us that are in society right now. We are freaking living a zombie apocalypse right now. We are checked out we are comatose
and we are not living our truth, which means systems are further imploding, which many of
them need to, but we are our mental health is at risk, suicide rates are up all of that is not by
accident. Our health as a collective culture is disintegrating. And we will we don’t even worry
about a zombie apocalypse taking this out, we will take ourselves out,
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we will not be able to function and we will literally not exist. Wow. While we are
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not happy now, our ability because we are at a critical crossroads. And if you look at you know,
I hear that and you look at every 400 years, there was a age choice. And so I believe it’s only
we don’t need everybody. We need the tipping point. We need the Care Bears to come together
and create the Care Bear Stare we need the right people to recognize now’s the time. And
here’s the reason why people feel deeply exhausted right now. Whether we like it or not the
universe is upgrading. There is a lot of light codes being downloaded right now. It’s why we are
so effing tired. Because our 3d body can’t keep up with it. You know how our 3d body can keep
up with it. When we understand our operating our innate wiring our coding, and we can align
ourselves and start to tell a more empowered, enlightened and expansive story about
ourselves and humanity. We then become vessels that can hold the light instead of getting
freakin knocked out taken out. And like because we’re gonna it’s either going to take us out or
it’s going to lift us up and that’s our choice right
Karen Yankovich 29:59
now. as well, that’s what I want to get to, I want to get to the choice we have as we move
through the next however many years, right? Because Because I think about, like, I think about
even just me, right? Because we You got my chart in front of you, I think about me, and you say
things like, and you need to just take care of you full stop. I have four kids, I got five grandkids,
I got elderly parents, I got a business, you want to get people that work for me, I’ve got clients,
like, I don’t know how to do that. I’ve never done that in my life. Right. And I don’t even I can’t
even process that. But I hear it. And I also recognize that it’s probably true, right? If I recognize
the truth in it, because it is what I have been doing. I don’t think it’s really been serving all of
those people as well as it can, because there’s just been a lot of discourse and a lot of different
a lot of these different places. Right. And, and I have I have found again, just speaking
personally, that when I step out of the drama, and just say what is it what do I need here and
not step you know, a kind of like, full stop there. That’s where things change. That’s where I
start to see change in in those relationships. So if somebody’s listening, hopefully they are
open to Okay, now they’re thinking aren’t well, WTF? So what do you what do you say?
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Yes, that I mean, human design. So here’s the thing, the original human design that
downloaded through raw was literally here to be a trigger to show us where we’re not we’re in
downloaded through raw was literally here to be a trigger to show us where we’re not we’re in
are not self, where we’re out of alignment, it literally is to poke the bear. Then there’s Jinkies,
which is more than divine feminine, that actually shares the language and the coding inside the
wiring itself. And then there’s quantum human design, which now creates higher vibration
language that allows us to recreate a new story. All that still creates the what the WTF in a
space that says, Oh, my God, candy, I hear you. And yes, I can feel that on some level on a
cellular level, I feel the truth to that. And I have all these responsibilities and all these things.
And so I love that you just put that out there. Because that being said, so first of all, human
design is not a black and white, this is it. And it’s not a cause for more shooting all over
yourself. It is I really want to stress that it is not something to figure out. And it is not
something that says oh my god, you’re wrong, or you’re right. That’s absolute bullshit. It’s just
BS 100%. So when we look at human design it is. First of all, human design meets us where
we’re at. It is the endless peeling back an onion, that we get to sit with what resonates with us
at a certain point. We all have a soul curriculum we are here to live out that is creating
opportunities for us to bump up against things. There’s natural juxtaposition and duality that
says while we as humans think we’re separate, we are going to feel this duality in our own lives
as well, which is I feel this, I see this, and I sense this and oh my god, then there’s my life. So
we have a life purpose, and we have a sole purpose. That being said, you still got to do things
to provide for your family and put things on the table. And it’s where can I allow that
resonance? To say, if there’s truth to that? How might I? And I’ll use the language of a
projector, which is not yes, no, we’re very binary. It’s very open ended in the house, where so I
would say hi, first, I would say where do I feel like my resources are depleted. So as a projector,
your resource sufficiency of resources, and sustainability is everything. We also this year right
now in 2024, we are moving out of this little power Bush, force us all my resources exhausting
out into a more alignment around integrity, and projectors, a lot of what you are here to help us
redefine as integrity, success from a place of well being my own well being and when I’m
putting into the world. So the first question for most projectors I work with is where do I feel a
depletion of resources. So when you identify that, then it’s how can I start to replenish those
resources, because here’s the thing, if you don’t, really, two things are gonna happen if you
don’t find a way to replenish, you can’t give people anything, you cannot give people what you
don’t have to give. That’s just a fundamental football. So if you’re at a six on a scale of one to
10, the best you can give us about a five. Otherwise you’re flat down on the ground, and you’re
not like moving because you’ve just tapped out. You can only give what you have to give. So if
you’re not replenished, you’re giving other people aspects of you the pieces that don’t feel
whole, the not the brilliance and the magnetics and the energy that can be so life changing and
impactful. The other thing is you then aren’t ready for the big invitations when they come by.
You can’t say yes to the right invitations for you if you don’t have the resources and the energy
to do what’s required of that. And then the third piece that comes out of that is it creates this
bitterness, which is the projector not itself, which then creates this repelling energy that pushes
everything off of you. So it’s not about doing zero to 100 it’s about I really love James clears
atomic habits. How do I create? 1%? How are where could I replenish? 1% today? How can I
replenish 1% Tomorrow, and over the course of the year, you’ve never punished 37% more
than what you had before. And what happens naturally for projector is when you allow yourself
to answer those questions, it actually becomes an exponential compound quantum effect that
that one becomes 10 becomes 100 then all of a sudden you’re like, oh my god, I now know and
feel. So I hear the I can’t just oh my god, just take care of me and like have everything else to
go to hell in a handbasket. Right? It’s Yes, and, and so one of the biggest things I think human
design gives us if we’re open to it, because again, there’s that duality between our life purpose
and our sole purpose is to stop thinking everything is either or black or white, and start learning
how to dance in the and all and both. And when we can find our own harmony between our
responsibilities as parents, grandparents, as daughters, sons, whatever, elderly parents, we’re
living in this time, and do it in a way that creates interdependent relationships, not
codependent human design shows us a lot of pathways where codependency takes over, we
can create interdependency versus codependency. And we can start to merge and create
harmony in all of it. So that then we start to recognize where do I need to be sufficiently
resourced? And where am I hanging out? Does that make sense?
Karen Yankovich 36:58
It doesn’t make sense. It doesn’t make sense. And it’s a great place to start and it feels a little
bit more. Listen, here’s the deal. It sounds scary when you say we’re living in an apocalypse.
But it sounds amazing when you say and all we need to do is to stop. And and and lean in
maybe not lean in, I don’t even know if that’s the right word, but to go with, like just to be
aligned and stop pushing and stop working so hard and stop doing all the things, which is really
hard for people like me to even comprehend. When people say here’s how you have success,
Karen do less like,
37:34
well, that actually isn’t correct for you. Okay, you
Karen Yankovich 37:38
tell me what that means.
37:40
You asked for motor
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centers, which means you don’t operate like a traditional projector, either. You have a lot of
power and work energy in your chart, that for someone to just simply say to you as a projector,
Karen, you need to slow down, that’s not even going to feel a line. Because you actually need
to be in some kind of motion. It’s just you need to remember you’re not a generator. So you
don’t turn on a switch every day and work in a cadence that looks the same every day and
burning yourself out physically and mentally, every single day, and then turn the switch off and
go to sleep. You don’t operate like that. But you do have the three backup batteries and the
other three motor centers with a defined well defined solar plexus and find route that says
when the right invitation comes in, and you are sufficiently resource, you can get more work
done, then 20 generators times 10. It’s the right work. It’s happening in blast. And it’s really big
power when it comes
38:36
interesting. And
38:38
you likely need to work out and play sports and do some things that physically move some
excess energy out of your body. Because otherwise you get sucked into the shooting and
shaming that says, Oh, I guess I can. So I should act like a generator. And just because you can
does not mean you should
Karen Yankovich 38:57
I need to have that on my wall. I’m gonna get one of those like, I kind of go to Etsy and get
somebody to create something that I could put on my wall like above my
39:07
huge message for you, especially with that define will because when it’s not aligned, you can
tap into sheer willpower, which is the fastest way for you in your design to deplete your
resources.
Karen Yankovich 39:20
So you know, it’s so interesting, because that’s one of the reasons why this is so unbelievably
fascinating to me, because in all of the things I’ve ever done all of the readings I’ve ever had all
the things it’s there’s never been stuff I’m like, oh god, yes. Like this. It feels like I can feel in
my soul that these are the right answers for me. Right. And it’s so interesting. And I’ve had like
I remember one time I was I have a cousin who’s maybe 10 or 10 years older than me maybe.
And he he kept like we were having some conversation and he’s like, Are you like him? I was
like, Are you Scorpio rising? I’m like, I don’t know am I like cuz I didn’t know my rising sign at
the time right? And I looked him like I am. How did you know that? Do you know what I mean?
Like, how did you know that? And he but he was like, But I say that to say like, it’s not like I’ve
never seen, like alignment in who I am and how I in other things, but never, to the point of
where it makes me feel like Scorpio rising was like, Yeah, so a pain in the ass. And I’m, like, I’m
hard on things. And like, you know, like, that doesn’t make me feel like what do I do with that?
Right? Okay.
40:26
So here’s, here’s an example of rewriting the narrative, there is a part that says, I’m a Scorpio
rising, which means I’m a heart, I’m hard, I’m a pain in the butt. I’m stubborn, I’m like that. Or it
could be, I have really big penetrating energy. And I have a point of view. And when I talk about
my magnetics, it’s me dialing it because when I run like a success Codex, or look at people’s
success map, that energy comes through to say, this is the area that when I recognize the
other, the other side of that the higher vibration that Scorpio energy is extremely penetrate. So
you as a project are dialing into that Scorpio energy, when you want to really pull out the
potential for somebody who knows you’re bringing value, you are magical. That is like a gift. So
you can say, Oh, I’m stubborn, and I’m hard on this. And I’m whatever, which feels like that
doesn’t feel as magnetizing as when you say, when I’m aligned, I can penetrate into the
deepest level of potential and pull that through for the people that I’m around. And it’s a spark
and it feels intense. And people are like, ooh, and it cracks them wide open. I personally prefer
the other side of the conversation and changing the narrative that will be much more
Karen Yankovich 41:42
impasse and exact. That’s exactly it. That’s exactly it. I don’t need something like I don’t need
you to be a psychic and tell me that I’m wearing a black shirt. I already know I’m wearing a
black shirt, right? Like so. But I’m not saying that there’s no reasons that those that have value
somewhere in my life. But what I love about what you do and how you look at human design is
here’s what’s happening, here’s what’s getting in your ways or sub doing that. And here’s the
things like, like, if you just align a little bit over here instead of a little bit over there, here’s
what here’s what can change. So so we have I continue this for two more hours. And we can’t
do this for two more hours. We probably could, but we probably shouldn’t. So so let’s start with
this. If you want to not a projector, and you are listening to this today, tell us what are helpful.
Tell whoever’s listening, that’s not a projector, what their what their next steps might want to
be as they move into the energies of this next year or months or five years or two years. And
then we’re gonna have I’m gonna ask you the same question after that for projectors.
42:42
So, I’m going to actually do this in three ways. One, I’m going to offer a thought for those of you
that are sacredly defined, so you’re either generators and manifesting generators, because I’m
gonna ask you a question. Did you feel a resonance even though we were trying to talk more
about projectors? Did you feel a resonance on some level? Because that I want to ask you a
yes, no question as a sacral. Because I want you to get into a space to feel your response. So
did you get a response? Was did something show up for you in this call? And do you naturally
know what’s next for you to explore more? So that’s the question I would leave for a generator
or manifesting generator. manifester, is I’m simply gonna say we would love to hear your
thoughts on the ideas of human design and how you might see it applying in your life. So it’s
not really a question for a manifester. It’s more of I want to know their thoughts. And I just kind
of want to understand, like, what do you think, projectors and reflectors? I will say the question
then is where are you feeling the deepest resonance around what we talked about today? And
how might you take the next step that will allow you to explore further into your own energetics
into that and design. And while they sounds like I just said the same thing three times each one
of those was activated differently because each of us has a different language depending on
what type we are. Okay,
Karen Yankovich 44:09
cool. Cool. All right now for us projectors. Yeah. Is that some like, bottom line is for us?
44:16
Yeah. So first and foremost, the recognition I’m going to emphasize this again, I see you and
Yeah. So first and foremost, the recognition I’m going to emphasize this again, I see you and
there are others that see that this world was not created for you and being a projector can be
extremely complex and challenging at times. And all of what you’re feeling including the
exhaustion, the bitterness, the emotionality, the empath, and it is absolutely perfectly normal,
whatever the hell that word means. There is nothing wrong with you. There’s nothing broken,
there is nothing missing. You are here to be a unicorn and to be 20% of the population that is
going to guide us into the next which means one of the biggest things I can leave you with is
that question where currently do you feel You are depleted in your own resources and
resources can be time money, energy, food nutrition, wellness, you decide what were so the
two questions I was three questions Where are you feeling? Resource depleted? And then the
secondary to that is how are you? How can you start to replenish? Where are you feeling
bitterness or deep seated resentment that has an opportunity to be cleared? And how can you
start to clear that? And the third one then really is around? And where’s my question going with
that? Oh, it escaped me. My third one for projectors is where do you need to give yourself
permission to be more visible?
Karen Yankovich 45:46
Ooh, that’s a good one. That’s a
45:50
really a lot of projectors are tapping out and hiding because they feel people don’t see them
and are recognizing them. And that’s the opposite of what’s needed right now. And the only
way you become magnetic is to live and speak from your truth. So on your socials, you don’t
need an invitation, speak your truth. Let yourself be visible. Talk about your experiences. And
depending on what’s in your chart, there’s specific ways you can do that, that that is more
aligned. That being said, Where and how can you be more visible.
Karen Yankovich 46:18
So I’m going to tell you something now that I’m just going to tell you that’s listening that candy
did not know this before this conversation. I yesterday, yesterday, I decided that I wanted to
create a new free training that I could use kind of like a kind of like a lead magnet for the
people that understand business to bring people to my thing, literally called and you can get
this app because I bought the domain name energy of visibility.com. And I did it because I feel
that there’s not enough people that understand the importance of like the people that I’m
seeing that are shutting down, or the people that I meet need to be shining their light. And I
want and that scares me. I you know, I want so what you’re saying is so aligned with I just did
without even us having this conversation. Because I want I believe, and maybe this came from
our initial conversation, right, but, but I believe that, that what this I mean this world is, is it is a
mess. And I think what we need more than anything is more light and more people, more
people with that light. Since they don’t know what to do, they’re shutting it down. And we need
to do the opposite. We need to shine it more people, we need people that are light workers and
healers, we need them to be making more money so that they can be making better making
choices that are more aligned with what they want to do. So that so that they can get their light
out to more people. So I’m gonna I was had no intention of sharing this publicly, anytime soon.
But if you’re listening to this go to energy of visibility.com. And you can get our free little free
training that I created yesterday, I just was called to do that and created it yesterday and
actually even created a visualization to go along with it. It’s not even back yet. By the time it
goes live, it will be but it’s with my editor right now. The literally help you just have the
confidence to just and to understand the ripple effect your light will have on the world, if you
just take that step towards that visibility, the energy that we need, not only that light, but we
need to visit the ripple effect that your light will bring. So I didn’t even know we were going
there today. But I was
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I was on I love it talk about alignment. And that’s the magic of what happens. See, there’s an
invitation because there’s an example of an invitation that showed up for you because you
were open and ready for it. The universe is creating invitations for you and that the the waiting
for the invitation is does it feel like an energetic invitation for me to step forward and share my
wisdom? My advice, my guidance, that is a perfect example of an aligned imitation. Yeah, yeah.
Karen Yankovich 48:59
I love it. I love it. So I feel like that’s a wrap. Right? I feel like that’s right. We could go on
forever. But I feel like that’s, can you tell everybody a little bit more about you and the work
you do and how they can learn a little bit more about diving in with you because the people
that listen, most of the people that listen to the show are business or running businesses or are
you have careers that they want more out of? And I while there’s a lot of people talking about
human design, there’s not a lot of people talking about human design that also understand how
it impacts business. So I think everybody should be reaching out to Kandi tell us how they can
do that.
49:29
Thank you so much. I would say there’s two ways that would be what makes the most sense. If
you’ve done any work in human design, and you’re like I’ve had a reading I know my
foundation, whatever. We can do more of a leadership map and pull out your leadership
markers, your career chart, your success Codex, which lays out these really cool for success
fast. What I would say though, for most people because even in that case, is to start with the
foundational reading even if you’ve done one the way I and Karen can attest that the way I do
my readings are very different. You can go to candy Barone, and it CANDYB A r o n e it spell
candy Barwon I don’t make that stuff up.com backslash. And then it’s HD hyphen reading. And
you can go out and reading with me, we can get started. There are a lot of people that can do
deeper, I have a leadership bundle, I have different ways we can do leadership mapping, we
can do nutrition mapping, we can do relationship mapping, it’s just dependent upon what is
going to be most helpful for you. As you are, as I like to say, awakening, activating and
amplifying your unique leadership voice. There’s a lot your energetic blueprint has to tell us.
And so we can go in any direction you want to go from there. We start with the foundational
reading first. And
Karen Yankovich 50:49
Karen Yankovich 50:49
honestly, it was great. It was great. I I I mean, I just heard one piece of alignment on it. But
there’s been it’s only been like two weeks, a week and a half, probably not even two weeks.
And there’s been a few things that have really been aligned. And you know, if you’ve listened
this far, then I know you get this stuff, right, because if this is stuff that you’re like, oh God,
right, you’ve already disconnected by now you’re not listening anymore. So if you’re still
listening, I can’t even tell you the crazy amounts of alignment that have happened in my world.
I’m going to just tell you one way to tell one more, one more quick little story, and then we’re
going to wrap up and tell them the woodpecker story, candy. Right when we’re recording this,
you may have remembered that we’ve we did a free training, copy our prestige. And I really
was called based on some things that I’ve learned in the past, but also with some of the work
that I did with candy, to reimagine it to do it my way to do it aligns with me, and to not do what
I’ve done before. And what I’ve what we’ve done, because we’ve been taught to do, it just has
been working. So I’ve completely realized reimagined that and I’m sitting at this exact spot in
my in my office, if you’re watching this on the video, you know the exact spot and we are kind
of wrapping it and you know what happens at the end of the wrapper? You know, we’re seeing
who’s joining us who’s enrolling on our program? Is this what I’m calling the Empowered arrow
marketing? Is it really is it does it work? Is it working for us, right? So as I’m sitting here doing
this, and of course have your little impostor syndrome around all of this, right, because I’m like,
Alright, we’re making this up. And I’m being guided and told by people like candy to do this,
right. But it’s new for me. So I don’t really know what I’m doing. I’m sitting here and like, hold
on, if you’re watching this on the video, if you’re not going to my YouTube channel, those are
the windows right in my office right next to me, like directly next to me. And I am here this
banging like what is this banging? It’s driving me crazy for two days. And I’m like, just thinking
Is there somebody doing yard work outside? Like, is it my neighbor behind me? Because this is
a townhouse, maybe like behind this wall or other people? And then like come swooping out the
window is this bird and I’m like, Oh, it’s a woodpecker turn. You mean it’s a woodpecker. So
now I’m like, I first I’m like, what do you do about woodpeckers? But then I’m like, Oh, I gotta
find out. What is the woodpecker? Like, what does it woodpecker mean? And I just put the book
away. But there’s a book called Animal speak. And I pulled it out in the woodpecker. Basically,
the book on her energy basically, is wood peppers fly, I think they say they glide and then they
and then they go up. And then they glide and then they go up. So they, they basically march to
a different drummer, they do things that are different than any other verb does. And, and the
sign is that you’ve built the foundation. Now go do it your way. And I’m like, alright, I’ll take that
sign. I will take that sign. By the way, the woodpecker still here, I haven’t seen him in the last
hour, we’re doing this, but the woodpecker is still here. So now that I’ve now that he’s given me
his message, now I’m hoping that he finds a new home. But in the meantime, I just wanted to
share that with you in that I will tell you that I can’t believe how hard it is for me to just be
right. But I’m learning how to just be and not be so focused on all the things and just be
focused on what serves me. And everything’s falling into alignment. So that’s why I want to do
this. That’s why I wanted to bring candy into your life. And I highly recommend you check her
out, follow her stuff, book yourself reading. And most importantly, maybe not most importantly,
but importantly, also, if you loved this, or if you feel like you have an audience that love this
take a quick screenshot right now share this on your social media, tag me tag candy, because
here’s how that magnetic marketing that empowered era marketing works. We want it to be
magnetic, right? So when you’re out there saying, you all need to listen to this conversation,
right? What happens then is you’re now bringing people into my life, which are strengthening
my magnet, you’re strengthening, you’re doing the same thing with candy and strengthening
her magnet. But when we see that we can comment on it, we can share it with our audiences
and we can strengthen your magnet. Right and this is how we do this empowered era
marketing that I keep talking about today. So I highly recommend you do that. If you if you if
you love this, I would love to see you subscribe to good girls get rich wherever you’re listening.
And because I’ve now told you it exists, check out energy visibility.com. And we’ll put the link in
the show notes. It is active and working right now even though I still still waiting for the edited
version of the visualization to come back. And there’s a few little tech pieces that aren’t done
with it yet, but it’s done. So you totally need to check that out. Even if you don’t feel like you
need it. You might hear something in that, like it was meant to come out in this episode. So
there’s a reason you heard this episode. I think there might be a reason for you to check that
energy of visibility training out. It’s short. It’s a 2025 minute training. So, Kandi, this has been
awesome. Thank you so much for being here with me today. I’m definitely going to dive in
deeper with you. But let’s for now, we’re just going to, we’re just going to move forward in into
what happens next. And, again, thanks for
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being here. Oh, absolutely. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And it was my
pleasure, for sure