This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media CEO and LinkedIn expert, Karen Yankovich. In this episode, Karen was thrilled to have the incredible Patty Block on the show! Patty is a business advisor, speaker, and author of Your Hidden Advantage. She’s been helping women business owners make the big leap into their third act with more confidence, profit, and joy.

Patty Block is a business advisor, transition expert, author, and speaker. Since 2006, she has worked with women business owners who are experts in their fields to transition to their Third Act – when they’re ready to do the work they’ve always longed to do.

These women have built profitable and valuable businesses but instead of feeling like there’s something missing, they’re feeling like there’s something MORE.

In her bestselling book, Your Hidden Advantage: Unlock the Power to Attract Right-fit Clients and Boost Your Revenue, Patty reveals a new perspective and proven, practical solutions, guiding women to unleash their inner power to run their business with more confidence, profit, and joy.

Patty considers herself a native Texan, even though she wasn’t born there. She got to Texas as fast as she could (at age four) and is based in Houston.
Patty raised three wonderful humans who all caught the entrepreneurial bug and have their own successful businesses.

Patty’s passion and experience as a business advisor and owner, lobbyist, political consultant, and non-profit executive comes full-circle, as she turns roadblocks into building blocks for women-owned businesses.

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About the Episode:

We’re diving deep into the “Broken Cookie Effect” – something I know every one of us can relate to. You know how we sometimes eat the burnt pancakes or broken cookies, while everyone else gets the best? Yeah, it’s not just in the kitchen – we’re doing it in our businesses too! Patty talks about how we undervalue ourselves and underprice our services, and the impact that has on our profits.

Patty also shares her journey from politics to business and what led her to build programs specifically designed to help women. She has powerful insights on how we can stop underselling ourselves and start positioning our businesses for success – even setting ourselves up for that big “third act” or exit!

Episode Highlights:

  • The “Broken Cookie Effect” and how it shows up in pricing
  • Transitioning from a successful second act to a purposeful third act
  • Why so many women business owners undervalue their companies and how to change that
  • The importance of building a business that can be sold, and how to position it for a successful exit
  • Patty’s Exit Readiness Index – a powerful tool to help you evaluate your business for sale, even if you’re not ready to sell

Final Thoughts:

Why This Episode Matters: Ladies, if you’ve ever wondered if your business is “good enough” to sell or if you’re just not sure how to value what you’ve built, this episode is for you. Patty and I break down the importance of pricing, building revenue engines, and why your business is a key asset – your version of a pension! You don’t have to wait until you’re ready to retire to start thinking about this stuff.

Takeaways:

  • Stop eating the broken cookies! Value your work, price it right, and build your business for long-term success.
  • It’s never too early to think about selling your business, even if you don’t plan on it anytime soon.
  • By setting your business up for success now, you’re not only making more money today, but you’re also increasing your wealth for the future.

If you loved this episode, take a quick screenshot and share it on social! Tag me @KarenYankovich and Patty @PattyBlock, and we’ll share it with our audiences. Let’s get more visibility for each other, grow our businesses, and create more wealthy women in the world!

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

Karen Yankovich:

  1. “Let’s fill your cup up first, so that you’ve got a nice, full cup and can build the kind of life that you want for you and your family. Then let’s build that overflow, because you can serve from that overflow.”
  2. “Why are we not building this business up to, like, what it could be? You don’t have to wait until the minute after you need it. Start thinking now about how your business serves your future self.”
  3. “We’re eating the broken cookies, everyone else is getting the whole cookie, and we’re living on crumbs. It’s time to stop that.”

    Patty Block:

    1. “I realized that one of my strengths was the power of perception and intuition, and I wasn’t going to suppress that. I could use it to figure out how to innovate, and it’s served me well in my career.”
    2. “We’re bringing that spirit of self-sacrifice into our businesses, and it manifests in how we price our services. We undervalue ourselves, and then we underprice and overdeliver, which makes our profit go poof.”
    3. “The truth is, you can sell your business. It is valuable. You just need an advocate who’s really there for you to guide you through the process.”

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      GGGR with Patty Block – Final

      00:10
      Karen yankovich, and welcome to another episode of The Good girls get rich podcast. I’m your
      host. Karen yankovich, and I always love the weeks where we have guests on the show,
      because I learned so much, and it just gives me a chance to introduce some of the brilliant
      women that I get to hang out with with all of you so excited today to dive into a podcast with
      Patty block. Patty is a business advisor, a transition expert, author and speaker Since 22,006
      she’s worked with women business owners who are experts in their fields to transition to their
      third act. And I know a lot of your listeners understand that right when they’re ready to do the
      work that they’ve always longed to do, these women have built profitable and valuable
      businesses, but instead of feeling like there’s something missing, they feel like there’s
      something more. And in our best selling book, book, your hidden advantage unlock the power
      to attract right fit clients and boost your revenue. Patty reveals a new perspective and proven
      practical solutions guiding women to unleash their inner power and to run their businesses with
      more confidence, more profit and more joy. Patty considers herself a native Texan, even
      though she wasn’t born there. She got to Texas as fast as she could at age four, and is based in
      Houston. She raised three wonderful humans who all caught the entrepreneurial bug and have
      their own successful businesses. Her passion and experience as a business advisor and owner
      and lobbyist and political consultant and nonprofit executive comes full circle as she turns
      roadblocks into building blocks for women owned businesses. So let me bring patty on to the
      video here with us. Patty, you know how excited I have to have this conversation. We’ve had a
      few conversations since we booked this, and I’m like, can’t wait to talk about this on the show. Well, thank you so much for having me. It’s really I’m excited to be here. Yeah, yeah. Patty and
      I met through a networking group called the dames, and it’s, you know, I encourage all of my
      clients to participate in, in networking groups that that you feel like you know when, when,
      when you talk about LinkedIn and building your network and how to make it successful. I really
      believe the most profitable category of connections you can make is who, who else has
      audiences of people that are similar to your audience. And when I say networking, I’m always
      looking for that first, right? I’m not always looking just for clients. I’m looking for Who else, who
      can I learn from, and how can we kind of help each other’s audiences? And I feel like the dames
      has really helped a lot with that, and Patty is definitely someone, as you heard from the bio,
      that we are very much aligned in and how we show up in the world, and what our goal is for the
      women that we get to work with. So if you go to I don’t put the link in the show notes. Karen
      yankovich, hum, slash tools, there’s a link for the dames if you want to check that out. And we
      actually have, we’ve had a few shows recently where you’ve had some dames. You’ve heard
      me. We’ve heard some of some of the people I’ve gotten to meet there. But
      02:59
      Patty, tell me a little bit about your journey, because I know that you’ve got a background in
      politics, and it’s obviously, you know, it’s this episode’s going live in october 2024, so it is a
      hotbed of politics right now. How has that shaped what you’re doing, and how does that drive
      hotbed of politics right now. How has that shaped what you’re doing, and how does that drive
      what you’re doing today?
      03:18
      It’s a great question, because it has really motivated me in a lot of different ways. First of all,
      I’m so happy I don’t live in that world anymore, that I don’t have to worry about the election
      cycle and working for people who I might not admire,
      03:37
      right? I mean, politics is filled with people you might not admire. And I always considered
      myself a quote, good girl speaking to the name of your podcast. And I talk about that in my
      book as well, that I grew up as a good girl. And so when I went into politics, actually very
      young, and built a business out of that, I thought, well, I’ll be one of the good ones. I’ll be a
      good girl, and I can bring a lot of positive energy and experience to this really kind of soul
      sucking world. And I’d like to believe I did some good, but one of the things I learned very
      quickly is that it is not a level playing field for women.
      04:24
      And I’m in Texas, so it’s very much a good old boy network, even today in 2024 which I’m really
      sad to say, but that hasn’t changed, and that really hasn’t changed that much across the US.
      So because of that, a lot of the deals were made on the golf courses and the strip clubs,
      04:45
      and I wasn’t going to either place. I was a young mother with three little kids at home, so that
      was something that I learned very early on, and realized that I had to get creative to get the
      deals done. So it actually.
      05:00
      Me was a positive, if you look at it in that way, that I had to be very innovative creative make
      sure that I could talk to the right people that I needed to talk to, and not be shut out because I
      was a woman, you know what? It’s such an important part of your story, and would that I can
      relate to as well, because, you know, I didn’t, I didn’t grow up in Texas, but I my business, you
      know, journey was through the world of technology, you know, guys and tool belts. And
      05:32
      I had, you know, was similar, right? It was similar you have to, you had to really,
      05:39
      05:39
      you had to really lean into what you were good at and and shine a light on that, if you were
      going to have anybody take you seriously. And what I didn’t realize all those years that I was
      doing that was what it was training me for, you know. And I didn’t realize, like, it was probably
      only, like, maybe 10 years ago or 15 years ago that I was like, Oh, everybody doesn’t do this,
      you know. Like, we kind of went through this little battlefield that we didn’t realize was training
      us to to shine a light on what we’re good at as we moved into our third acts, right? Or second
      acts even, yes, I think that’s really a great way to put it. And also, not only did I have to get
      creative with that and I didn’t recognize that I was learning all these things that were going to
      set me up for success in the future. But also, as you’re going through something, you have so
      much emotion tied into that, and it’s hard to separate yourself to think, oh, there really is a
      silver lining to all this. What feels so terrible at the time. Also, one of the things I recognized
      was that one of my strengths was the power of perception and intuition, perceptions, tuning
      into others, intuition tuning into myself, and we were actively Taught to Suppress that in a work
      environment as women, right? Don’t be emotional. Don’t cry, don’t don’t do all these things to
      show that you’re a human being, certainly not to show that you’re a woman. And so we’ve been
      taught to suppress all of that. And I recognize really early in my journey that those were
      strengths, my strengths as well as others, and I wasn’t going to suppress that, and I could use
      those to figure out exactly how to innovate. And it’s awesome. It’s really served me extremely
      well in my long career of being able to be resilient and adaptable, trust my intuition, which is,
      you have to learn how to do that. It’s hard. Yeah, it is hard, yeah. And so you’re right. It really
      did set me up for success, but I couldn’t necessarily see that at the time. Yeah, I get that, you
      know, I personally have a and I gotta stop. Maybe I need to stop saying this. Maybe I need to
      trust my intuition enough, but I have a mistrust personally of is it intuition, or is it impulse? Do
      you know what I mean? And that is something that I’m still challenged with, you know? And
      sometimes I have to go with intuition, but wait a day and see if I still feel the same way about
      it, you know, but tell us a little bit about what came next then, because, because some of the
      things you’re doing now, I want to make sure we leave time for because I think they’re things
      that women don’t necessarily consider as much as they move through their business. So then
      what happened next? You You moved from the political world to where
      08:39
      the only reason I moved from the political world is because I was 35 years old. Had these three
      little kids at home and a surprise divorce. I had built my company over eight years. It was very
      successful, but it also required a lot of travel, and I was doing lobbying in my state capital, so I
      would commute to the capital, but then I was also doing some federal and local work, so I
      thought, I’ll just need to close my business and get a job. First of all, because I need health
      insurance for my kids, and you couldn’t at that time go out and buy health insurance. So that
      was my thinking. And I think again, I’m a good girl. I’ve done everything I’m supposed to do.
      Now I will focus on stabilizing things for my kids. Yep, okay. However, it never once crossed my
      mind I could sell my business. Never once which is a big motivator for the work I do now, yes,
      because yes, oh, my so much value built in my business, but it never occurred to me. I think as
      women, often, we are not raised to think that we can grow up build something that somebody
      else is going to value and pay us for. Right?
      10:00
      Right, and even extends to how we price our services, yes, so, right. Okay, so I go there. This is
      Right, and even extends to how we price our services, yes, so, right. Okay, so I go there. This is
      what I wanted. This is the juice I wanted to get to. So let’s just go there. Okay, so this is where I
      developed a concept that really resonates for a lot of women. When I was growing up, my mom
      made these fabulous cookies. The whole house smelled good, was warm. The cookies were
      gooey. And all my life, I watched my mom eat the broken cookies, but it wasn’t until I was a
      teenager that I even thought to ask her, Why do you only eat the broken cookies? Do they taste
      better? And she laughed and said, No, I eat the broken cookies so you can have the whole
      ones.
      10:47
      And that memory came rushing back to me several years ago, when I was struggling to put
      words around this pattern that I have seen in the decades that I’ve worked with women
      business owners
      11:00
      and
      11:02
      I the image of my mom eating the broken cookies popped in my head, and I realized that’s
      what we’re doing as women in our businesses. We are following that spirit of self sacrifice that
      we saw in our role models, our moms and our grandmothers, and we’re bringing that right into
      our business, and it manifests in a lot of different ways. It’s what I call the broken cookie effect.
      It’s so I mean, I can’t think there’s that there’s a woman listening to this that cannot relate to
      that. I mean, I still do that. I made pancakes the other day and ate the burned ones, you know,
      saying, Oh no, I like the really dark ones, you know, like, exactly right? It’s what we do. Now,
      I’m not saying that you have to be selfish, right? I’m not saying go to the other extreme, but I’m
      saying you shouldn’t be last on the list all the time, right? And you shouldn’t be eating the
      broken cookies all the time. So here’s what happens. We’re eating the broken cookies.
      Everyone around us is getting the whole cookie, our clients, our staff, our families, everybody
      gets the whole cookie, and we live on crumbs, right? So it manifests in a lot of different ways.
      One is the first one that the first place that I saw was in pricing, how you price your services,
      because we undervalue ourselves, which is why we’re eating the broken cookies, and then we
      underprice our services. And then to make it even worse, we over deliver, right? So our profit
      goes poof.
      12:33
      And
      12:35
      to your point, when I’m speaking with a group of women business owners, and I can see them,
      right? And every woman in the room is nodding, because this is very pervasive, yes, so, and
      you know what? Here’s the deal. I’m okay with eating the burnt pancakes. You know what I
      mean, but I, but I it’s so important that we recognize that we are eating the burnt pancakes and
      why we’re eating the burnt pancakes, and that if we want to, we can eat the really yummy,
      good ones too, and and that there’s, you know, well anyway, you say it better. So I’m going to
      let you keep talking. Okay, so the first place I thought was in pricing, and I built a program
      called value driven pricing to help women. Because what I realized in my political consulting
      business, I took so many courses, just dozens and dozens of courses trying to learn how to
      price my services, how to sell my services. Was a really good consultant, but I had not run a
      business before, right? So I I started to recognize that all these programs were developed by
      men for men,
      13:45
      and they weren’t working for me, but I thought it was just me, until I started talking to other
      women who said, Oh, that didn’t work for me either. And I thought it was just me, right? So I
      started developing programs on how to price your services, how to sell your services for
      women, designed by a woman who understands the way we think and process information. So
      that’s how I initially built my business. Then I started seeing the broken cookie effect manifest
      in other ways,
      14:18
      and the work that I focus on today is about helping women position their company for their exit.
      Because, again, never occurred to me, right, that I could sell my company right the first time
      around, and I lost all that value. And your business can be a wealth building tool, right? So I
      think of my business life in it’s almost like a play in three acts, and you mentioned the third act,
      so let me explain what that is. So in the first act, we finish school, we go out, and we get a job,
      and we over deliver, and we live with the stress and anxiety because we think that’s normal.
      15:01
      All, and we eat the broken cookies every step of the way. We don’t even know we’re eating the
      broken cookies right.
      15:09
      Then we get really frustrated, or we think the time is right, and we go out and start our own
      thing. We start our business, and we learn everything the hard way, which, of course, is exactly
      what I did, right? Learned everything the hard way. And we are, I dealt with so much anxiety
      and stress, but I thought, but now I’m a business owner, so I guess that’s normal,
      15:34
      and I don’t really know how to price or how to sell my services, but I’m going to figure that out,
      and I’m going to learn everything the hard way. So I recognized I was eating the broken
      cookies, and I kept hoping that I would feel differently later, right? Someday I’ll feel as though I
      cookies, and I kept hoping that I would feel differently later, right? Someday I’ll feel as though I
      deserve the whole cookie.
      15:57
      The third act is very different,
      16:01
      because when you go into your third act, and actually this is my third act, I jumped in it in 2006
      Okay, so after I had this surprise divorce, I went and got a job at an international school. I was
      director of development, and then director of operations. Was there for almost nine years, and
      it was a really great experience for me. I learned a tremendous amount it was it allowed me to
      be home and stabilize things for my kids.
      16:33
      And I always knew I was going to start my company again, but I was waiting for my kids to get
      older and more independent, and I I
      16:43
      I knew it was a leap of faith to start my company again, especially as a single mom with no
      financial support, so I was pretty sure I didn’t. And a lot of brave took a lot of guts and and a lot
      of bravery to do that, you know. So I want, I’m glad you recognize that. And I hope everybody
      out there listening recognizes, if you’ve done that, that kudos to I did the same thing, and it
      was one of the hardest to sit, hardest and easiest, you know, so I would say the same thing. It
      was the hardest and the easiest. Yeah, it was almost like a no brainer, because it was, it felt so
      right for me, and yet it was very risky. Yes, yes, so and, and in my case, and I don’t know, maybe you can speak to this, I had many people in my life that totally didn’t understand what I
      was doing, right? Like, you know, similar to you, wouldn’t have occurred to me that I could sell
      a business. In fact, well, similar to you, I didn’t, it didn’t occur to me. My family are all teachers.
      They have pensions. They don’t leave their secure paychecks. They have the best benefits
      anybody in this country have. And they didn’t totally, did not understand for one second my
      choice to leave my secure paycheck and the benefits and all that good stuff. And so it took, it
      wasn’t even, it wasn’t even the guts to make the decision in my own life. I had to do it against
      the, not even the wishes, but knowing how much, how many people out there were like, All
      right, we love you and support you, but I don’t know what the heck you’re doing or why you’re
      doing that, right? So
      18:16
      it was, you know, it’s a lot. You have entrepreneurial kids. I guess I do too, right? But I don’t
      have entrepreneurial family, that’s for sure. They’re all employed with pensions, yes, and I did
      come from an entrepreneurial family, so that is an advantage for sure. And all three of my kids
      have become business owners, yeah, and I also feel part of that is because they saw me as a
      role model, yes, and so I did take that leap of faith. And when I started this company, I knew I
      didn’t want to go back into politics, although I had a lot of people approach me about that, and
      it seemed like almost a natural thing to do, because I had so much experience in that however
      you’re in a position to compromise your ethics every single day, and that was extremely
      stressful for me, because I wasn’t going to cross that line and made that decision that that’s not
      the world I wanted to live in so but again, I was so motivated to be that resource for other
      women business owners. Yeah, could develop programs for women and and at the time that I
      did that, it was a differentiator. Now, of course, lots and lots of people work only with women
      business owners, right? But when I did it, I had a lot of pushback, a lot of people who said, how
      can you cut out half the population, and why are you doing? Are you anti man? Are you? And I
      said, I have two sons and a daughter. I am not anti male at all. But I think women are not on a
      level playing field, right? And I think women are don’t feel as included. I’m not excluding men, I
      just don’t feel women feel as included.
      20:00
      In this conversation, and I want more women to feel included in this. And you know, Patty, one
      of the things you talked about with pricing, you know, and taking it back even to the broken
      cookie theory,
      20:11
      you know, lots of women that I talked to about pricing, they’re like, Well, you know, I get that,
      Karen, but I just know there’s so many women that are not going to be able to afford me, then
      are not going to be able to do this. And my position on that is, let’s fill your cup up first, so that
      you’ve got a nice full cup and can build the kind of life that you want for you and your family.
      But then let’s, let’s, let’s build that overflow, because you can serve those women from that
      overflow. You know, it doesn’t mean that you can’t, you know that you can’t have a heart for
      people that you know are maybe not going to be in a position to do what, what they would that
      you would want to be able to do with them. So maybe you know if you’ve built but if you’ve got
      your pricing right, and you’ve got your your your positioning right in your market right, it will
      leave you that overflow that allows you to do scholarships and and other things like that, that
      still allows you to to lean, like I said, I don’t mind eating the broken cookies sometimes, right?
      Like sometimes, I want to be able to to serve from that place that, that, that place, that but
      what if they can’t afford me? Right? You can do that better if you filled your cup up first, and it’s
      and it’s overflowing, and you can serve with that overflow,
      21:22
      I agree wholeheartedly, and I also apply that to charitable contributions. Yes, yes, because a lot
      of women want to donate from their companies or take up a cause, and I think that’s super
      important, and it’s part of the strength that we bring as women. Is because we do care about
      our communities and the people that we serve, but if you are making large charitable
      contributions, when your cash flow is not very good,
      21:52
      then you’re not taking care of yourself, right, right? And that’s often what I say is, let’s build
      your pricing model. Let’s build your revenue engine, consistent, predictable, revenue is one of
      the most valuable things for a potential buyer of your company. So let’s build that, and then
      you have lots of choices, right? You can make charitable contributions. You can take on pro
      bono clients. You can hire the people you want to hire and pay them what you know they’re
      worth. There’s so much you can do when you’ve built your revenue engine. So I put a lot of
      emphasis on that, because we’re not in business as a hobby, right? Right? Business to make
      money? Yes, yes, absolutely. And, and, you know, when you when I hear so many coaches out
      there talking about, well, I’m gonna help you build a six figure business. I don’t know about you,
      but I want a six figure income, right? So a six figure income doesn’t come from a just $100,000
      22:54
      business. Do you know what I mean? It’s, there’s just so many variables with that and and as an
      entrepreneur, it’s, you know, maybe there’ll be a little hill, maybe there’ll be hills and valleys,
      you know, in your years and in your personal income and the business income, but it comes
      and and, and if you are somebody that says, You know what, I’m a consultant, I want to work
      10 hours a week. I make $100 an hour. It gives me the income I want. That’s okay too. You
      know what I mean, that’s okay too. But if you are building something more, and I only learned
      this a few years ago, and I am not 20 anymore, you know, I should have known this a long time
      ago. You know, the the pensions my family have that I don’t have, I have this business that is
      that, that I kind of call it my this is my pension. Is my business, you know. So it’s only a few
      years ago that I really looked at it from the perspective of, okay, what should I be doing today?
      Even if I have no intention, like at this moment in time, I have no intention of selling this no
      plans to sell this business per you know, anytime soon. But everything I do now is with the eye
      on what if I want to sell this business in five years? You know, what should I be doing today if I
      want to sell the business in five years? Because, you know, and I don’t know what your
      situation was when you had the surprise divorce, but maybe your business was in shape to be
      sold. And maybe it wasn’t because you weren’t thinking about it, right? Had you all you know,
      at from age 25 to 35, or 40, whenever that was, been thinking like that, and even though you
      weren’t planning on selling it, right, when that life, unexpected life event happened, you were,
      you would have been ready for it, right? So I love that now you are having that conversation
      with women, and I am having that conversation with the women that I work with, the women
      that I work with, and this is not, you’re not the first person we’ve had on the show talking about
      this. Because I don’t know why it was such a surprise to me when I learned this a few years
      ago, right? Like, why are we not building this business up to like? And to me, it happened when
      I started doing my like wills and things like that. I was redoing them, you know, my kids.
      25:00
      Roll out of the house. So it was time to redo them. I didn’t need guardians for them anymore,
      that kind of thing. So it was time to redo all of that. And I remember saying to my friend who’s
      in my attorneys, one of my close friends, I was like, Well, what about my business? And she’s
      like, Well, what about your business? Like, well, what happens if I you know, and I had said to
      my kids, what happens if I die tomorrow? What are you gonna do about the business? I go, Well, you’re dead. What do you care? What’s going on? Nothing happens to your business. I
      said, Well, yeah, but I have clients that have year long contracts, and they’ve already paid for
      them and and it was such an eye opener to be like, Wow, I have to think about this. Like, not
      only do I have to, but why am I not like? Why am I not thinking about this, not just from the
      perspective of serving people after I’ve died, right, but from the perspective of, how do I like?
      What does happen? And is there a way to do it in a way that maybe I don’t wait until the minute
      after I needed it, you know? And if I decided in five years or 10 years that I want to sell it and
      maybe show up in a different way, what would I be doing today? So, so how did what was that
      moment for you, though, that made you, that made you realize, huh? Why didn’t I think about
      selling that first business? I think the moment for me was in working with one of my clients,
      okay? And she was approached by a buyer, okay? And I will tell you, it’s very common that a
      buyer will come to you, they’ll say, Oh, I’d love and usually it’s in your same industry, and
      they’re a bigger company, and they’re growing by acquisition, so they’re buying up the smaller
      practices. And so a lot of my clients, especially because I work with experts in professional
      services and financial services. So a lot of accountants, attorneys, engineers, specialty
      consultants, so the bigger firms are coming and gobbling those up, and it’s a very effective
      strategy for the bigger firms. So one of my clients had a buyer who came to her, and through
      that experience, I started to realize I started to see it more frequently, and it seems like a good
      deal, but is it really a good deal?
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      When you start breaking it down, I started to realize this is not a great deal for my client. And
      the challenge is, a lot of the advisors around my client, all of whom were men, all said, Oh, man, this is great, because they’re going to get a piece of it right. And I started to think, Wait a
      minute, the business owners getting messed around with advice that’s not serving her, it’s
      serving everyone around her. That’s the definition of the broken cookie effect, right, right, right,
      and that’s where I started seeing it in the exit process. It’s very male dominated, it’s very
      numbers focused. And yet, when you transition out of your company, it is like transitioning a
      piece of your identity. It is very emotional, and the ability to detach from your emotions and
      from the situation is extremely difficult, and I started to realize there’s a gap in the market
      here, and that’s where I now focus. My attention is on helping my clients transition from their
      second act to their third act, and the third act is about doing the work you’ve longed to do. It’s
      you’re not doing the accounting, because you know you can make a living at it. You did that.
      You built your revenue engine. You made a lot of money in your second act, and now you’d like
      to use the funds from your second act to go into your third act, and then it becomes less about
      a paycheck and more about your purpose. And it’s not to say that your second act isn’t about
      your purpose. It’s what you said earlier, Karen, about how you get set up as you go through
      your career, you may not realize it in the moment, but every step you take, every choice you
      make, every decision, is leading you to the next thing. And in my definition, the next thing is
      the third act, which really is about your purpose. And I jumped into my third act in 2006
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      and realized this is exactly my purpose. This is exactly why I’m here to do this work, because so
      many women are getting messed around in the exit process, but also very, very few women
      successfully sell their companies. Across the board,
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      the statistic is that only 30% of companies of small businesses complete the sale process so
      they have a successful sale. That statistic, right? There is a little mind blowing to me, because
      on one.
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      Hand, we’re saying, Well, I have this asset here, and why can’t I count on this asset in kind of in
      lieu of me having a pension, but now you’re saying only 30% of small businesses actually
      complete a successful sale. So how do we overcome that? Right? That’s my mission. Okay?
      Because of those 30% a tiny fraction, like less than 2%
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      are women owned businesses. It is very unusual. Now keep in mind, we already have a deficit
      as women, because we’re operating under the broken cookie effect, right? And so we don’t
      think we can sell our business, we don’t think anyone’s going to value it. And the other big
      challenge is we’re pulled in so many different directions, with our families, with everything
      around us, our staff, our businesses, and because of that, it’s very difficult to think about the
      future and to plan for the future, especially if you’re not thinking someone’s going to want to
      buy your company. And you think you can’t sell it,
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      but the truth is, you can sell it. It is valuable, and it takes time, and it takes, in my opinion, an
      advocate who is really advocating for you as the business owner and isn’t interested in a piece
      of your business. I don’t take commission, I don’t take equity. I don’t work that way because I
      don’t think it’s ethical and fair. And there is a place for brokers, there is a place for valuation
      experts, there are places for all those people, but it depends on the circumstances and it
      depends on the goals of the business owner. And I will tell you, when a buyer comes to a
      business owner, that business owner is very unlikely to have thought about what her goals are,
      right? And so the first thing women tell me is, oh, my goal is. I want my staff to be taken care
      of. I want the new buyer to absorb my staff so they don’t lose their jobs.
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      And then I want this, and I want this, and I want this, and it would be really nice if I had some
      money that came out of this, right, right? None of them that I’ve talked to, they’re not
      motivated by retiring. No woman I talked to wants to retire, but they do want to go into the
      third act, right? And they want to do something else, sometimes more creative than what they
      were doing in the second act, right? And the other thing that they don’t want is they don’t want
      to seem greedy. They don’t want to seem selfish. They don’t want to even think about,
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      what do I need? What do I want? Not just about taking care of others. Again, the broken cookie
      effect, right, right? So, so that’s where I specialize, is helping women prepare their companies
      effect, right, right? So, so that’s where I specialize, is helping women prepare their companies
      for their exit. Because it does take time. It is a process. It’s what I call an elegant exit, because I
      will tell you, most exits are very messy and sometimes really painful, and a lot of business
      owners regret that they sold to that buyer, or they made that deal, or they weren’t
      knowledgeable, right? And I’ve been doing this now for 20 years. So that is the the gap that I fill
      in the market in terms of advocating for my clients to make sure they don’t get messed around.
      So that to your question of, well, how do we combat the fact that women aren’t selling their
      company, and they aren’t thinking about that. And that’s my message, is, you may not think
      you can so, but it’s very likely you can, and you need the expertise and the guidance and an
      advocate to help you do so. So important, Patty and I, you know, there’s just things like that
      that
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      you might do differently today, if you if the thought was, does this serve the goal of the
      valuation of my company? And it doesn’t mean either of the things that a or b choice are right
      or wrong, but if a, if it’s a or b, and you don’t care, then let’s choose the which one is going to
      serve the valuation of your company, right? Like and, and so that’s why I think somebody like
      you is important, because I don’t necessarily, how would I know those things, you know, I don’t
      necessarily know if I do A or B, it’s going to serve the valuation of my company and, and these
      are choices that we’re making. I mean, for in my business, for example, many of the choices I
      make last for years. You know, they’re not like, well, tomorrow I’m going to try this, and then
      Wednesday, we’ll do something else. It, you know, these are choices like, when, like, you know,
      we’re recording this. It’s, you know, just about the fall of 2024
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      and I’m making choices now of what all of 2025 is going to look like in my business. You know?
      So.
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      So. So if I’ve got somebody saying, Okay, I see what you’re looking to do here, if you make this
      one little tweak and you focus more on this set thing instead of that thing, you’re adding to
      your valuation, I want to hear that, you know, I still get to make the choice, right? I still get to
      make the choice as to whether I’m going to choose a or b, but I’m it’s more of an informed
      choice, and I think that’s what, what you bring to the table that’s so valuable. Thank you. And
      yes, that is because I’m helping the business owner build real business value, right? And there’s
      a lot of misunderstanding about what that means. Well. And I think when you build, when you
      build, in my experience, when I focus on building real business value for valuation and for the
      long run, it also serves the short term correct? So, so it’s not like I’m, I’m, I’m not sacrificing
      short term value for long term value at all. If anything, the opposite is true Exactly. And in fact,
      that’s what my clients experience, that they’re making more money if their business doesn’t
      feel so much like a burden. There, we’re streamlining a lot of things, especially with technology,
      and making sure the right people are doing the right jobs. So there’s so much because I, you
      know, I’m looking at productivity, and productivity is about, how are you making money, and
      what are you offering, and how are you selling it, and how are you pricing it, right? And the
      pricing goes back to structure. So just like the elegant exit, I have a roadmap. I guide the
      business owner through that so that their exit is not painful. It is not they don’t regret how
      they’ve done it or when they’ve done it, because they’ve gotten really clear on that same thing
      with pricing, that when you build a pricing model and you have a rationale behind that, it
      makes it easier to communicate. It makes it easier for your buyer to understand it. You’re the
      person who’s buying your services, for them to understand what you offer and how you price it,
      and you will feel more confident as you’re talking about it, because there’s a structure around
      it. So all of those things, my goal is to make life better for women business owners, and there
      are many different ways you can do that. The way I’ve chosen is helping with the nuts and
      bolts, first, the operations, the price, and that’s where your book comes in, right? That’s where
      your book comes in. Your book has all of that in it, the book, which is called your hidden
      advantage, right? Your hidden advantage. So that’s where the book comes in, because the
      book helps you with that, like, what’s going on right now? How are you managing everything
      right? A power to attract right fit clients and boost your revenue, which is at the heart of any
      business, right? Is Where are the clients?
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      And then you’ve also got another resource that says, Okay. And then, if you want to think about
      it, tell us about your exit Readiness Index assessment. Yes, so one of the things I mentioned,
      there’s a lot of misinformation, misunderstanding about what real business value is and how to
      become exit ready and exit does not necessarily mean sale. It can and it may mean you want
      to pass your business to your family members or sell to your staff. There’s so many different
      ways to do that. But how could you possibly know that as a business owner, you’ve never been
      through that before. You’re not living in that world, and there is a ton of misinformation. So
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      there you have a lot of choices, which gives you agency. And again, that’s a big focus of what I
      feel is so important for women is to have that agency and to know that you have some choices.
      So the exit Readiness Index helps you determine where you are on your journey for an exit.
      How have you done in terms of building real business value? Where are the gaps, and where do
      those gaps need to be addressed in order to have a valuable asset that somebody else is going
      to recognize has real dollar value. And
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      you know, everything’s contingent on the buyer of your business, because things that you think
      are valuable, they may not right, right? And that is something that we work on very actively,
      because you want to build in several different areas of your business so that you’re as prepared
      as you can be, and you’ve built as much value as you can. So that’s what the readiness the exit
      Readiness Index allows you to do, is to start seeing where the gaps are and.
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      And working to bridge those gaps, that’s amazing. So we’ll put a link in, and that’s free, right,
      correct. Obviously, people have to buy but the and we’ll put a link to that as well, but the exit
      correct. Obviously, people have to buy but the and we’ll put a link to that as well, but the exit
      Readiness Index assessment, we’ll put a link in the show notes here, because that is something
      that we should all be doing. You know, even if you’re like, I hope that we’ve inspired a little bit
      in something today that thinks, well, huh, what if, like, what if I have a surprise event in my life
      that requires me to step away from my business, right? So even if you have no intention of
      selling, maybe this is something I should think about anyway, right?
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      Not that we’re looking for, not that we’re looking for you to focus on the disasters in your life,
      but you know, these, we’re doing this to avoid the disasters right to make for me, shifting that
      mindset, because as a as a child of teachers, and I mean, I have half of New Jersey is employed
      by teachers are employed by my family. And so there’s always a little part of me that thinks,
      you know, oh, they’re retiring now, and they, you know, they have this great pension. I’m still
      working, and blah, blah, you know. So there was always a piece of it that made me feel I’m not
      even going to say, I’m going to use the words less than I don’t. That’s not really the right word,
      because I don’t feel less than but it makes me feel like
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      irresponsible, maybe in some ways, that I haven’t built that, you know, and you could build it in
      savings accounts and IRAs and all that other stuff, right? But still, I didn’t have that same level
      of security. I don’t have that same level of security, and it, it wasn’t until I associated my
      business with that, until, but wait, I have this asset here that you know could, could be the
      difference. It’s not like I’m, it’s not like I’m, I mean, you don’t, you know, not like I’m looking to
      retire today. But I also know that as time, as years go on, you know, you mentioned, you
      mentioned that most of them you talk to, none of them really want to retire. And I fall into that
      category. But at the same time as my friends start to retire, and I get phone calls that say, Hey,
      Karen, we’re going to the Broadway, you know, we’re going to the to the Wednesday matinee
      of this Broadway show on Wednesday, next Wednesday. Why don’t you come with us? And I
      can’t go because I’ve got clients on Wednesdays, you know, like it’s had me shift my business a
      little bit to be able to accommodate that. And how lucky am I that I can right? So it isn’t about
      being able to retire, but it’s about being able to live my third act, to choose the way I spend my
      third act, right? So that I can go to Broadway, you know, luncheon, you know, Wednesday
      matinees, if I want to, and still do whatever it is I want to do in my business. And that’s why it’s
      important to make these choices now, so that we’re building something that serves the life we
      want to have for the rest of our years. Absolutely. And again, this is about, I want things to be
      better for women, to have that flexibility, right? To have the, you know, some of us now have
      grandchildren, right? And we want to spend more time with them, right? We want, we want to
      travel more. So there’s just so much that we have we’re living longer, which also means we
      need to build our wealth as individuals so that we can support ourselves and remain
      independent. So all of those things factor in. Whether or not you want to retire is a very
      personal decision, but having the funds to support yourself and to be independent allows you to
      have those choices, right? Beautiful
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      Patty, I am so grateful that there are women like you out there that support women like me
      that don’t really have a clue about that stuff. So I think that this is such an important
      that don’t really have a clue about that stuff. So I think that this is such an important
      conversation, and I all should be able put Patty’s LinkedIn profile in here too. You really want to
      be connected and following the work that Patty’s doing, because little tips that you hear might
      be you might be able to implement. And you know when you’re ready. We we hire coaches for
      so many things, right? This is an important thing to get support with. And I know I looked for
      this, like, I spent some time looking for this a couple years ago. And, you know, when you talk
      to, when I was talking to, like, people in the in the finance world, right about exits, they didn’t
      really understand the people I talked to anyway, didn’t really understand online businesses. Well, they’re like, Well, how many w2 employees do you have, and what, where’s your you
      know, how much do you pay for rent, for your bill? Like, they didn’t really understand the
      business model, because they think, okay, you’re a you’re a CPA in a CPA office, and you’re
      looking to sell it like, so it’s so finding somebody that can really get into the understanding of of
      your business and help you create something that really has a nice, juicy valuation. So when
      that day comes that you want to take advantage of it, you can. There’s nothing more
      important, I think that we can do it in our businesses, right? Because, again, it’s serving today
      as well. It’s not just serving that someday, it’s also serving today. So I feel like I am not on the,
      you know, I’m in the I’m the president.
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      Of the patty block fan club, and I think you all should be members. So thank you so much for
      being here with us. Patty I appreciate you. And I think that you know my mission is for there to
      be more wealthy women in the world. And I think that you know we align there, and this
      conversation is such an important conversation for those women. So thank you. Thank you
      again. It’s so important to me to get the message out to help women shift the way they’re
      thinking. And you’re helping me do that, and so I really appreciate that. So thank you for having
      me today. Oh, well, then listen, it’s a mutual admiration society. So if you’re listening to this
      and you want to, you know we’re giving you all kinds of links below into how you can connect
      with Patty and learn more about the work she does. Work she does. If you want to learn more
      about the work that we’re doing over at she’s linked up, just grab a spot on our calendar. Karen
      yankovich.com/call,
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      get you to our calendar. We’ve got some we’ve reshifted how we’re doing things as we’re
      moving into 2025 and we’re starting now. We’re starting now with, you know, testing some of
      these new ways that we’re showing up in our programs and with the work that we’re doing.
      Because as I not just bring evaluation to my business, I want to bring more money into your
      business, right? So as we see things that shift in the market and in the world, we’re shifting
      along with them. So we’ve got big changes. And she’s linked up and our she’s linked up
      program this year. So if you want to hear about them. No obligation. Grab a spot on our
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      women in the world, right? So that’s where, this is where it all starts, right by just supporting
      each other. So I will be back here next week with another episode and Patty. Thank you so
      much for being here with me today. Thank you.