253 – Donna Cravotta’s Secrets to Building a Thriving Personal Brand

This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media CEO and LinkedIn expert, Karen Yankovich. In this episode, guest Donna Cravotta and Karen Yankovich discuss the secrets to building a thriving personal brand.

Donna Cravotta is the CEO and Founder of Cravotta Media Group and the creator of the Mix Tape-brand story reels, BeVisible.club a group learning community, and The Real 50 over 50, a visibility project featuring 50+ women who are quietly making a difference. After years of creating marketing strategies and building customized online platforms, Donna saw a recurring theme. Clients had gaps in their own stories. They left out parts of the journey that got them to where they are today. This gap created a disconnect in their work and in their marketing. So she flipped her own story, spent a year learning how to redesign 40 years of experience to help entrepreneurs, and now her focus is on guiding clients as they pull together all of the parts to their stories and mix tried and true strategies with new technology to be visible and connect with their perfect audiences.

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About the Episode:

Hey there, it’s Karen Yankovich, and welcome back to this special podcast series where we’ve been diving deep into personal branding and social media strategies with the incredible Donna Cravotta. Donna has been sharing her wealth of knowledge on building authentic connections, the ethical use of AI in branding, and the often-overlooked importance of listening on social media. Today, I want to summarize the key takeaways from our enlightening conversations with Donna.

Building Authentic Connections:

Donna has repeatedly stressed the paramount importance of authenticity in personal branding. She’s emphasized how showing up as your true self on social media platforms is a game-changer. Genuine human connections, both online and offline, play a pivotal role in growing your personal brand and, by extension, your business.

Using AI Ethically:

We delved deep into the ethical considerations of using AI in personal branding. Donna shared some incredible insights into the opportunities AI presents for content creation and automation. However, she made it crystal clear that maintaining a human touch is non-negotiable. Donna’s message is clear: never compromise authenticity when leveraging AI tools to elevate your personal brand.

The Importance of Listening on Social Media:

One of the standout topics from our discussions was the often-overlooked social media strategy of listening. Donna has drawn from her wealth of experience and shared her strategies for engaging your audience by actively listening to their needs and concerns. It’s all about identifying your ideal clients, understanding their pain points, and using that knowledge to tailor your content and approach.

Conclusion:

Donna Cravotta’s expertise in personal branding and social media has been a treasure trove of knowledge for those looking to build a thriving personal brand. So, remember, my friends, that authenticity, ethical use of AI, and active listening are the cornerstones of creating meaningful connections and propelling your personal brand to new heights. We hope you’ve enjoyed this series as much as we have and that it’s inspired you as you embark on your own personal branding journey.

Episode Spotlights:

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

  • “Authenticity is where the power is, and I think there’s nothing more authentic than just being yourself and having a genuine conversation.” — Karen Yankovich
  • “You need to learn how to listen with your eyes, with your ears, you need to feel it in your gut, in your heart, and your brain. And that’s when you make good decisions.” — Donna Cravotta
  • “This is where you’re gonna find your 20 people.” — Donna Cravotta
  • “Building your personal brand isn’t about being someone else; it’s about being more of who you already are.” — Karen Yankovich

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Karen Yankovich 0:00
You’re listening to the good girls get rich podcast episode 253.

Intro 0:06
Welcome to the good girls get rich podcast with your host, Karen Yankovich. This is where we embrace how good you are girl. Stop being the best kept secret in town, learn how to use simple LinkedIn and social media strategies and make the big bucks.

Karen Yankovich 0:21
Hello, hello, and welcome to the good girls get rich podcast. I’m your host, Karen Yankovich. And I am so excited for this show today. Donna Cravotta and I met a few years ago and we are talking all things networking and business building and speaking event and AI which I learned so much from her about AI and some of the things that she’s diving into. You are absolutely going to love Donna, check it out. I am so happy to have Donna Cravotta. With us today Donna provided is the CEO and founder of crevado Media Group. And the creator of the mixtape brand story reels be visible club, a group learning community and the real 50 over 50 Visibility Project featuring 50 plus women who are quietly making a difference. After years of creating marketing strategies and building customized online platforms. Dinosaur recurring themes, her clients had gaps in their own stories, they left out parts of their journey that got them to where they are today. And the gap created a disconnect in their work and in their marketing. So she flipped her own story spent a year learning how to redesign 40 years of experience to help entrepreneurs. And now our focus is on guiding clients as they pull together all the parts of their stories and mix tried and true strategies with new technology to be visible and connected with their perfect audiences. Donna, I am so happy to have this conversation. We get to talk for like two hours before I hit record here. And like we’re like, No, we’re just talking about all the seven favorite for the show.

Donna Cravotta 1:49
Oh my goodness, we could go on for days.

Karen Yankovich 1:51
Donna, do you remember where we first met?

Donna Cravotta 1:53
I do. I was speaking and you were the only person in the audience, right?

Karen Yankovich 1:57
Yeah, I was we were both speaking at this event. And there was I think six people, it was a big event. And there were six, like six, six attendees at the event. And thankfully, I mean, I knew of you and I think I don’t know how we knew of each other. But I was like, Oh my gosh, somebody that I because it was I think I either I stayed for your talk, or you stayed for my talk, because I think it was just like, oh, I can’t like one of us felt pity on the other one saying I can’t leave this person alone. I don’t remember which way it went. But it was and it was, but it was, you know, nothing else this you know, we got to know each other better. Right? So for those of you that are speakers out there, just know this is gonna happen to you someday. You know? Yeah, you’re gonna walk into a room and there could be two people in the audience. My gosh, so you’ve had quite a journey since then you’ve done well, I remember when we first met your focus. You had a heavy focus on PR at the time. I still do. Yeah. So tell me about that. Tell us a little bit about that.

Donna Cravotta 2:55
Well, I before I started my business in 2006, I worked for 27 years in law firms. And I was a project manager. And one of the things that I did was I helped create their marketing department. And I launched financial applications and marketing applications. I created their online training environment in 2003. Because they wanted me to take my son to Asia for a month and he was six months old. And I was like, yeah, that’s just not happening. So I was like, look, we’ve got a Citrix account, it’s $200 a month, let’s go virtual. And I did, I created this whole, like global trading environment there. But part of what I did was I managed the media kits and the mergers and acquisitions transactions for this large global law firm, and I managed the media kits of 250 partners. And I was kind of like the interface to the legal publications. But I didn’t realize I was doing PR because it was just work. And it was like, Oh, if nobody else could do it, let’s give it to Donna. And when I started my business I saw like it was a little after I started my business when social media came out. And I started to see how the pieces were coming together. I saw that there was a real connection between social media, SEO, content development and PR. And this was like 2009 2010, I started pulling these pieces together, and nobody was really doing it back then. And

Karen Yankovich 4:25
we still aren’t, we know it. But there’s very few people that are pulling it together.

Donna Cravotta 4:30
And it works. When you can pull, you’ve got to include all the parts you got that include all the parts of your story, you’ve got to include all of the parts of what you’re doing. Otherwise, there are these gaps. And those gaps are the things that create the disconnect, and that’s where things don’t work. And that’s when you go and you hire somebody for way more money than you could afford that you don’t really need and you start buying tools you don’t need and you start doing all the things you don’t need, because you’re looking for the answers externally. But when you put All of your parts together, you’re getting the answers from yourself. And like we’re all personal brands, we’re not Coca Cola. We’re not Federal Express, you know, we’re, we’re small, tiny little businesses, we need to operate as such. And what attracts people to us is who we are. And that’s what I help people do. And whether that comes out in their content, or that comes out in PR, or that comes out in their social media. When they become you know, more one with themselves, everything else becomes easier.

Karen Yankovich 5:31
Oh, my gosh, well, you’re speaking my language, because that’s really one of the reasons why I leaned into LinkedIn so hard, because I think that that’s where, you know, when I asked, Can I ask 100 people? Where did you get your biggest clients from? They tell me a referral. And like, okay, but you’re spending all your marketing time on Facebook? What are you doing about meeting the kinds of people that can give you more referrals? Right, and you get referrals when you personally, are worthy of them, and you look worthy of them, and you’ve taken the time to, to show up worthy of them. And just from a PR perspective, you know, we incorporate PR into everything we do in our LinkedIn programs, from a perspective of are you building relationships with the journalists that write about what you do, right? When we paid you know, when you when the days when you paid $20,000 a month for a PR firm? You’re paying for the Rolodex, right. So let’s turn right now I know how old I am, right. But, but here’s the here’s the deal. Like, I think what where that comes back to your brand is if you’re featured in podcasts, and newspapers and magazines and things like that, your SEO was growing, your Google juice is growing. And when people check you out before they’re ready to hire you, you check out, right. And that’s all stuff that is free, that you can be doing that you just strengthening your foundation. So I love that you’re talking about

Donna Cravotta 6:44
one thing that I always tell people is you’re either going to spend time or you’re going to spend money, it’s one or the other. So spend the time first. Because if you are going to hire an agency, spend the time to learn how to do this. Right, you hire the right agency. So you know the right questions to ask. So you know what you’re getting. But quite honestly, with PR, for companies like hours, it makes no sense to hire somebody to do exactly the relationships are what matter. And once you build the relationships, you really never pitch again. I mean, I’ve been invited in the last two weeks to speak to be on podcast to be an expert in a community. I didn’t pitch a thing ever. Because

Karen Yankovich 7:25
Oh my God, that’s beautiful. You guys listen to this, this is that magnetic marketing that I talked about that it can be magnetic, you don’t have to be out there cold calling? I mean, I’m not saying don’t, you know, certainly if there’s a reason to reach out to people that you know, you want to be on their podcast, or things like that, by all means there’s a way to do that, and a way to do that authentically. But the more you build these relinked relationships and strengthen them, the more your marketing becomes magnetic, and that is the beauty of being an online entrepreneur, right when your marketing is magnetic. Yeah,

Donna Cravotta 7:59
it just happens. And then you’re like, what happens with me a lot is I work with clients, and then they never tell me that, like the work we did together resulted in XYZ. Because what happens is when they start to implement these strategies, things just happen. And they don’t think back. Oh, well, that happened because I worked with Donna. So in the beginning, when I started to do this, I used to take this personally. But now I celebrate it because it means that they’ve built this so seamlessly into what they’re doing. Yeah, that it doesn’t have anything to do with me anymore. Yeah, I

Karen Yankovich 8:34
love that. I love that. And this isn’t not even the direction we thought this was this conversation was talking about a lot more to talk about. But this is such an important topic that I want to stay here for a minute. Because here’s what happens when you start doing these kinds of things. Right? When you’re interviewed on a podcast, you you know, when I when I’m interviewed on a podcast, typically people will say at the end, and we’ll do this for you at the end of this show. How can people find out more about you? And I say, Well, we’ve got this great quiz, check out LinkedIn quiz.com, you can find out how to get started with LinkedIn tells you a little bit about depending on your marketing style, how to get started, that builds my email list. And I’m not paying for Facebook ads to do that, right. So so these relationships they filter down into the traditional well maybe it’s not on if it’s traditional anymore, but the the more modern marketing things of building your email list, because you are building these relationships with the media and you’re getting your name and your content and your lead magnets in front of the front of the your audience without having to spend a ridiculous amount of money on ads.

Donna Cravotta 9:32
I don’t ever use Facebook, Facebook ads. I think the last time I had a bill from them was maybe five or six years ago and it was $600 for the year.

Karen Yankovich 9:43
I spent an ridiculous I’m not against using ADS but I’m not using Facebook ads anytime soon again because it just doesn’t

Donna Cravotta 9:49
know I’m not against it either. I don’t find that I need them. And like one of the things that happens with this whole online world. It gets this magical like equation to it. That is based in reality, and you know, you start to see what other people are doing. And other people may not be totally transparent with what it takes to do their multi six figure launch. Right, right. And it’s a lot of work and it’s expensive, and you need people and you need systems and you need processes and tools and all of these things. But do we really need that? Right to Know what actually need? So like, when I start to work with people, the first thing I ask them is, how many clients do you need? We’re not even starting till you figure that out? Because we’re gonna base it on what your goal is. Right? Right. Somebody else’s goal is, you know, and love than, and in most cases, they need 20 clients a year. Alright, so if we you need 20 clients a year, you need to get in front of 1000 people with those 1000 people. Right? Right. That’s right. So let’s spend, let’s spend our time figuring out who were those 1000 people? What is going to attract them? What do they need? What are they not? What do they need that they don’t know that they need? How can you provide that? And that’s it. And let’s start there. Beautiful. Instead of starting with, you know, we need to reach 10,000 people,

Karen Yankovich 11:11
right? So you have a snazzy new employee on your team, don’t

Donna Cravotta 11:14
you? I do. Her name is chatty.

Karen Yankovich 11:18
Chatty, tell us about chatty,

Donna Cravotta 11:20
Chatty’s pink. She has a pink brain with a tiara and a wand. Okay. So I started working with chatty.

Karen Yankovich 11:30
How’s your chatty is first of all having occluded all the way? Yes.

Donna Cravotta 11:34
Okay. So it’s, it’s it’s chat GPT or other AI tools because I use an assortment of them. But when chat GPT came out on November 30, I was ready to launch a cohort, the six week cohort of how to pitch things because my entrepreneur friends that train coaches and speakers and authors, were telling me that they have clients that don’t know how to pitch anything. And I was like, Well, I’ve been doing this since 1997. You know, I could, I could pitch in my sleep. And I put together a whole six week cohort thing to help people learn how to pitch. And then Chachi it was supposed to launch first week in December and November 30. The chat GPT came out. And I was like, well, it’s back to the drawing board because this is going to be irrelevant by Tuesday. And I spent the last.

Karen Yankovich 12:24
I’m glad you recognize that because I was like, Oh, this is the this is the thing that’s putting me over the edge. My brain can’t learn one more new thing. This is the first new thing I’m not going to learn well, so much for that because I absolutely love it now, but my first reaction was oh, hell no, I can’t take on one more. I can’t learn one more thing. But it has frickin exploded. That

Donna Cravotta 12:42
was my take on on tick tock tick tock, but but chatty PT what I saw instantly that it could minimize the amount of time that the tasks take. And the research takes on so many of the things that I teach people, and they lose focus, because they get overwhelmed by the tasks and the resources. And they don’t realize that the process of going through the process is the magical part. That’s the part where you really learn, that’s where the things come together. But they don’t want to do it, they want to outsource it to somebody else. And these are things you can outsource. So chat GPT and other AI tools kind of made this all more feasible and like easier to, you know, show them how you can get through this process. So what I did, I did not talk about it for a long time, because I didn’t want to be that person like I’ve done this for 20 years. Now, I’m an AI expert, I am not an AI expert, there are a handful, nobody,

Karen Yankovich 13:39
how can anybody be an AI expert in their area, because they’ve been

Donna Cravotta 13:43
working on this for 1020 years. That’s true. That’s trading today, you know, and those are the people from those are the people that I’m learning from. And I really feel that even whoever is using these tools, we have a responsibility to understand the way they work. Because this is not just a productivity tool, this can change, this will change and it’s already changing systems of our society, education, governments, health care, I have afib. And there’s a shopping cart now where you can put your hand on the handle of a shopping cart, and it checks your heart rate. Wow, know where it’s too. But it’s you know, you really need to be careful about what you’re sharing the tools that you’re using, because there are 1000s of tools coming out every week right? Now, you learn before you start giving a lot of information to a tool, learn what that tool is learn who created it learn, you know, what do they stand for? Because there’s a whole dark side to this and we don’t want to contribute to that accidentally, you know, so there’s a responsibility in using the tools.

Karen Yankovich 14:50
So tell us but how would we get started so when you when you’re when you’re saying okay, so I was ready to create this whole pitch workshop and I knew it was going to be outdated by Tuesday. Like, how would you use your new employee chatty to create pitches?

Donna Cravotta 15:05
Okay, well, let me let me just explain first when I brought chatty on board, I my

Karen Yankovich 15:11
chat my chat up to his name is Gary and

Donna Cravotta 15:16
Chatty and Gary have a have a Yeah. I did an onboarding process for her, Oh, just as I would for an employee, because, you know, I’m asking chatty to do things for me that I would ask an employee or a contractor to do for me. And you know, one of the first things I learned how to do is how do I customize these tools? So they they feel like me, they sound like me. And a couple of things that I did well, now it’s easier because like in chat, GBT, there’s a new if you have the paid version, which, if you’re going to use it, spend the 20 bucks. Yeah, I agree, I have the paper out. Don’t even bother with the free, right, the free is faster. But it’s not as accurate. And you can add things to the paid version that you can add to the free version. And one of the things that you can do in the paid version is it has a customization option. So you can go in there and tell it who you are, what you do. And it will take that into account every time. It works with you. And now I learned this morning that there’s a new update for the paid version, where it’s going to take the prompts that you put in there, and it’s going to make them better. And it’s going to put that information in the in what they in the output, like in the section before the output. And what you can do there as you can go back and look at its thought process. Wow, wait, it’s prompting, and then use that. Use that in the future. But now just to get back to how I onboarded chatti is I went through everything I’m doing in my business. And I mean, like when I started my business, I was a VA. And I would give my clients a spreadsheet of like a piece of paper to fill out four columns. This is the task. This makes sense for me to do I want to continue doing it. I don’t know how to do this. And I never want to know how I hate doing this. And I never want to do it again. So those last two columns are the things that chatty can be tasked with, but who each one. And okay, so what information does this robot that has hallucinations needs to know. So we can get the most accurate information out of it. And like just like when you would bring a person on board to work with you, you can’t just hand over your work and say do this, I don’t want to do this anymore, you have to bring them on board and show them the way your business works and what you want them to do, why they’re doing it, and give them this background. So it makes sense to them. Otherwise, the delegation is not successful. So you have to do a version of that with the with AI tools as well, to be able to share this, so they’ll give you back the best information possible. When you’re prompting, and that’s when you’re asking it for specific information, you want to keep a couple of things in mind unless you’re on Bing, or Bard. The information it’s pulling from is a data source that ended in September 2021. So if you’re asking it for hashtags, or keywords, or a list of current events, or anything that’s news related, it’s only going to pull from old information. And if you ask it for information that it cannot easily get for you. It’s trying to please you. So it’s going to make things up. And those are called hallucinations.

Karen Yankovich 18:39
That’s so interesting, it’s an interesting way to look at it, because it will remind you of that, yeah, remind you of that. And it’s important to know this as a content creator, I haven’t actually used it yet to create unique content, like I’ve used it to do like a lot of post production on my podcast, right? So it takes the podcast, you know, transcription and it does all the things. So I’m not too worried about hallucinations there because I’m sending it the transcript, you know, however, just this week, for the first time, I uploaded the transcript, and I have to upload it in parts and it’s got all that down pat. And then I’m like, okay, create some show notes. And the show notes had nothing to do with the transcript. I was like, What the heck, I thought maybe I uploaded the wrong transcript. Like I finally had to give it back to my assistant to go. I don’t know what’s going on here. But it was so so it’s interesting to me, because what started the conversation that started the conversation of I want to talk about this on my show was me on LinkedIn saying, What do I do about the fact that my chat GPT is getting better and better and better at understanding what I want, but yet I don’t want to be doing more and more of his work. I want to be able to outsource a lot more of this to my team. How does my team have their chat GPT get better and better and better at understanding my voice. You know, and I was I was like that was the universe kind of dumping that back on my lap going I don’t know but you better figure it out. You know, because it’s So I sent it back to my team and was like, and you know, they’re gonna be laughing when they hear this, but I was like, I don’t know what just happened. But I’m putting this back in your lap for a couple of weeks. And let’s see how let’s see how it goes. Hey there, Karen, I just want to jump in for a minute and remind you that I am here to support you with all of the things we’re talking about here today, and introducing you to beautiful people like Donna and more people in my network in your life with the work that we’re doing in our she’s linked up accelerator program. It is a 12 week program that helps you understand how to get more impact influence in income in your life, by creating a strong personal brand, so that you are connecting with people at the highest level, putting those amazing people on your calendar, and building your business to a quarter million half million million dollar multimillion dollar business in record time, I would love to tell you all about it. The first step is grabbing a spot on my calendar, Karen yankovich.com/call, get you to that calendar. And on those calls, we just spend a couple of minutes with you getting some clarity around what you’re looking to do, we’re always looking to provide value on those calls. And if we think it’s a fit that we think we can support you and help you, we’ll tell you what that looks like there’s a few options. And the only way to know it is to jump on a call with us. So if you want to know once and for all, what it looks like to step into a more powerful role in your life in your business. I want to see your name on the calendar

Donna Cravotta 21:30
can give a few suggestions if you’d like I would love that. They can add paragraph or two on say of of something that you’ve already got in your voice right? And say have it pick up this voice.

Karen Yankovich 21:43
So ChatGPT, btw does recognize my voice probably because I have 250 podcast episodes on Google going back five, six years, right. So you can say in Karen Yankovich His voice, which by the way is pretty creepy. Because sometimes when I type something and then say please put this in Karen Yankovich voice, it makes it sound more like me than when I typed it in the first

Donna Cravotta 22:03
it’s looking to please you, right, and it’s looking to do the best job it possibly can with the parameters that it has. But you the trick is staying in between staying in the parameters of what it can do. Because when you ask it to do something that it can’t do, that’s when it goes and starts hallucinating. And when it hallucinates, it makes up things, and then it starts to believe it. So it really goes down that path. And another another thing that’s really valuable to know is it works best when you’re working on a subject matter that you really know. Because you’ll know right away, like like your own voice, you know, this is not true. Your podcast, you know, this is not true. But if you’re using this to get like, you know, like some kind of like evidence based data about something that you don’t really know about, you need to do, you know, allow the time for the extra research to make sure that what you’re sharing is accurate, because it has really good for getting External links, and finding things that validate what you’re talking about. But you also don’t want to validate it with something that’s untrue. Right? That’s gonna defeat the purpose altogether of what you’re trying to achieve. But like, as you’re bringing it on board, like thinking like go through task by task, what would you have it do for you? And what do you want that end result to be, and then build your prompts around that. And then you know, your team should also understand the way that it works. So they can like go this a step further than you I mean, it’s a process, just like when you hire an employee, you know that you’re gonna need to invest like a couple of months of working a little more with them, until they get on board and understand all of the ins and outs of your business. And this is no different. And even if your team has worked with you for a long time, you know, when you bring on another team member, you need to be the glue that holds them all together. Right? It’s the same, right? So think about the things like where could this be really useful? And no, also No, I mean, this is the thing that drives me nuts about the whole thing is people are using this as a catch all this is going to be the answer to everything. This is going to solve every problem I have. No, that’s never going to be the case. You don’t even want that to be the case. But how can it help you with the things that are repetitive, that you know, that maybe you need a brainstorming partner because we’re basically doing this alone or in a really small group and it’s hard, we do a lot of things. And you know, regardless of the size of our business, we’re still doing almost all the things a big company does, and we’re doing it ourselves. So like, you know, my head is like a spinning spreadsheet all the time. You know, to have somebody to say hey, what do you think about this that isn’t like at is really helpful. So

Karen Yankovich 24:58
I love that. I love that And I want more tips. The first time I used really use chat TPT, which really got me into it was I had, I was hiring somebody to do some marketing thing for me. And I got like a 50,000 page intake form. And I was like, Oh my God, who does your ideal client, listen to podcasts? What books do they read? And all those things, right? And I know the answers to these things, but I just couldn’t think of any of them. So I would literally go into chat GPT and I would describe my ideal client and say, What podcasts I listen to and now like, oh, right, you know, Brene Brown. Oh, right. This one like, it was like, it wasn’t like they were like, it wasn’t like it was giving me things that that it was inauthentic. It authentically jogged my brain. Yeah. And I was like, this is cool. It took me 1/10 of the amount of time to complete that form that it might have taken me without it. So that’s when I was like, Okay, this is cool. This is really cool. This is this is I need to do, I need to learn more about this. Right. So. So I just I still use it for things like that sometimes, you know, and, you know, and again, we right now we’re using it, I use it to jog my brain and post production by podcast primarily. Sometimes I do things like we like I didn’t use it to get some help with the quiz that I created recently, which was, again, took me 1/10 of the amount of time that it might have taken me otherwise, you still have to be part of that equation. Absolutely. Because there were things that I was like, No, that’s not right. No, that’s not right. I don’t like this. I don’t like that. And then I was pulling from this and pulling from that and pulling it together and saying that and one of the things that we did for the quiz, and those of you that haven’t taken the quiz yet sure the LinkedIn quiz.com. But one of the things that I did was I asked Chad GPT to because I have a like this right brain left brain thing going on, right? So I’m like, recommend a crystal that’s going to enhance the energy for this, this style type, you know, but then I had to go in and I know a lot about crystals, but I don’t know everything that I had to go in and Google the crystal to make sure that that information on that Crystal was actually accurate. You know what I mean? But it gave me some great ideas. And I’m like, Oh, my gosh, that’s a great crystal for this, right? So it was it was fun to be able to use to do those kinds of things. But for sure, I didn’t go in and modify it and make sure that it was it was what I wanted it to be right. In fact, there’s a couple things that I still want to add to the quiz funnel that I haven’t added yet, because I did not write yet. You know what I mean? I’m like, I need to take a break from this and come back to it. Because this is off. This is definitely not the right vibe that I want to share with this. So before we move on to there’s one other topic I want to talk about here today. Before we move on to that what else should we know about Chad TPT? And how are you serving people with this now?

Donna Cravotta 27:24
Okay, so I just want to swing back to the paid version of changes. Yep, there’s a couple of other things that it will do. One of the new things that it will do is it’s going to start giving you suggestions the way like when you Google something Google gives you hints. So they just launched this, like this week. So it’ll start trip trickling into people’s accounts. But as you start typing a prompt, it’s going to start giving you suggestions, so you could make your prompts better. And then you could also add plugins. So there are over 700 different plugins that you could add. So we could do other things like have it read a PDF, or have it read a link or have it read. What’s coming soon is having the ability to summarize a YouTube video. But there are also Yeah, like you can go to Claude II, which is part of anthropic, and on the free version, you can put in a YouTube link, and it will summarize the YouTube

Karen Yankovich 28:20
video. Awesome. We’ll put links to all this in the show notes. So

Donna Cravotta 28:24
yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely get the paid version of chat GPT. The tool set that I’ve been using, currently is the chat GPT for anthropic Claude to perplexity, which is another great tool, I just use the free version of it, but it says great summaries, and it does other things in there that are really cool. And what, what perplexity will do is when you put information in there, it asks you for clarification, ooh, which is really nice. So and then the other tool that I’m using is a paid tool. It’s called writer.com. Okay, I love the company. I love the CEO, I love what they’re doing some, and they have like a whole onboarding process of, you know, how you write. So when you put the information in there, it’s like, curating content for you, based on the way that you write. And that would be really helpful with the team, because all of this stuff is built into the back end. And you could actually

Karen Yankovich 29:29
put so we could be working off of one account instead of each having our own. Yes, that’s nice. That’s because that’s kind of what I’m waiting for in chat GPT that I because what right now the issue is, if I have my team member, do all this post production stuff, and then I look at it and I want to make edits. I have to either do it manually. I can’t run it. I’d have to start from scratch on my own jet. I can’t go into his chat GPT and say, Now take this and do this. I can’t do that because, you know,

Donna Cravotta 29:55
a writer account would serve you well. And you could put snippets in there, so like you could put phrases that you say all the time, you could put, you know, different things that you want it to be pulling on a regular basis that are no. And it’s only $18 a month. I mean, we’re not talking. Right. And the company, I mean, just like, follow them on LinkedIn. They’re doing incredible work. I mean, I’m a writer.writer.writer.com. Yeah, I’m just blown away at the intelligence and the caring of some of the people that are like the rocket scientists in this field.

Karen Yankovich 30:32
Beautiful, beautiful. So you are doing AI roundtables, right? roundtables around. Yeah,

Donna Cravotta 30:38
a little bit about that. I did one of like, two weeks ago, because I was what I did was like created, after I realized that my little six week cohort was going to be extinct. I realized that we need to be able to do this in community. Because this work is going to change constantly. What worked yesterday isn’t going to work today, what works now isn’t going to work in an hour. Right? So but I also wanted to tie it to the work that I have done for decades now. And what I did was I created a community, it’s a learning community and an exploration community called Be visible dot club. And in there were going through, like connecting those gaps in your story, connecting with your audience, finding your audience creating content. There’s a whole like, PR masterclass that I’ve been giving for years that I updated, and, and how to use AI ethically and responsibly and creatively and practically. And so yeah, I’ve had that going for a couple of months with the core group, and now opening it up. And hopefully, I’m building my business family in there. And I’m really excited about it

Karen Yankovich 31:51
links, all of that shown,

Donna Cravotta 31:53
and the way that I’m marketing it, because it’s very different. There’s nothing else like it. I realized I couldn’t market it the way you’d market anything else. So I’m doing roundtables and they just open discussions.

Karen Yankovich 32:04
I love that I’ve done roundtables, and I really enjoy doing round tables.

Donna Cravotta 32:09
I mean, I think I totally forgot to market my thing with the conversation, but I’m doing another one with AI and PR. And I’m just going to do them like different topics and like how cool

Karen Yankovich 32:23
is together? Cool. Well, we’ll have links to all of that in the show notes. Speaking of your business family, you started a movement this year,

Donna Cravotta 32:31
I did

Karen Yankovich 32:33
tell us about that movement, because I freaking love it.

Donna Cravotta 32:37
You’re part of it.

Karen Yankovich 32:38
I know, I’m excited, I can’t wait.

Donna Cravotta 32:41
It’s called the real 50 of 50. And I woke up with an idea that it’s wonderful what Forbes does when they’re 50, over 50 and 30, over 30 and 30, over 50. And all of these lists. Anytime you can shine a light on women doing good work in the world, it’s important and should be celebrated. But they’re missing an entire segments of the population. And I sat down and in 15 minutes, I made a list of 50 women that I personally know that are over the age of 50 and doing really good work in the world. And I called it the real 50 over 50 which the hashtag was available the domain was available.

Karen Yankovich 33:23
Yeah, so the universe aligned to make this work. Not just that,

Donna Cravotta 33:27
that was a big indicator that nobody is having this conversation hate. My, my, you know, my second after I was like, Okay, this is an idea. I checked it with my friend. She said yes. Great idea. I started doing keyword research. The keyword research resulted in what not to do after 50 what not to eat, you’re slowly dying every day, how to date, how not to date, what to do with your hair, don’t wear that makeup anymore, you know? And I just like one, meaningful conversation happening here. And like of all the women I know, we would not talk about any of that. We just wouldn’t talk about any of that we would talk about 800 other things. It wouldn’t be any of that.

Karen Yankovich 34:08
Oh my gosh, that’s so that’s so true. That’s so true. I can’t imagine ever sitting around a table with my friends going, what are you wearing this week?

Donna Cravotta 34:20
So I started reaching out to people and I filled it up. I mean, we had our first interview in March of 2023. This is now August 2023. We’ve had 18 interviews. We’ve got interviews booked all the way through to May 1 2024 weekly interviews every Wednesday at noon Eastern time. They’re live on LinkedIn, Facebook and YouTube. The majority of the activity happens on LinkedIn. And so far we’ve got a collective reach of over 600,000 people.

Karen Yankovich 34:55
Oh yeah. Oh, yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. And it was so funny because I saw it. And I’m like, this is really cool. I should let you know how I get busy. And I’m like, I gotta check this out. It’s on my to do list probably stayed. And if I look back, it’s probably still in my inbox somewhere that I saved because I was gonna read that email that I never got back to. And then finally I reached out, I’m like, no, no, I need to be a part of this. And you were like, cool guy. It’s great. Here’s the link. And I was like, when is my interview? Like, she’s got people lined up every I think it’s like January or something. October, I was in October, okay. All right. But I was like, wow, like, this isn’t. But I was so amazed by that. Because it’s so it’s so important. And I think it’s such a important part of this conversation is, these are women that are making a difference in the world. These are women that are step and this is where the difference happens in the world, I believe. And, you know, one of the things that I get interviewed for a podcast recently, and it was so funny that they were stuck on this, because they were a lot younger than me. And they were stuck on this thing about why I believe you should just tell people how old you are on LinkedIn. I’m like, well, cuz if the minute you say, You’re younger than you say, you are somebody’s gonna post your 40th high school reunion picture somewhere, and they’re gonna,

Donna Cravotta 36:05
like, it is gonna lie about it. And the

Karen Yankovich 36:08
reality is like, and like you come to this, if you come to this, owning your owning every decade, and like remembering how much experience you have, and, and what you bring to the table, every one not that you’re not not that I’m dissing the 30 year olds out there, because I was a 30 year old and I hustle that 30. Right. But, but it’s different. It’s different now. And, and it’s not better or worse. It’s just different. And it’s okay, that it’s different. And I love that you are helping women step into and owning that, which is a big part of the conversation that I have. Maybe that needs to be a whole topic on the show. But it’s a big conversation that I have about, like people who care and if somebody’s not going to hire you, because they know how old you are. They’re not the right client for you. Well,

Donna Cravotta 36:50
again, we go back to I need 20 clients next trait.

Karen Yankovich 36:53
Right? Exactly. And you know what I can I gotta tell you something done. And when I’m speaking at events in person, I get that question probably more from men than I get from women. Which is interesting. Should I put my age on here? Should I put when I worked at McDonald’s and you know, 1975, or whatever? Like, I mean, I, it’s more men, I worry about that than women, which I, which I love, first of all, but And you’re right, how many clients do you need, we can find them? That’s, that’s such an important piece. You know, I can’t use that same theory. When people say my clients aren’t on LinkedIn, I’m like, Well, you need 20. You think we can’t find 20 of your clients on LinkedIn, but I think we can. And you don’t have to go to places all the time. You know, this is important process.

Donna Cravotta 37:35
This is the other thing that I have been saying, for years, listening is the most overlooked social media strategy, because people don’t listen. And you need to learn how to listen with your eyes with your ears, you need to feel it in your gut, in your heart and your brain. And that’s when you make good decisions.

Karen Yankovich 37:53
You know what? It’s so interesting. You’re saying that because one of the things I remember you saying that very first day we met was that, and you were saying I think you were talking about? Do you remember this Tylenol story, the Tylenol, you were saying that Tylenol listens on social media, and they look for people that use hashtag headache, and they jump into the conversations. And they send them samples or something like that. I don’t remember the exact details. But you were taught, but I remember that thinking that’s freaking brilliant. You know, like, instead of being out there trying to get people to stop to join the conversation, you started, jump into conversations people are already having, because you’re listening to those conversations, as opposed to trying to start like something new, like these conversations are already happening, just become a part of those conversations.

Donna Cravotta 38:39
I’ve had clients that don’t post ever, I don’t post that much. I don’t either. I go for fine. Where I started all this, the client that really helped helped me to pull all of this together. It was around 2010. She was a hand model. And she had a line of anti aging hand care products. And she was paying a PR firm $5,000 a month to get her into all the big print magazines, which they did. It did a phenomenal job. But they didn’t know social media. So they were trying to get me that PR agency was trying to get me to teach them social media for nothing while she was paying them 505,000 A month, I wasn’t getting paid 5000 What to do every night because and models do nothing. And I just I have to say to my client, I said, Well, you know, why don’t we flip that? Why don’t you fire the PR agency. And let’s let’s go all in with this. And that’s where I learned SEO. That’s where I pulled in my PR skills. And we started following the hashtag dry hands in three time zones at 11 o’clock at night. And I would follow the hashtags. I was one of the first 100 people that had a Hootsuite account, and I had all the streams set up and I’d lay in bed and I’d follow the streams and I’d send 20% off discounts for all luxurious am cream, and we sold with no budget at all. Over $100,000 worth of hand cream in eight months. Oh my gosh, this literally,

Karen Yankovich 40:05
this is like we could this is. Remember when I started this conversation that I said this, this is gonna be a long one. So. So that’s an entire another it’s an entire other conversation we could be having about listening because it is, it is so important. But it all kind of comes back down to for me all the things we talked about here today. ties back into authenticity, right authenticity and relationships, and and genuinely showing up as who you are, and having conversations with people, even if you but using all these tools to make your life a little bit easier, like looking for the hashtags looking for AI, right? No, you’re not saying at any point and then go sit on the beach while the while your money pours. There’s work we have to win lotto for that. Yeah, I love this.

Donna Cravotta 40:53
This is what I tell my clients to like, they don’t want to do a lot of this work. Because you know, it’s not sexy. It’s not the bright, shiny stuff. It’s the roll up your sleeves and get into the research. But when you do this, what you learn through the process of doing this is something that you can outsource to somebody else’s personal brand. Yes, you identify who are your people what they need. And because you have this whole, like wealth of knowledge, you get to figure out like how you can help them and it changes everything that you do. Because you’re not guessing anymore. This, this is where the answers come to you. And this is where the answers not only come to you, but merge with your knowledge. And it changes everything.

Karen Yankovich 41:38
That’s amazing. Well, I think we probably need to wrap this but you all need to be following Donna, we’ll put all the links in the show notes to how to do all of that definitely want to be connected to her on LinkedIn. So you don’t miss any of these 50 over 50 interviews. And I’m sure that you can go back and listen to a bunch of them. They’re still there, right? Yeah, they’re still there. They’re in YouTube as well, right. But I would recommend you watch them on LinkedIn, because then you can, then you can join the conversation not only with Diana, but with whoever her guests was that week, right. And this is how you start to build your own personal brand. And surround yourself with other people who you love to be surrounded with who you’re excited to be surrounded with, who you’re excited to see their name, you know, on your calendar, when you’ve when you make time to talk to them.

Donna Cravotta 42:18
This is where you’re gonna find your 20 people.

Karen Yankovich 42:21
This is where you’ll find your 20 people. Exactly. That’s exactly right. All right, everybody, I’m going to wrap this, Donna, thank you so much for being here. Definitely get on Donna’s go to her website, we’ll put it below where she’ll have a link to when the next roundtable is connected on LinkedIn, because all the details will be there as well. And I think there needs to be more in our future, Donna will have to figure it out at some other time.

All right. Thanks so much for being here. And thanks for listening, everybody. I am so grateful that I have people like Donna cavada. In my life, she is such a beautiful person. And hopefully you’ll do take advantage of connecting with her and really following the work that she’s doing. You know, this is what it’s all about, right? Building relationships with the kinds of people that you love hanging out with and building your business at the same time. Right. That’s what we do in our she’s linked up program, we create wealthy women of influence that hang out with other beautiful, incredible women. So if you want to know what that looks like, remember, all you gotta do is grab a complimentary call on our calendar at Karen yankovich.com/call. So if you listen before, or if you loved this conversation, you know, we love hearing from you. So make sure you’re following this show, on Apple podcasts or wherever you’re listening. And we love your reviews, you know, and of course, I’d love for you to share this episode on social media take a quick screenshot of this and tag me tagged on I use the hashtag good girls get rich. So we all can share your posts with our audiences. And we all get more visibility that way, right. That’s how we lift each other up. In the show notes. There’s a link for SpeakPipe where you can leave me an audio message. I love getting your audio messages, I respond to every one of them personally, and we get to have like a, it’s where I get to make this podcast a little less me talking at you and me talking with you. Right. So just go to Karen yankovich.com/ 253. And you’ll see all of the information for the show all the links we talked about today. And you’ll also see the link to speak pipe so that we can start that conversation. Remember that rising tide that lifts all boats, right, this is how we get started. So if you need to know what your first step is, you’re not really ready to get on the call with us. We have another option for you. We’ve if you have not yet taken our assessment, the What’s your marketing style assessment, you can just go to how how should I market.com and that will take you to the assessment. It’ll give you a sense of how you can get started on LinkedIn, and some of these other networking platforms that are out there so that you can start building your network full of these beautiful, amazing people. This was a really fun project for me because I got to incorporate lots of strategy. All the fun left brain stuff I did but I’ve also got some fun like right brain stuff in there too. We even get some morning visualizations, depending on what your style is. So it’s really fun but you gotta you gotta get it to be that right links in the show notes. I will see you back here next week with another episode.

215 – Elevate your Brand through your Wardrobe with Patty Buccellato

This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media CEO and LinkedIn expert, Karen Yankovich. In this episode, guest Patty Puccellato and Karen Yankovich discuss how you can elevate your brand through your wardrove.

Since 1993 Style-Reboot Coach, Patty Buccellato, has shown the way for thousands of women leaders and business owners to discover their hidden style mastery. Contrary to popular belief, surveys show nearly half of all women hate to shop for clothing. Talented and successful women who are among that 50% call upon Patty for rescue. For them, she busts fashion myths, purveys wardrobe hacks, and teaches how to identify the style that changes success trajectories. Patty is expert at bringing her clients out of the closet with a personal style that suits their body, psyche, and circumstances. The result: her clients find permission to break up with ”blah” and unleash their natural magnetism.

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About the Episode:

Branding is more than having a beautiful logo with amazing colors that people can resonate with. It is what people say about you when you are not in the room. An essential piece of branding is how we show up and the impression we leave on people. One thing that cannot be emphasized enough is you can elevate your brand through your wardrobe. 

 

In this episode, Patty Buccellato shares how you can elevate your brand through your wardrobe. Patty has been a style coach since 1993. She has helped hundreds of women show up in their best selves. According to Patty, contrary to popular belief, surveys show nearly half of all women hate to shop for clothing. 

 

Talented and successful women among that 50% call upon Patty for rescue. For them, she busts fashion myths, purveys wardrobe hacks, and teaches how to identify the style that changes success trajectories. Patty’s expertise lies in bringing out her clients’ that suit their bodies, psyche, and circumstances.

 

In this episode, Patty teaches how to elevate your brand through your wardrobe, how to show up as influential women, how to assess when we are hitting the mark with our appearance, the differences in dressing for online and in-person events, best practices for a photo shoot, and how we can use style to look younger and more vibrant.

 

Listen to this episode and learn.

Episode Spotlights:

  • Where to find everything for this week’s episode: https://karenyankovich.com/215
  • How dressing styles are evolving [04:22]
  • How should you show up as an influential woman? [06:12]
  • How do we assess if we are hitting or off the mark with our appearance? [08:46]
  • What is silent dressing? [11:31]
  • Dressing for a virtual event versus an in-person event [13:55]
  • What should we wear to photo shoots or head shoots? [19:20]
  • Photoshoot tips [23:05]
  • How to use our style to erase some years from our appearance [24:48]
  • Understanding color analysis [28:19]
  • Patti’s tip to help us become the authority in our fields [31:31]

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“One of the worst mistakes that you can make is wearing what someone else says is what is spot on for the moment and fashion.”

 

“If you’re not true to yourself, you’re not going to show up in your very best presence and power.”

 

“When clothing is distracting to the eye, of the person we’re doing business with, it’s very easy for them to miss part of our intended message.”

 

“Dress for the position you want, rather than the one you’re in.”

 

“By a woman identifying what her own personal style is, she can show up with her highest level of ease, confidence, and grace.”

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Karen Yankovich 0:00
You’re listening to the good girls get rich podcast episode 215.

Intro 0:06
Welcome to the good girls get rich podcast with your host, Karen Yankovich. This is where we embrace how good you are girl, stop being the best kept secret in town, learn how to use simple LinkedIn and social media strategies and make the big bucks.

Karen Yankovich 0:23
Hello there. I’m your host, Karen Yankovich. And this is episode 215 of the good girls get rich podcast and this show is brought to you by she’s linked up where we teach women simple relationship and heart based LinkedIn marketing a system that builds your network gets you on the phone with the most amazing people consistently. And these are the kinds of people that can change your business, change your life and change your bank account forever. Our goal is for there to be more wealthy women of influence in the world. And we’re so lucky that we have tools like LinkedIn that can allow us to kind of parse through the people that are out there so that we can be picky about who we let into our lives and who we build our network full of. So we’re going to talk and Patti who is our guest today is definitely one of those people for me. If you listen before, if you’re loving what you’re hearing today, I love to hear from you. So make sure that you’re subscribing to the show, wherever you’re listening. Leave us a review so that we can get a sense of what episodes you’re really resonating with. And share this episode on social media use the hashtag good girls get rich tag me I’m at Karen Yankovich, we’ll put all Patty’s links in the show notes. So you can tag Patty as well. And we’ll share that with our audience. And that’s how we all get more visibility. And these little things, these little things like sharing these episodes, you know, if one person gets to know you, because my audience saw that, like, that’s how we do this right, like one person at a time. This is how we do this by diving deep. In the show notes, there’s a link for SpeakPipe. Speaking of diving deep, I’d love for you to leave me an audio message. Leave us a message there. I respond to every one of those personally, maybe you want to leave a review for the show. Or maybe you have a topic that you’d like me to talk about our guest you think I should interview that’s a great place to do that. Just go to Karen yankovich.com/ 215. And you’ll see the link, you’ll see all the other goodies that we talked about here on the show. So Patti Buccellato oh my goodness, I learned so much on this episode. But the one thing that one thing that she said that really stuck with me is that, you know, contrary to popular belief, most women are not necessarily happy about shopping for clothing. So it was so good to hear Patti talk about how as we elevate our brand does our wardrobe matter how can we make this simple? And how can we look good? Because let’s say brisket really want to look good, right? How can we look good, without spending a ton of money or putting a ton of time into this? So I was it was really a fun conversation. I hope you enjoy it as well. meat patty, we have Patty Bucha lotto with us here today and since 1993, she has a style reboot coach Patty Buccellato has shown the way for 1000s of women leaders and business owners to discover their hidden style mastery. Contrary to popular belief, surveys show nearly half of all women hate to shop for clothing, talented and successful women who are among that 50% Call upon Patti for rescue for them. She bust, fashion myths, Pervaiz wardrobe hacks teaches how to identify the style that that changes success trajectories, he is expert at bringing her clients out of the closet with a personal style that suits their body psyche and circumstances the result, her clients find permission to break up with blah and unleash their natural magnetism. How to it is so good to have you here today. How are you?

Patty Buccellato 3:27
Thank you I’m well Karen, thank you so much. I am thrilled to be here.

Karen Yankovich 3:33
Well, you know what sila is such an interesting topic. You know, we’re recording this, it’s fall of 2022. And, you know, stuff has changed a lot, right? We spent a long time in like sweatpants and T shirts and dressing from the waist up for a lot of time for a long time. Right. So it’s an interesting, it’s an interesting topic, and especially for my audience, because my audience typically are women that are, you know, they’re achieving some level of success. Maybe they’re in some kind of transition, right? They’re either looking to, you know, rise in the corporate on the corporate ladder, or leave corporate into whatever new chapters. In fact, I think many women are redefining what their next chapter looks like, as they move into 2021 2022 and 2023. And so tell me what you’re experiencing how is their style being affected by the changes in the world and in their careers and in their lives?

Patty Buccellato 4:22
Yeah, so that transition that you mentioned, is as a real powerful theme right now. And it’s something where we’ve, we’ve had this opportunity to pull back and really, you know, reevaluate everything around us. And so as we’re coming out, I’m seeing with my work with my clients, so many women are looking at it like is this is this really what brings me joy? And is this what what makes me happy? And, and how, how do I make the very best of myself at this juncture? And, and it’s really exciting that we have so many tools available to us to, to maximize. And to help us as we flip that page to whatever is next. How do we do it in our very best form? And so yeah, it’s from soup to nuts now, right? Because for so many it’s, it’s learning to wear shoes again.

Karen Yankovich 5:21
Right? Right. I remember the first time I put on a pair of shoes, I guess I know a while ago now, but I had bought the shoes, right? You know, right, like at the end of 2019. And they were like, brand new a year and a half later. And I was like, Oh, my God, I forgot about these shoes. Right. So. So yeah. So you know, it is important how we how we look, right? We want to I mean, I talked about this, even with people’s LinkedIn profiles, you want to I even like I even use the word dress, right? Like, we’re told, we want to dress for the job we want, right? Not the job we have. And that’s how I want you to show up on your LinkedIn profile. I want you to be portraying your brand into the future not talking about who you used to be. Right, which a lot of people do they think it’s like their online resume, right. So as you’re portraying your brand into the future, with your LinkedIn profile, I guess you want to be doing the same thing with how you’re showing up, whether it’s on camera or in person or on a stage or in a photo shoot. Right?

Patty Buccellato 6:12
Exactly, exactly. And, you know, defining that is, is really important. I feel as influential women in particular, we’re leaving money on the table if we’re not intentional in how we craft our own personal style. And, you know, I’ve had the luxury and the blessing to work with several women who in their transition, were at a point of, they were in the running for CEO position within their respective organizations, and they’ve been different industries. And in each of these situations, it’s the woman has, has really taken notice, like, okay, stuffs gotten real now. My stakes are high, and they hire a coach for the first time. And the first thing the coach, well, I won’t say the first one of the first things the coach says to them is, okay, I want you to work with Patti, because we need to do something about the visual presence. And granted, in each of these cases, the woman has been in the running for this position with the other candidate ism is a man. And it’s, it’s so so again, you know, suddenly, suddenly, we’re taking notice, I’ve got to be firing on all cylinders. And, and it is interesting because for for men, the dress in the business world is simplified. And for women, we have so many more choices, that there’s also room for more error, if we’re not careful, and how we put ourselves together. So, you know, it’s a fabulous tool. It’s one I think, that more women can be capitalizing on and really giving attention to, and

Karen Yankovich 8:10
it meaning your wardrobe, to me the wardrobe

Patty Buccellato 8:12
style, yes, really paying attention to what’s the message I’m sending with my appearance? And and, you know, how do I how do I maximize that? How do I assure that it’s in alignment with who I am? And, and what my message is in my work.

Karen Yankovich 8:30
Interesting, interesting. So how do we assess those things? You know, how do we assess before we go into standing on a stage or going into an important meeting, if we are hitting the mark, or if we are off the mark?

Patty Buccellato 8:46
Yeah, so one of the most important pieces the most telling pieces is how comfortable are we because you know, we can talk a lot about style style is what I work with, I just you know, it’s it’s a passion for me. But I work with a lot of clients who will jokingly say that they did not get the style Jean. So it’s not a passion for them. And, and yet it can be learned and the very first step and in fact what I like to say a style can be easy style can be learned and style can be fun. And it comes firstly with knowing oneself and one’s personal architecture. And you know, what is our what is our makeup and our composition, in in coloring in shape and texture. And with self identifying many of those elements, it becomes easy, almost natural, organic selection process when we’re choosing the clothing that we wear, because one of the worst mistakes that you can make is wearing what someone else says is what is spot on for the moment and fashion. Right, right heard about, you know, here’s what’s the now this is the hit piece of the season. But if it piece isn’t in alignment with who you are, you’re not going to feel comfortable in your skin, you’re likely going to be tugging and pulling clothing if it’s not in the fabric that relates to your body. And at a distance, it may look fine. But if you feel like you’re wearing a costume and say you’re you’re taking the stage to make a presentation, that’s not the time to step into stilettos because they’re really cool, right?

Karen Yankovich 10:40
And can I tell you I’ve made that mistake. More times. I love shoes. But the older I get the less shoes love me. It’s crazy. I just Oh my gosh, I bought a pair of the coolest shoes for my daughter’s wedding. And I think I had them on for 10 minutes. They were great. They were great. But they were definitely not.

Patty Buccellato 11:03
Oh, and for some women. They’re perfect right for right. For some women, they’re perfect. But if you’re a Birkenstock gal, don’t put yourself squeeze yourself into those stilettos, you know, thinking the right statement? Because if you’re not true to yourself, it’s not going to you’re not going to show up in your very best presence and power.

Karen Yankovich 11:21
Yeah, yeah, I definitely love shoes. All right, really cool. So you so let me ask you something you have you have something that you refer to as silent dressing, or what is it that

Patty Buccellato 11:31
yeah, silent dressing shows up in a couple of ways, both literally, and figuratively. And I coach my clients to use silent dressing in business when the focus when they intend the focus to be on their spoken message the business at hand and for their style their clothing to be to take a supporting role, rather than Okay. Okay. So literally silent dressing means you’re not making noise with your clothes, right. So it’s not a chengli bracelet or fabrics that swish and squeak when they rub together particularly on a zoom camera, right, and a zoom call that can be really distracting. But also silent dressing, in a figurative sense. We’re in a in a business interaction, where what’s important is our spoken message, the business at hand, the interaction with our with our audience, or our partner in communication. And so, when clothing is distracting to the eye, of the person we’re doing business with, it’s very easy for them to miss part of our intended message. Right. And so the kinds of things that will figuratively speak lot more loudly sometimes than our words are loud colors, prints patterns that are over the top, excessive makeup and accessories that perhaps in some settings, we choose to make a statement with those items. But in in that in that important business conversation, it can steal the attention and steal the show away from the message that you want to deliver. So we can be mindful both on what sounds are coming from what we’re wearing, as well as the visual attention that they might steal at any given moment.

Karen Yankovich 13:39
Interesting, I would never have thought of that, like I would never have it makes sense when you say it, but it wouldn’t have been something that I thought of what you mentioned, you know, even on Zoom meetings, so do we dress differently for virtual events than we do for in person events?

Patty Buccellato 13:55
Well, one thing that we need to consider is when we’re on a zoom call versus live in person, I’ll back up a second, when we’re live in person, we have the benefit of a whole body appearance. And we have the advantage of nonverbal communications and our expressions and, and there’s just an there’s a give and take as we’re engaging with someone. And so the energy is shared and experienced in a different way than it is when we’re on the camera in a much smaller window. So it’s really to our advantage to to remember and really take into account that smaller range of visibility and knowing that what comes through and that small space is going to prevail. And so what does that look like? We can get dressed in the morning and stand in front of a mirror and a full length mirror I hope and and we look at how we’re dressed and go yeah, great outfit. I love it. And then we sit down in front of the zoom camera. And through the webcam view, you know, only 20% of that is visible. Lucky, maybe 25%.

Karen Yankovich 15:11
Right.

Patty Buccellato 15:12
And you know, you might have a lovely necklace. And that looks fabulous with that outfit. But interestingly, or curiously, we don’t see the pendant because it’s so long, it’s off screen. Right? Right, right. So we really need to narrow our focus and look at what is within this range, this window that I can see on my screen. And in fact, that’s a really good test for any online presence appearance in advance is to do a little test with your own camera and say, Okay, in this view, what showing, right, so it is, like you said earlier, the waist up even even higher than waist, right? What’s the outfit right here? This is my outfit, and

Karen Yankovich 15:57
exactly what’s above, right? Yeah, interesting. You know, so I talk a lot about, you know, mindset when I when I talk when I work with people on their LinkedIn strategy and on their online branding strategy, because I really believe that there’s so many women that have these great, beautiful ambitions that are way up here. But their energy is not aligned with their ambitions. Yeah, I’m actually thinking maybe we need to also say, and are the visuals aligned with that vision? Right? Are you dressing for the person that you, you know, if you want to have a million dollar business, and you know, I always think about, like, the first week in January, and you know, it’s cliche to talk about New Year’s resolutions. And, and the reality is, we do the same things, we do what we’ve done, so we’d ever really get to where we want to be, right, so what are we going to do differently, and maybe one of the things we need to do differently is starting to dress like that person we want to be not just have the energy of that person. But also, when you look in the mirror, when you look at yourself on a zoom camera. Are you seeing that? You know that women in that next step of their transition? Not they’re not who they used to be right, but who they’re becoming?

Patty Buccellato 17:00
Exactly, and that is what career coaches will say, you know, we’ve heard it so many times dress for the position you want, rather than the one you’re in? And that’s, that’s what I’ve seen with, with some some of the clients who hire coaches later in their career. I look at that and think, gosh, you know, how might that trajectory have have been? How different might that have been? And how much more quickly might they have arrived? If they’d hired that coach earlier on? Right to really evaluate, but yes, the appearance when it’s congruent with all of the other goals and objectives, right? So, so many of your listeners, I imagine have their own their own businesses. And, you know, is your appearance, an extension of your brand image? Right? How in alignment is that? And I’m, I’m sure Karen that something that you work with a lot with that LinkedIn presence? Yeah, you have harmony?

Karen Yankovich 18:06
Yeah. And you know, when I think about am I wearing my brand colors, but that’s not really what you’re talking about, you’re talking more about is the brand that you want to portray, whether it is a brand of wealth, or elegance or, or casual and or, you know, mountainy or whatever it is that being portrayed and what you’re wearing. It’s not really the brand colors, it’s more about the brand visuals, the brand fee, the feelings that they’re yes, they’re getting on, they look at you,

Patty Buccellato 18:30
yes, the vibe that comes through whether you’re in person or in the photo that you use in your, on your website, your LinkedIn profile, what’s the energy that exudes from that? What about your facial expression, in addition to the style of the clothing, and while the colors don’t have to match your brand colors, they can coordinate in some way so that your photo when you it doesn’t look like you’ve just plunked a random photo on your website. Within the broader picture,

Karen Yankovich 19:07
well, let’s talk about that for a second. Like what about dressing for photo shoots or headshots and or, you know, or lifestyle photos? Do you you know, what should we be looking for in those? Is it you know, what we wear to a meeting or to a zoom call,

Patty Buccellato 19:20
you know, there, the photo, the still photo is a little more closely aligned to the Zoom presence than it is to the real lifestyle. Because we have that still shot. That’s one moment in time and we’re looking for simplicity and again, that silent dressing, but there are some additional considerations. When we’re on camera for instance, solid colors are going to come through much more positively and with more visual neutrality than prints and patterns, right so particularly in a profile photo book salads are going to allow the face to be what’s featured, right without competition, you know, some other elements, again, that facial expression. So, so I’m going to say something here. And there’s a site that I’ll share. I am NOT an affiliate with this site, but I think I should be because I share it so much.

Karen Yankovich 20:17
I say that a lot.

Patty Buccellato 20:20
But you know, there’s so much power and the smile and our profile photos. And I’ve seen this both with my own and with clients, we are in an age of social proof, right. And through history, we’ve seen people taking on very serious demeanors in their profile photos, maybe they’re in finance or law. And it seems like we you know, it should look really focused and serious about the business. What’s really interesting, there’s a site, it’s called Photo feeler.com. And we have opportunity on that site to post different options of our profile photo variations, maybe you’ve taken a couple of different shots and a photo and a photo shoot. And whether it’s different clothing or different expression, different posture. On that site, you can post your photos and get feedback from real people.

Karen Yankovich 21:14
And wow, it’s p h o t o f e l e r?

Patty Buccellato 21:19
exactly, .com. Yeah. And what what was really telling when, again, when I when I first put my own photos on there, and then I’ve seen this play out again, and again, I had a relatively serious business II kind of photo. And I had one where I was smiling and looking more natural as I do in real life. And in the business category, you you’ll be rated on friendliness, capability, and influence. And so what was fascinating to me, I expected to look more friendly in the smiling photo. But my level of capability and influence also increased significantly, in reverse factions. Were in my photo where I was smiling. Wow. And I shouldn’t say this out play out again. And again, how powerful that smile is. And, you know, comes back to we talk so much about that know, like, and trust factor. Yeah. And, you know, we’re all were people doing business with people. And, you know, don’t we all feel better when we see a smile, then that stern business seems like, you know, we want to know you’re good at what you do. But where’s the human element? Right, right. So it’s a fabulous tool to really look at, what is that image projecting? And is this a good photo for me to use? Is it saying what I want it to say?

Karen Yankovich 22:51
Interesting, interesting. So as we go into these photoshoots, though, we were saying, you know, just don’t let the your outfit compete with your face. And is there any other tips we should have when when we are planning a photo shoot

Patty Buccellato 23:05
minimal accessories, okay, for jewelry, low key. And again, imagine that anything that you have on is taking a supporting role. It’s kind of background, your face, your expression, your energy is what should come first. And so the photoshoot is not a time now. Here’s, I was gonna say it’s not the time to express your fashion flair. And I’m going to here’s, here’s the disclaimer there. If you’re in fashion, if your business is in the arts, a very creative field, all the guidelines are tossed out the window. Yeah.

Karen Yankovich 23:42
That makes sense. That makes sense.

Patty Buccellato 23:44
Because this goes back to expressing who you are and what you do.

Karen Yankovich 23:47
Okay, so here’s the thing. When I go to a photoshoot, I want them to use the lens that makes me 20 pounds thinner and 20 years younger. Is there a way we can do that with our outfits? Is there any way to kind of visually erase some years and when I say that, I am not trying to look like I’m 15 I remember doing a photo shoot one time where the woman just went in and it was kind of a casual thing wasn’t a real one. And she sent me the retouched pictures and I looked at them and I was like, I bombed like there’s no wrinkles at all, you know? Not how I want to look I’m you know, I’m not 25 I’m okay with a little bit a couple of lines here or there so I’m not looking to look 20 Right. So you know, let’s just get real I want to you know, I want to feel and look vibrant and unhealthy and, you know, not old and crotchety vibrant. I love it. So tell me a little bit about Ron. Yeah. So tell me a little bit about that. Can we can we use our style or any style tools to you know, erase some years from,

you know, as a matter of fact, color can make a profound difference and how we show up in person or on camera. When we’re in color. errs that are in harmony with our own undertones of skin hair eyes. There when surrounded by those colors, there is literally the effect of a facelift, the face of the skin is more even in tone, we glow more the eyes sparkle and pop, there’s less opportunity for shadows to rest and the fine creases. It is almost a magical effect when you identify and and intentionally use those colors that are in harmony for you. What I often think of is you know the individual’s own personal rainbow, you know, we each have those short of knowing what those are. And in the meanwhile, an easy trick to use is to coordinate your lipstick in the same color temperature as the outfit that you’re wearing. And ideally your hair falls into that mix too. And so what that means if if any of our listeners aren’t familiar with color, temperatures, there are warm colors and cool colors and, and an idea of warm wood in a lipstick color might be like a tawny shade, and apricot, peach and a cool it would be pink or plum or rose. Right. And when you get disharmony between what’s on your lips and what you’re wearing in your clothing with that clash of color temperature, it can be jarring and cause rather harsh effect.

It’s so interesting that you’re talking about lipstick because lipstick is an is it literally almost. It’s gonna be dramatic, but it’s a little bit of my nemesis because people say, you know, let’s try lipsticks on or whatever and until they actually experience me sitting there trying different lipsticks on and each one aging me 20 years, they don’t believe it. Like I have such a hard time I cannot even tell you how many lipsticks I have. And I I just have never seen I mean once in a while I get the right, the right one and I were and then of course they eventually discontinued it. But it is a really tough thing for me for some reason with my coloring or whatever I never seem to get the right one so interesting. And I so I can personally attest to the wrong lipstick, definitely adding years to me.

Patty Buccellato 27:15
Yeah, it truly can. And the next level beyond the color temperature is the value range, right. So a lot of times if the lipstick is too deep, for our own personal contrast level of skin and hair, it will jump off of our face. And, and that we have to be careful for those of us who are 45 and bad or to really be gentle around the lip line. Strong, intense. Lip Pencil and lip color are going to actually accentuate the fine, those little vertical lines around the lips. So we want to make sure that it’s soft enough, as we get a little older, most of us do need to soften that some

Karen Yankovich 27:57
interesting. So I want to just go back to something you mentioned a little bit earlier about color. And I remember the days of getting colorized right? Are you a spring, winter, summer or fall? Is that still a thing?

Patty Buccellato 28:10
It is still a thing, although it’s expanded. So we do

Karen Yankovich 28:15
is that what it was called? colorized? I think you were colorized I don’t know

Patty Buccellato 28:18
Yeah, there was color analysis and, and varying Brandon names for it. But many people are familiar with the four seasons, as you just mentioned. And we can get a little more particular now the color systems have evolved. And there are 12 Season systems, 14 Season systems, there are completely customized systems. One of them that I work with, I design a personalized one of a kind palette for a client. But I also work with a 12 season system where it’s more nuanced, right and we kind of slide sometimes between seasons so it is not only less restrictive, but it is also can be more refined. So it aids in an understanding of the colors rather than just and then this was something I think is really important too. When you’re working with someone who’s coaching you on your colors, to be able to learn how to identify them not just be handed a palette and say these are your hues, this is what you should wear interesting. You know it’s so much more empowering when you when you number one you see the unfolding when seated in front of a mirror so you kind of train your eye what to look for. How do I look different when I’m in colors that are flattering versus colors that aren’t what should I look for and my facial features to really notice the difference so that when you go out shopping that you can select items, you know, you can hold something up and know what to assess.

Karen Yankovich 29:45
Right right.

Patty Buccellato 29:46
We take the mystery out of it.

Karen Yankovich 29:48
Yeah, well you know what I’m gonna give a little plug for using somebody like you I mean I think about my closet and I’m sure as I say this somebody else if not everybody else is thinking this. You know we have spent Lord knows how many dollars wears on clothes that we just don’t wear. And we say, well, I don’t want to, you know, I understand the value, but then I can’t buy as many clothes, well, I’m guessing if you’re like me, you probably wear the same five things over and over. Because those are the five things that look good on you. And the other 50 tops that are in your closet, you know, that you’re going to wear someday you don’t wear you know, eventually, because they just don’t have that right? Color or visual on you. And we know it and we know it intuitively. So we don’t wear them. Right. So we probably wear the same things over and over. But we buy all this other stuff, because we don’t know what we’re doing. Right? So maybe we all should just, you know, work with somebody like you, Patty and invest our money in you. And not on all these clothes that eventually end up in the goodwill, you know, because we don’t wear them. Because they’re out they are the wrong, you know, they are the wrong color. And I notoriously buy stuff and then don’t want to ever return them. You know? So yeah,

Patty Buccellato 30:48
you and most every other woman in our society. It’s right, what you’re saying is statistically true. Karen 2020. Most women are wearing 20% of their clothing 80% of the time, right? So it’s been studied.

Karen Yankovich 31:02
As you’re saying this, I’m having these light bulbs go off in my head, like so I can spend 80% less money on clothing and put that money into high risk stylists. And then just a great everywhere I go there you gonna do less shopping and do less shopping.

Patty Buccellato 31:15
No wasting your closet closet.

Karen Yankovich 31:17
And now waste on the planet. I mean, we’re hearing a lot about clothing waste these days and all that. So yeah, I love that. All right. So Patty, what is one final tip that our listeners can use to be seen as the go to expert in their field, you have anything for us?

Patty Buccellato 31:31
You know I do. And by identifying by a woman identifying what her own personal style is, she can show up with her highest level of ease, confidence, and grace. And that that’s something that once she knows who she is, and how to choose clothing that projects that so that she feels comfortable in her skin every single time she gets dressed. There’s nothing better than that for the way that she shows up in the world. And it doesn’t have to be hard. It does not have to be hard. It’s just knowing oneself and, and then it comes back to what I strongly believe style can be easy. style can be learned and style can be fun.

Karen Yankovich 32:24
I love this. I love this. Because we and we know this too, right? We know that when we look good, we feel good. And we know those days. And we know the days that we’re uncomfortable or clothes don’t fit properly or, you know, and that the entire day is affected by that. Right. So yeah, I don’t know how we got to this place in the world that we are creating ourselves into things that don’t fit us or we feel like we need things that we don’t really need. But maybe we need to kind of go back to the days of not needing so much junk and just having a few really great things. Because that’s probably what we’re wearing anyway.

Patty Buccellato 32:55
Exactly, exactly. What you feel best in is what you will repeatedly wear.

Karen Yankovich 33:00
Right? Right. So pecking order people learn more about you how can we get some more help from you tell us what’s next for you.

Patty Buccellato 33:07
Oh, gosh, I would love to share with your listeners a gift that I have that is a an entree into that understanding one’s own body, and it is called busta style. Right? It is a free mini course that I will be gifting here today. And it is a video course with a companion ebook where the reader the viewer is led through the process of identifying her own body type. So that she really knows with confidence, what are the clothing shapes and fabrics to purchase for that body?

Karen Yankovich 33:45
Beautiful, we’ll put a link to that in the show notes. And also, if you’re listening and you want to write this down, you can get to that at Karen yankovich.com/bust your style, right? So I would love that. Thank you so much for sharing that. I can’t wait to go through it myself. And what else? So where else can people connect with you and stay in touch with you?

Patty Buccellato 34:05
Reboot your style.com is my website where you can find more about what I do. Learning what other clients have experienced services that are available. And of course, to be able to subscribe to my mailing list where you get news and updates from me about fun things all the time. My next writing is going to be about how we choose our eyewear. So always have something to look forward to. Yes, yes. Yes, that is your style.com

Karen Yankovich 34:37
Thank you so much for all of this this has really been helpful because I don’t talk about this enough. And I think it is a big part of as we’re showing up to be whoever it is we’re choosing to be in the next chapter of our lives. You know, are we feeling it? are we feeling it not just energetically but physically do we look the part do we feel great about how we look and you know, I love that you are you around to help people like me when And we struggle a little bit with this. So thank you so much for being here, Patty.

Patty Buccellato 35:03
Oh, my pleasure, Karen. Thank you.

Karen Yankovich 35:06
Well, I got a ton of tips from Patty. I hope you did as well. It’s something I don’t talk about enough on the show. But I guess how you look is your brand, right? So, but it’s also how you’re feeling and what you’re wearing and how you’re showing up and all of that together. I mean, doesn’t it feel good to just look good and feel good and be building an abundant life and business just feels amazing to me. So hope it feels amazing to you too. If you want to know of course, how to get some support with us. You know, I’m here to support you just grab a spot on our calendar, the link is in the show notes or go to Karen yankovich.com/call. And, you know, get on a calendar, and let’s chat and let’s help you create more influence, create more credibility. Look like a rock star, become a rock star and be a wealthy woman. Let’s lift each other up. Help me help you. I would love for you to share this episode on your social media. Take a quick screenshot right of this episode, or maybe on your phone or wherever you’re listening to it. Tag me tag Patty, we’ll share it with our audiences and let’s just continue to lift each other up. I will see you back here again next week.

211 – The Importance of Your Personal Brand with Rhonda Swan

This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media CEO and LinkedIn expert, Karen Yankovich. In this episode, guest Rhonda Swan and Karen Yankovich discuss the importance of your personal brand.

Rhonda is the founder and CEO of one of the top global PR and branding firms. She works with CEOs, authors, and conscious entrepreneurs to grow their personal and professional brands. After spending 15 years working in PR and marketing for multimillion-dollar brands and startups, Rhonda is disrupting the industry and helping her clients get featured in Top Tier Publications. In addition to her extensive PR and marketing experience, Rhonda is a trained business coach and holds an MBA in Business & Marketing.

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Branding is everything. In our media-filled world, how are you going to stand out if you don’t have a strong personal brand? And if you have a strong personal brand but no PR, what good is that brand?

Rhonda Swan understands that a good personal brand and good PR go hand in hand. One without the other is pointless.

Want to build your personal brand? Want to have good PR? Then listen in to Episode 211 with guest Rhonda Swan!

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  • Introducing this episode’s guest, Rhonda Swan (2:15)
  • The importance of personal branding (7:06)
  • What shifted when Rhonda moved from corporate to entrepreneur (15:35)
  • Rhonda’s journey of rebuilding (20:33)
  • How Rhonda started helping others with branding (22:11)
  • The importance of PR (26:08)
  • Entrepreneurism is a journey (30:33)
  • Women Gone Wild (34:00)
  • What’s next for Rhonda (35:54)

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Karen Yankovich 0:00
You’re listening to the good girls get rich podcast episode 211

Intro 0:05
Welcome to the good girls get rich podcast with your host, Karen Yankovich. This is where we embrace how good you are girl, stop being the best kept secret in town, learn how to use simple LinkedIn and social media strategies and make the big bucks.

Karen Yankovich 0:22
Hello there. I’m your host, Karen Yankovich. And this is episode 211 of the good girls get rich podcast and this show is brought to you by she’s linked up where we teach women simple relationship heart based LinkedIn marketing a system that gets you having conversations consistently with the kinds of people that can change your business, change your life, change your bank balance forever. Our goal in our she’s linked up programs is to create more wealthy women of influence. And this is all about using digital marketing with that human to human touch, right digital marketing with the human touch. So if you’ve listened before, if you love what you hear today, you know, we’d love to hear from you. So please subscribe to good girls get rich on Apple podcasts or wherever you’re listening, leave a review so we can get a sense of what episodes are landing with you and what you most want. You know what you’re most like to hear from me. And of course, I’d love for you to share this episode on social media and use the hashtag good girls get rich tag me so that I can share your posts with my audience. And then we all get more visibility Right? in the show notes. There’s a link for SpeakPipe where you can leave an audio message I love your audio messages. I respond personally to every single one of them. Maybe there’s a maybe you want to leave us a review there. Or maybe you want to give me an idea for a guest I should interview or, you know, maybe have a topic you want to hear me talk about right? So just go to Karen yankovich.com/ 211. And you’ll see the blog for this page, you’ll see the link to SpeakPipe. You know, I can play that listen to it and I will respond to you every single time. So last week I teased this episode a little bit because last week we talked about in episode 210. We talked about if you’re not standing out you’re invisible. And I heard that quote in an interview that Rhonda Swan did on her podcast with Kelly O’Neil who is a friend of mine that introduced me to Rhonda and I knew I had to have Rhonda on the show. So I think you’re gonna love this interview today with Rhonda swan. And I’m just gonna dive right let you dive right into it and not waste another second. I am here today with Rhonda Swan and Rhonda is the founder and the CEO of one of the top global PR and branding firms. She works with CEOs, authors, conscious entrepreneurs to grow their personal and professional brands. And after spending 15 years working in PR and marketing for multimillion dollar brands and startups. Ron is disrupting the industry and helping her clients get featured in the top tier publications. In addition to her extensive PR and marketing experience. Rhonda has trained a trained business coach and holds an MBA in business and marketing. She has lived in coverage in print and broadcast outlets around the world featured in Forbes entrepreneur, ABC, CBS Thrive global and many, many more. Her dedication to supporting other female business owners led her to found a movement dedicated to helping women rise all over the world, the women God wild series, and it’s become a best seller in multiple categories worldwide, including billboards on Times Square in New York City. And besides one his own show, the Rhonda Swan show where she interviews thought leaders and entrepreneurs. Rhonda also is hosting the unstoppable show with a new to the street media, which is a broadcast on national television to an audience of 300 million households. She’s a mom, a wife, and is a world traveler. And for the last 13 years while she’s doing that for 13 years, and now she’s living in Bali. So we’re on opposite sides of the world. But we are here together to chat with you today. So Rhonda, that’s amazing. And I’m so happy to have you here.

Rhonda Swan 3:40
Hey, Karen, thanks for having me. It’s kind of cool. It’s my 6pm mature 6am across the world. And here we are being clearly communicating to our audiences.

Karen Yankovich 3:50
Right. And what I love about this, like Ron and I met through a business group where we have mutual business colleagues, and I mean, isn’t it I just I just want anybody that’s listening to kind of just soak that in for a second because so many people don’t like they need to think outside of the box a little bit. Right. And you’re in Bali. I’m in New Jersey, and we’re talking as if you’re next door, right? And it’s and it the world is so it’s so cool right now that we can do these kinds of things.

Rhonda Swan 4:16
Yeah, it is actually, it’s really kind of interesting, because I was a corporate executive, and for about 10 years. And in 2004, I witnessed a woman put a baby in daycare. And I said, I’m never gonna do that. And here I am trying to you know, run this big global enterprise with one of the largest fortune 100 companies in the world. Fortune 100 Actually, I quit my job. And I started working on the internet. And this is in 2004. So you have to think right think back. Email was just getting cool. We all have

Karen Yankovich 4:49
we’ve probably met at had AOL then. Right?

Rhonda Swan 4:51
Yeah, exactly. internal emails for companies. There was zero social media. None, no social media. And so I said Uh, well, I’m gonna figure out how to, you know, build this online business thing. And or build a business at least online. And the interesting thing about it is that this is now something that I have done for 18 years before social media. So here you and I are communicating and podcasts weren’t even a thing YouTube wasn’t our Facebook was none of that stuff. And we still built a seven figure business because of very one thing is that we just started to tell our story, and started to connect with people, right, and this is what you and I are doing, right? We’re just connecting with each other. So we can talk a lot more about that. But it’s so cool. When I go wow, 18 years ago, and I left San Diego, it’ll be now 15 years that I left San Diego to travel the world, my family on November 25. Oh, wow.

Karen Yankovich 5:49
Wow. That’s so cool. Well, let me ask you something. Before we get into what we want to talk about what you talk about, when you think about back to your journey, you know, one of the things that I had my journey was similar in but in that though, that I did both, I did raise a couple, you know, one or two, I have four kids. So two of them I raised while I was working full time in a corporate job. And I mean, it sucked. It just did. I mean, I miss things I didn’t want to miss and, you know, whatever it is what it is no regrets. I did what I thought was the right thing at the time. And and they’re great, they’re doing great. But my younger two, I did the same thing of like, this is it like I made more for me, I couldn’t do it, I was leaving the house at you know, 6am not getting home till you know, six 7pm It was crazy. But always, always kind of in some kind of a marketing component, I think about back to the earlier days of my marketing career. And we didn’t really care about the people that we were buying from right like the copy guy that came in once a month to see if we needed supplies or whatever, we didn’t really care what you had for lunch. He was married. Like, it just wasn’t something that that was talked about. But then as the internet kind of became more ubiquitous in everything we did, and sort of certainly was our marketing. That’s, I think, where it shifted and where we needed to have personal brands, as we were stepping into a role as a business leader. Right. So tell me a little bit about you. I mean, I don’t know, I’m I know, I’m a lot older than you. Do you remember the transition from that? Like, are you gonna do you understand what I’m saying? Oh, we’re gonna have to we’re gonna have to reveal ages here because I don’t think that’s okay. 73 sister. Okay, so I’m more than 10 years older than you know, you are not I am. I am. I was born in 1960.

Rhonda Swan 7:27
This is even cooler, right? This is the goodness and no one can see our faces right now. So yeah, we both look. So yeah,

Karen Yankovich 7:36
we are we are as young as we feel. But you know what, I think that is also another that’s a whole nother conversation when it comes to personal branding age. So age no longer matters. And I talk about that a lot with LinkedIn, when people are worried about like, Oh, should I put when I graduated high school? Like, what do you think people don’t know how old you are? I don’t, I guess there’s still ageism, somewhere in the you know, in the world. But I feel like we can rise above that. If we take control of our personal brands.

Rhonda Swan 7:59
Yeah, that’s it. Let’s do that. Okay, so this is really cool. Because, you know, that’s really the biggest step that I took. So when I quit corporate, you know, I said, what, what is it that I knew I was in pharmaceuticals? And so I said, What is it that I did there that I could bring into this new business? Now this again, before social media, and I was working with Perry Marshall, I decided I’m going to figure out Google AdWords, like, how can I figure out Google AdWords and at that time, you know, this is like, we were trying to find things to sell there. Like three line ads, if you remember, like how Google ads right come through. Yeah, yeah. So I found a personal development company. I was working with Robert Kiyosaki, Bob Proctor Jim Rohn, like the legends, and I started about a trifecta decorating. Yeah, oh, it was amazing. I grabbed all of their personal relevant products, and I was reselling them, say you want to change your life, you know, these are the best products you could ever have. Well, then There ended up being a company that turned out I don’t even know what an MLM was, or a network marketing company. They ended up being a network marketing company. And I said, Okay, so this is the deal if I can represent a product and I can inspire people right to want to buy these products, why would they buy this from me like so I got a three line Google ad, and they’re literally responding to the storyline Google ads so you had to get really clever with the word so I would use like CEO income for working from home don’t believe me? Don’t click Live because back then it was the click but this is where it gets funny because this is when you get really super clever and why the personal branding is the most vital piece and this is why Branson’s in front of Gary V’s in front of their company right every big company are building their own personal brands with CEOs are building their brand. And so what i did is i i I started making this it was like before websites were that cool and there was no video there was no YouTube. So I found this and some of you that are older than you might know this Karen, you remember audio acrobat. Do you remember that?

Karen Yankovich 9:58
Oh my gosh, yes, I know the name but I can’t even figure I can’t even place it.

Rhonda Swan 10:01
Okay, off the top of my audio Acrobat was a way that you could either do audio or video to have this really crazy embed code, right? And it was like this weird box was not clear was not high quality whatsoever. So I said, Okay, how do I go from being? What I did in my pharmaceutical company, where I was face to face with doctors, right? And it was like, I would come in with my shenanigans, I would dress up funny on golf week, I would, you know, do stuff. It’s Super Bowl, because you have to get through the gatekeeper. Right, you have to get through the gatekeeper, the exciting, right, you have to have something that’s inspiring or unique for them to go, oh, yeah, go talk to our doctor. So I would have like madness with this stuff with pharmaceuticals, which is why, you know, rose to the top very, very quickly. So when I went into digital marketing was like, how do I go from a click into getting them to actually trust me to buy something, right. And so I put this really bad flat website up, I had, you know, pictures, and I told my story. I’m a corporate executive, I have a master’s degree. And, you know, my husband thought I was insane. Doing this, and I’m like, I have a master’s degree, this is the deal. I want to not put my kid in daycare. And I found a way to do it. I’m selling these amazing products with these guys and change your life. And you can make money doing it too. Like it was so crazy. And here, you go from a corporate executive, right working for GlaxoSmithKline, which is rather elite and really snobby. I have a master’s degree in business. And all I have though, was the vision and a vow that I was never going to put my daughter in daycare. So I say this because I want everyone to hear this. The moment you really find your why it doesn’t matter what you do, or how you do it to get there. You just do it. And my ego. I left my ego at the door. And I said, Look, man, I met this woman who was you know, she was like, 35 she had four kids. And she goes, these these personal products are changing my life. I met Bob Proctor, I’ve met Kiyosaki. I’ve met Jim Rohn. And all of our events. They’re unbelievable. You represent the best people like his this for real, but I believed in it. And so what I did is I put this flat s website sorry for Can I swear your show? Yeah.

Karen Yankovich 12:08
I wish you guys can see her. This is one thing that I wish I was doing video because she’s like, so animated right now.

Rhonda Swan 12:15
Let me tell you, maybe you can hear me. So I so I did this sorry to put this website up. And I get this audio acrobat. And so I do this video. It was really, you know, one of those. I didn’t even know how to record it. To be honest, it was probably on a you know, computer phone, or computer camera. And I was like, Hi, my name is Rhonda. I was a corporate executive. And I, my life changed for personal development. I listened, Jim Rohn and Bob Proctor, these guys have changed my life. And if you’re looking for a way, if you’re that same person as I am, and you want to be with your kids, you can actually learn from these guys. But you also represent them, you can sell their events, you can sell their stuff and make money like and it was so scratchy, right? It was this big, huge embedded code. And I put this on the website, pictures of me and my little story. And this is the kicker. And this is where I want everyone to hear because they’re like, oh, things are so hard. And the marketing is hard. I put, don’t believe me Don’t call. Because there was no other way to communicate. I did not have set up emails like that. I didn’t want an 800 number. They paid six bucks a month for that these people would call and say and I would go Hi, it’s Rhonda, listen, this is the deal. This is what I got going on. If you’re really serious, leave me a message. I’m gonna call you back. Right. So I’m gonna get to the point here about personal branding because this is where I realized what people loved about me in pharmaceuticals was because I am animated and I’m fun and, and my energy was, like exuberant, they just wanted to talk to me. And that’s what I did. And I brought into the digital marketing space now. I didn’t know anything about it. I started working with Perry Marshall was the godfather. And he was talking about being unique. I was like, What can I do? And so that’s what I did. And from there I continued to go okay, wow, these people are calling me because they’re like, Who is this lady? Right I was the first with a you know, with a video. And then I was like, so excited about quitting Korbinite pictures of me with like some of the top people in the world in these industries going I quit cold turkey. And because of that, it started to inspire people. And then of course from there it just became that personal brand and it wasn’t anything special like yeah, I didn’t even have a logo then I still don’t think I have a logo to for myself. It’s just my name. It was my story. And that’s why corporations companies, entrepreneurs are doing so well. When the CEO has a personal brand and a personal story. People buy from people they don’t they don’t care about your products or services. Right you can have a widget and have

Karen Yankovich 14:46
Yeah, no Yes. Yes. And we can’t Yes we care about the people we want. You know at the end of the day we wanted to business with the best in the business. Right so so if you are not taking and and the the most beautiful thing about all this is you can control this you You can take control of this, this is not something that you’ll be like, Oh, well, you know, she’s naturally thin and you know, blonde or whatever. And I’m never going to be that way. Like, this is not that everybody can do this. Like, there’s no like genetics involved, there’s none of that. It’s you, everybody can do this. And everybody, everybody must do this. And I’m not saying you must create, you know, create a multimillion dollar business. I’m not saying that at all. But know that if you can either take control of your brand and take control of what people find when they put your name in Google search, or not, you know, I mean, and it’s your choice Either way, and it’s you know, that’s awesome. That’s awesome. I love that story. So, okay, so then tell me a little bit then about like, when people look at that, right, they think, okay, Sunshine roses, it’s all good. She had this this great path, and she’s, you know, listen, I can tell you’re smart and energetic and, and you are, you’re a hard worker. But what is it? What does that real entrepreneur life look like for you? What changed in your life when you shifted from corporate to entrepreneur?

Rhonda Swan 15:55
Okay, so this is a really good one, actually, because you’re right, it’s I’m really good at, you know, just saying, I’m an entrepreneur, I’m going to get through everything anyways. So you know, just let it be. However, when I tell people that, you know, I quit my corporate job, I called 3000. Leads didn’t make a sale. You know, even though I was doing all the right things, I didn’t make a sale. And I What had happened is that, I realized that I was bringing in a very negative mindset. First off, I was putting dollar signs on people’s foreheads, you know, trying to get them to buy stuff from me. And then when I realized there’s just real people that wanted to life, you know, wanted to be with their kids, and they wanted to real life, then it shifted. So that was one thing. And so I started to store it, I had a lot of $47,000 month after six months, I retired my husband after a year, like, wow, life was good, you know, and it was and I was building and building and building, we bought a big house and all that fun stuff. But what happened in 2007, and 2008, is what may have happened to a lot of people now I’ve been traveling the world, but it wasn’t because we had the golden spoon or you know, whatever you want to call it, we actually invest in a lot of real estate, because we did really well financially, and we lost everything. My whole company. Yeah, it was the whole purpose when I quit was to raise a daughter 30 days before my daughter was born, we found out that our developer that we’d invested in fraud had taken our name, signed our names on $26 million dollar homes. And after eight months, I was pregnant the whole time. He had sucked out all the construction loans, you know anything about real estate, you get a construction loan first and then you sell the houses while the loan the banks are going to hit guys, the all the construction loans about let’s start selling these houses. And we’re like, no, they’re not even built. They’re like all the money’s out of the home. So here we are. 33 years old, just got our first million dollar house because we were doing so well. Baby is on their way. And we find out we’re losing it all. And I mean, when I say losing it all, we took out nest eggs, IRAs, everything that we had, and we put in all the cash that we actually had. So we’re like, well, we have a business, right? We’re gonna keep making money, we’ll be fine. And sure enough, I was so stressed out, I found out like No, guys, you like, This is really bad. The banks are after you, you have to file bankruptcy, you have to sign everything off, and they’re gonna take all of it, they’re gonna take your house, they’re gonna take those car, they’re taking everything. My daughter was born 33 days early, because I was a complete disaster. And try to go from being on top of the world, right? Teaching people prosperity, consciousness, building your brand, being excited, telling your story, doing all this great stuff to going, how do I get in front of a camera? How do I talk to these people, because I’m destitute. I am a new mother, I build ice quit corporate, just to raise her. And now I don’t even have enough money $25 to pay my Skype credit, because that’s how we were calling people at the time. And you want to talk about shame. And, you know, embarrassment. I mean, our friends were like, get a job get a job like you guys, you’re my husband’s a robotics engineer, for God’s sake. Right? He wasn’t a robotics engineer. I was a corporate executive. Frickin unfortunately, in our company, we did well in corporate, but we got the taste of being entrepreneur and the life. And even though we were 10 times harder, right, right. Corporate, y’all. If we really knew, did we sign up for it? Hell yeah, I would sign up for it. And so when we find that out, it was like a boy, you know, like now what do we do? Now? How do we go for me, this example the people. And then of course, you’re raising my daughter. And it was like, to the point where it was so close. I was so ready to call my boss. And I’m holding my little girl and I’m sitting in her room and I painted like little chair of angels on the ceiling, that had prosperity, abundance, all these little beautiful flags and names and I looked at her and she’s brand new, and she’s 15 now, and I’m like, I made a vow to you. I’d never put you in take care. Like I’m not doing it. Not doing it. And because of that, I got really clear. That was I don’t care I’m put my ego at the door. We fire sailed everything in our house we lived in the house was like a beautiful house, I sold my China, I sold my furniture, I sold everything. And my family left with $12,872.62 with a vision and about a never put my daughter in daycare. And so that will be 15 years this November 25. And so, yeah, so we like to talk the story like, oh, that entrepreneur journey, it’s been so amazing without it started because we are in the worst point we could have ever been.

Karen Yankovich 20:32
So can I ask what your next step was? Yeah, like, what was the next step towards you know, rebuilding?

Rhonda Swan 20:38
Yeah, that was the hardest part. It was like, Okay, are we gonna look at ourselves and be like, down? Are we gonna go, Let’s just tell people what happened, and be really human beings, and just say, Look, our minds and our bank account haven’t changed. Just because our bank accounts change doesn’t make us to the people. We are right. We still know what we’re talking about. We still have the right business, because we knew what we were doing. So that didn’t change us. And the money in my bank didn’t make me a better mother, a better leader, a better influencer, a better supporter, a better wife. So like, oh my god, it has nothing to do with the money. And because of that reason, we just stayed super clear and humble, like, Hey, we got a business. We just got our asses handed to us. But this is what we did. We sold everything. TV, I mean, you name it, like people think I don’t have any money. I’m like, look around your house. You got a frickin $5,000 TV that you look at every day, like I don’t sell stuff I sold it. And how

Karen Yankovich 21:37
do you do it? You got to do

Rhonda Swan 21:39
right when we did. And then that’s when we started to travel the world. And we bought a one way ticket to Hawaii, stayed in a hut, ate rice and avocado bowls, that we were in Mexico. And we’d stayed in these really small, tiny places as a family and just got real, and people couldn’t. They just they couldn’t get enough of it. They’re like, Oh, my God, I’m like you how do I do that? I want to lose it all too. So like, you know, and it was like,

Karen Yankovich 22:04
I don’t think there’s other ways to do this. Right? There’s other ways to do this. We don’t have to do that. Right? It’s it? Oh, my gosh, oh, my gosh, well, that well, let me ask you this then. So when you at some point, you shifted, though, to helping people with their branding with PR with So so how did that come about? Yeah,

Rhonda Swan 22:22
I mean, that’s that really was the base in order for us to, to start being more present. The brand had to be everything, right. So that’s when I got very clear. I know how to build a brand online. I know how to, you know, tell the story. Now let me help other people do it. And that’s when I shifted about two years ago, about a year in, I shifted to starting to teach people I was building doing branding workshops. I was doing weekly workshops, and I was helping people build sales funnels. I was the first woman that made a million dollars the funnel, and it wasn’t a name, then, you know, Russell Brunson wasn’t around, which is a friend of mine. I was a chapter in his book, and I told him the whole story. He’s like, you build funnels before? I didn’t call them funnels? Yeah. Because I didn’t know what they were. But you know, this is, but that’s the reality. So that’s what happened. I started teaching people. And then we were building little micro funnels and, and so what I realized is the most important to be differentiated in any market is you. And it’s what you offer, it really isn’t your services, certainly, you can create a bit of a USP and make your services unique. But there’s billions of people that have done it. You know, it’s just another launch. Right? So how do we build a better mousetrap? We put a great sexy brand on the front. And so that’s what we started to do. So now since then, it’s been now 15 years, we started our company, unstoppable branding agency. Yeah, we help clients to not only clarify their brand message, image strategy, but our main focus is a high level of PR, you know, so we work in tier one, tier two, we create the whole Google imprint. So you are like a rock star online. So when your clients are searching for certain things that you do keywords, you show up, you know, like you’re the one that shows up a post somewhere else.

Karen Yankovich 23:59
Right. I think that’s so important. You know, a lot of the a lot of the women that listen to the show are in some kind of many women, especially now like post pandemic or in some kind of transition, right, what we thought we were going to be 2019, what we thought we were going to be doing in 2022 and 23 are not necessarily what we now want to be doing right, we’ve we’ve, like you said, you expect you said, I don’t want to put my daughter in daycare, and a lot of these, a lot of women have realized that they don’t have to go back to what they thought they had to do. Right. So So now they’re smart, successful, busy with a lot of expertise, but maybe not a lot of experience in what their next chapter is. Right. So. So to me, I think one of the best ways to continue to grow their brand and to stay on that, that high vibe level right where they don’t have to go back to the beginning because they’re now you know, they’ve now decided career path B instead of career path A they’ve still got 2030 years of expertise in this. I think one of the best ways to do that is PR is to get placed in media because that gives you the credibility that helps substance initiate your brand while you are building this new chapter. And that’s, that’s not everybody that I work with. But I am seeing that more and more often, especially now, like a lot of women or even men, too, are shifting what they are shifting how they want to show up for the next chapter, you know, and I think we all underestimate how much the media needs us, right? There’s news 24/7, they are looking for smart people that they can count on. And they can trust their information, and they can use as a source for their stories. And when you build those, for me, it’s about building those relationships. When I talk about using LinkedIn to build relationships, one of the types of relationships that I always encourage, and it’s baked into everything that I teach, and I am not a PR expert, but I, to me, what I feel like I am, if I’m gonna use my word expert, expert in is helping you build relationships with the kinds of people that can help you get to whatever, achieve whatever goal you’re looking to achieve. And one of those categories has got to be the journalists that write about what you do. And when you start to meet those journalists, and build relationships with them, and they start featuring you are quoting you, I feel like not only does the rest of the world see you differently, but you start to feel differently, right. So tell me a little bit about how, you know, how you position your clients, and how you how you help them shift the mindset around the importance of this, of this piece of their business and a brand.

Rhonda Swan 26:20
Yeah, certainly. I mean, there’s, there’s let me clarify a few things. There’s earned media, and there’s paid media, right. And there’s nothing’s wrong with either one of them. They’re both great. Not everyone is in a position to get earned media. And not everyone’s in a position to pay for paid media. But I always recommend for certain clients, depending on where you are, you know, what you do. Investing in media is, I think probably one of the smartest things you can do and because what it does is it helps you begin to anchor it early on in your in your career, anchor in your keywords, your name your company, so that other people are talking about you, right. And so there’s an investment that you make, it’s like a marketing investment that you make. However, you made a very good point, when you and have relationships with journalists, with other partners and other people that have either blogs or other you know, different types of publications, and you are a value provider. That is probably one of the smartest things that you can possibly do, because now you are becoming a value based provider. Right? So they’re always looking for content, they’re always looking for something that you can help inspire their, their audience. And so we position our clients, I, you know, I typically have to say, look, let’s just Google your name. And I want everyone to do that. Google your name? Yes, yes, yes. What are you looking at? Right? So I’m gonna give you some education, because I’m always very big about education, because there’s a lot of so called professionals in the industry versus especially PR, that are selling things and they’re not educating. I never want to take money from someone unless they are educated. And then they decide, first off, Google your name. What do you see? Okay, so on Google, there’s the Google bars, your search bar, and you’re gonna see tabs underneath. And the first one is all okay, all is your stuff. It’s your websites, it’s all the things, your social media, that should be all your stuff. And normally, we’re gonna look how good I look, we see all those things, right? Then there’s images, and there’s a lot of images, if you are on blogs, or wherever you’re at, then there’s one tab that most people don’t look at. But the ones that are looking for the right people do. It’s called news. And the News tab is what is taught being talked about you, right, it’s third party validation. It’s are you newsworthy. So if you’re in the News tab, that means someone else that’s not you. That’s not your all section is talking about you. Okay? So if you search in your, your all has nothing, then you need to do some work there. Because right there, and then that showcases, right, right, right? It’s not you. Now, the other is looking on the right hand side of that search section. And looking to see if you have Google verified panel, right, a Google verified panel is what shows up on the right hand side, if you’re looking right now and you’re searching your name, you see a big white space. It’s because you’re not newsworthy enough for Google to go Whoa, check them out. We don’t create panels, we do the work that allows Google to see you as a credible source, meaning we write a lot of articles about you. So you fill the News tab, right? We the write them, we pitch you. Usually they’re tier twos, but certainly they can be tier ones if you qualify. And that way. Now Google’s like what sparks there’s someone else talking about the person again, now their websites connected the same name. So make sure you own name.com, please own it. You want to own your name.com and they’re like, oh, that name. Now all that bio is matching in what they just said about them in an article. All the elements start to come together and Google gets sparked and creates a panel for you books, articles, right, Spotify, whatever it might be podcasts. And that right there is now when someone’s searching for you like okay, now that’s credible and This is when now you start to get ratings, your website gets a domain rating that is ranked that says, well, they’re high value and high qualified. So these are all the elements that we work in for PR for our clients. But the most important thing is becoming valuable, right? And doing that legwork. So if you are talking to journalists, give them you know, pitch them and say, This is what I do. I’ve got this amazing article, you might want to, you know, share this with your readers, and give them something don’t go, Hey, I’d love you to put me on here because I do this. They will ignore you.

Karen Yankovich 30:32
Right, right. Yeah. Yeah. I love that. And you know, it, I feel like So listen, I feel like there’s a journey, right? There’s a journey as an entrepreneur, and I think where I, where I step in with this PRPs is earlier in the journey, right? Like earlier in the journey, you know, I like to say, I want to help you like flip that funnel, right. Like I’m all about the funnels, but you know what, let’s look for some the high ticket stuff first, like, we’re gonna as we think we need to sell the $6 stuff before we sell the $6,000 stuff, and we don’t So, so the publicity, right? The the credibility that publicity gives you helps you get those $6,000 clients to $10,000 clients helps you get to those 2030 $50,000 months, so that you can then hire somebody like Rhonda. Right, yeah. So because in the beginning, you know, it’s you can’t you can’t you have to think about where you’re putting your budget, right. So I do, it’s so important. It’s and it’s all part of that journey, right? It’s all part of the journey of continuing to build your brand and stepping into if that’s if that’s the journey, you choose stepping into a brand that is becoming more and more well known more and more profitable, you know, and more of a moneymaker. It doesn’t you don’t have to do that way. But it’s it’s a lot of work. It’s a lot of work to do it.

Rhonda Swan 31:38
It will there is and that’s what I mean, obviously, I always tell people, you either have time or you have money, they have money anymore. But in the beginning, I’ll tell you, in the beginning, you can research my name, and you know, research around this one, I was writing value based articles on my blog, like high value based, like people, I was teaching people everything. And I became a resource for their marketing, I became a resource for funnels for things to do. I just started writing blogs. And then of course, when YouTube and you know, Instagram and Facebook came out, I was doing the same thing. And I still do the same thing. Right? I constantly give so much value in all of my platforms, that now of course, I have tons of PR, because I own a company that does it. But I have a friend. Right, right. I was writing this stuff. And people go, Well, that was amazing. And I would say, Hey, I just wrote this blog, you might really love it, use it, feel free to use my content, and they would look at my stuff, quote me. And they have content. So I was writing stuff for years. I mean, I’m talking about yours. If you’re new writing, that’s what I was doing. And I’ll tell you what, now I’ve got articles everywhere, because I just give value. And then people quote me, right? And they put me on their blog, and I said, Hey, I’m gonna write this article, I see you talk about this, can I link to you? Boom, now you’re getting link juice. Google loves that. Right? Link? Right? Mother’s linking? So it’s just, it’s time or money? Yeah,

Karen Yankovich 33:03
yeah. Well, and you know, I think I think that even just like you talked about Google yourself, even just when you Google yourself, and you, I had a conversation one time with somebody that I was that hired me for something. And I remember it was sitting in his office, and he looks at me, he’s like, do you know that when you put your name in Google, like, there’s 10 or 20 pages, I was like, Yeah, that’s what I want to have. That’s what I want to happen for you, you know, it’s created that that right there helps you create your brand helps you land more business. So yeah, all the things underneath of that is important. But just the fact that as you do more of this, when people throw your name in a Google search, you know, I have an you know, a name that is not, not a lot of other people have, right, so, so I don’t have a lot of other people doing that. But if you have a common more common name, the best way to, to be to show you know, to to come to get a higher ranking than them is to just have more stuff. Right? Just have one right and and and there’s just there’s so many ways you can do that. Alright, so we could we could talk about this forever, but I want to just kind of dive in a little bit to something that you’re doing. Because I know that one, you know, listen, this podcast is called Good girls get rich. I support women. And really, I want them to be more wealthy women in the world period, the end right? So if I can help that, I’m here to do that. I know that you’ve just found it women gone, the women Gone Wild book series. Can you tell us a little bit about that?

Rhonda Swan 34:19
Absolutely. Yeah, women God while it’s women Gone Wild, the feminine guide to fearless living wild means we attract integral wealth. So w is well, AI is intuition. We tap in to our intuition. And L is leadership. and I are I’m sorry, D is diversity. So a full wild woman embraces wealth. She taps into her intuition, her leadership and her diversity. And I the book came along, because I was sitting at a table with about 10 Women at one of my events here in Bali, and we were helping each other build our brands and I said, wow, we’re sharing best practices. And you know, this great conversation like why is And it’s done more often. Why are these seats at the table with more women? And they’re like, you know, I’ve grown up and it was so hard with women and it’s just like, unless they become confident or really love themselves, you know, they’re it’s like a cutthroat world. And I knew it because I was corporate executive, right? I was crab Crab bucket mentality, man, I’m the one going to the top and I’m pushing you down. Like that was my man mentality. And so that’s where the book came from. And I said, look, let’s let’s launch this book. And I took 25 authors, we launched the book, it did so well. And then we launched the wild series, so we just launched wealth. We have the intuition book launches in next year in 2023. Leadership and diversity are the years beyond and it’s about women. It’s a women coming together, you know, bringing their magic you know, letting their guard down, and more importantly, supporting each other and learning from each other not pushing each other

Karen Yankovich 35:52
down. Oh my gosh, I love that. So what’s so so this so the book series is what’s is what is on the horizon for wild right now. Oh, look at that. Okay, so we’ll get a link to all of this in in the show notes. This has been so good right to tell tell like what’s next for you what’s happening in your world?

Rhonda Swan 36:09
Well, a lot is happening a lot of Yeah, new levels for me, you know, I’m always looking ahead. And I just got picked up in June to host a show that we film at NASDAQ market site in New York City. It is filmed it’s called New to the street unstoppable show I bring entrepreneurs private and public companies tell their story. It broadcasts on Fox Business on Newsmax and Bloomberg TV throughout a million households. We have billboards in Times Square and you know, they get commercials and all this crazy stuff. So I go back to New York City every three months. That’s kind of my new passion along with the book you know, to how do I tell more stories get people in front of the right audiences? How do I inspire them to tell that story and and learn about the story behind the brand?

Karen Yankovich 36:55
Beautiful? Well, we will put links to all of to your shows and all of your stuff in in the show notes to this. How can people get in touch with you if they want to hear more about working with your media company?

Rhonda Swan 37:04
Yeah, easy. My company’s unstoppable branding agency easy. My name is Rhonda swan. If you just search it you find me everywhere social media. I’m really heavy on Instagram. So Rhonda with an H R H O N da Swan, like the bird.com is also my website. So it’s super branding agency, Rhonda Swan, you’ll find me I want to give as much value based content as I possibly can. And really hit Yeah, he’ll be happy to just help people elevate or just find that that passion inside of them.

Karen Yankovich 37:33
Awesome. Thank you so much. Thanks for joining us. Thanks for inspiring things so inspiring. And I’m gonna check out more of your stuff as well. Yep. Awesome.

Rhonda Swan 37:40
Thanks again. I always say this to everyone. If you’re going to create a brand, create a sexy brand, and if you’re going to be anything be unstoppable.

Karen Yankovich 37:49
On that note, see you back here. Thanks so much. Thanks very well. I hope you love this interview with Rhonda I hope you enjoyed Rhonda as much as I enjoyed Rhonda, her energy is infectious. And I think you should be following her everywhere listening to her shows, and again, sharing this episode tagging her tagging me and making sure that you are becoming more visible and you let your letting her know that you are appreciate what she puts out there and be a part of her world. And of course, I love that you’re part of my world. So I would love when you do this when you’re tagging both Rhonda and I I can promise you that I will share this on my social media, I know Rhonda probably will as well. And that gets you in front of our audiences right now. That’s that rising tide that lifts all boats. So we do this work to support you. And I love it when you support us by sharing the episodes here that you enjoy. And you can share it again on any of them. You know, make sure you tag me though. So I know that you shared it. And then I can help you by sharing with my audience, right. So I’m here for you if you want to know more about what it’s like to build relationships in your world with people like Rhonda Swan, and people like the other guests I have on my show and just to how to use LinkedIn marketing to really boost your visibility, your credibility and your bank account. Then let’s talk just go to Karen yankovich.com/call. Get a spot on my calendar. We’ll talk for a couple minutes. And we can you know, we’ll just check and see if we think that this is something that that this marketing strategy that we teach is something that could work for you. If we think that’s the case, we’ll let you know what that looks like. But in all cases, I make sure that we’re providing value that you get a lot of great tips in these calls. And frankly, if you’re not a call person, then DM me, DM me and let us know you know we can we can talk to you that way I’m starting to I’m starting to open my mind to the fact that conversations don’t necessarily have to be on the phone, even though that’s I guess That’s old school. I’ve had some really brilliant conversations via DM recently and I’m trying to continue to stay open to that so you can DM me anywhere. You know, LinkedIn is probably the best way to do that or just get on my calendar, Karen yankovich.com/call. And let’s start the conversation. The bottom line is this can be simple for you, and I’m here to support you and your business.

115 – How to Make a Career Switch with Dr. Dawn Graham

This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media CEO and LinkedIn expert, Karen Yankovich. In this episode, Karen interviews Dr. Dawn Graham and discusses networking, the importance of your personal brand, and how these things relate to switching jobs.

Dr. Dawn Graham is a career switch coach, TEDx speaker, LinkedIn learning instructor, and host of the show “Dr. Dawn on Careers” on SiriusXM. She’s also the author of Switchers: How Smart Professionals Change Careers and Seize Success. 

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About the Episode:

Switching jobs is becoming a common habit in our modern world. Oftentimes, it’s a good thing, too! Dr. Dawn Graham teaches how to properly make a job switch. Networking and your personal brand are two important factors in a successful switch.

Networking

Years ago as the internet was becoming more popular, networking online was easy and convenient. Fast forward to today, we’re bombarded with information everywhere we look. Online networking is still very useful and effective… if done properly.

To make online networking effective, you need to connect on the human level. To make this happen, if you do great work, you must be genuine with others and let your true self shine. Then comes the follow up. Following up with your connections is necessary to make your online networking efforts effective.

Personal Brand

A brand isn’t just for businesses and products. It’s for you too. Many people are scared to display themselves as their own brand, but if you don’t have a strong personal brand, you might get overlooked.

What exactly is a personal brand? It’s who you are and how you present yourself to others. You might work for corporate, but what is it about you that makes you unique? The attributes that make you stand apart are what make you who you are and what make up your personal brand.

When you’re looking to make a job switch, you want to make sure you’re noticed and taken seriously. This starts by networking effectively and building your personal brand. And once you’re finally ready to make the switch, Dr. Dawn shares with you what you should do to make the switch successful in her book Switchers: How Smart Professionals Change Careers and Seize Success.

Episode Spotlights:

  • Where to find everything for this week’s episode: karenyankovich.com/115
  • Introducing this episode’s guest, Dr. Dawn Graham (3:17)
  • The true spirit of networking (5:55)
  • The future is relationship marketing (6:37)
  • Dawn’s journey (8:20)
  • The importance of building your personal brand (10:07)
  • How a personal brand relates to recruiters (13:18)
  • Make your brand relates to your audience (14:01)
  • The difference in your résumé and your LinkedIn profile (17:53)
  • Job-switch killers (20:10)
  • Why Dr. Dawn wrote her book (22:41)
  • What is a job switcher? (24:37)
  • How to find out more about Dawn (31:44)

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Karen Yankovich 0:00
You’re listening to the Good Girls Get Rich Podcast episode 115.

Intro 0:07
Welcome to the Good Girls Get Rich Podcast with your host, Karen Yankovich. This is where we embrace how good you are, girl. Stop being the best kept secret in town, learn how to use simple LinkedIn and social media strategies, and make the big bucks.

Karen Yankovich 0:24
Hi there. I’m your host, Karen Yankovich. And this episode is brought to you by She’s LinkedUp where we teach women simple relationship and heart based LinkedIn marketing that gets you on the phone consistently with your perfect people. People that you can’t wait to have the opportunity to chat with the people that can grow your career, your business and your life and change it for forever. We teach digital marketing with the human touch and you know as this podcast is going live, it is the spring of 2020 we are in the midst of the coronavirus, the COVID-19 pandemic, and boy do we need human touch now more than ever. It’s interesting. I recorded this podcast episode with Dawn Graham, a few months ago before this even or I guess a month or so ago before this even was a thing. And it is the perfect episode for this time, because Dawn is the author of the book Switchers. And what Switchers basically does is it talks about as your as things are shifting and changing in your career. Dawn’s book and Dawn’s work supports you with that. So I think that a lot of us are seeing, maybe considering maybe not maybe maybe not seeing changes, but considering changes as we move into whatever the next chapter of our business in our career looks like. So I think Dawn is going to be a great resource for you. You totally want to check out her book, we’ll put the link to the book in the show notes as well. But lots of good conversation here today, not just for my entrepreneur, friends, but also for people that are looking for a new corporate job or have a corporate job or looking to change from corporate to entrepreneur, entrepreneur to corporate Dawn is great support for you. And the story of how children I met is actually really funny. So I can’t wait for you to hear that. So as you know, if you listen before, if you love what you hear today, we love to hear from you. So make sure to take a quick screenshot of this episode and share it on social media. Tag me. I’m @karenyankovich. Tag Dawn, her social media handles are in the show notes here. And let us know that you’re listening. And what I will do is of course, if you’re sharing my content with your audience, I love to share that with my audience. And I’ll get we’ll both get each other some visibility here, right, and this is how we all lift each other up in this crazy time in the world. in the show notes, there’s also a link for Speakpipe where you can leave me an audio review. I love that tell me what you thought about this show. Tell me what you thought about dawn, tell me maybe if you have a guest that you think we should have, or if there’s a topic you want me to talk about, right? You can basically just leave me a voice message about whatever you want. And you can check all of that out at karenyankovich.com/115. And of course, if you have, if you’re so inclined to leave us a rating or review, we love that as well because that helps us understand how to best support you as we plan out our shows moving forward. So I am going to move now right into my interview with Dawn Graham. So we have Dr. Dawn Graham with us on the show today. Dr. Graham is a career switch coach, a TEDx speaker, a LinkedIn learning instructor and host of the popular call in show Dr. Dawn on Careers on SiriusXM Radio channel 132. She’s a regular contributor to forbes.com under the leadership channel and the career director for the executive MBA program at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. Her latest book Switchers how smart professionals change careers and see success combines her experience as a career coach, licensed psychologist and former corporate recruiter to give career structures and strategies to break through obstacles and land the job they want. And I’m so excited to have you here on the show today.

Dr. Dawn Graham 3:58
Yeah, it’s great to talk with you again, Karen. And it’s definitely been too long. I’m excited about this.

Karen Yankovich 4:02
It has, and this is a change because you know, I’ve been on Dawn’s radio show a few times. This is the first time I get to interview you, which is fun. Yeah. Yeah. So Dawn and I met a few years ago, I can’t remember exactly how we met. I don’t know if you know this, but I have was running at the time, a different version of the LinkedIn profile challenge that I’m running now. And one day I just like my email box was like exploding, saying, I heard about your challenge on on Sirius Radio, on XM Radio. And I was like, what the heck, and you go on some topic, and somebody said, you guys have to check out Karen’s challenge. And I was, you know, of course, I teach LinkedIn marketing. So I was like, it was fun to have, like all this activity coming out of the blue one day, but also I reached out to you that and said, I had such a fun day today, as a result of your show today. And I’d love to get to know you, as well. Do you remember that?

Dr. Dawn Graham 4:55
I completely remember that. And I think I think that’s a perfect example of How opportunities come to be is that you know, something, you know, you put yourself out there somebody latches on to it, talks about it somewhere else. And that’s how worlds get connected. So I love that story.

Karen Yankovich 5:11
Yeah. And you know, when I teach LinkedIn marketing, it isn’t always about going for the win immediately, right? It’s about like building relationships that can introduce you to people that can be your ultimate win, whatever that win is for you, whether it’s client or job. So what what you know what I guess my strategy was, when that happened was, well, heck, if there’s, if there’s somebody that has a, you know, a talk radio show, talking about careers on SiriusXM, I need to know that host. And that’s a big part of what I teach. When I do that. It’s not just about like, you know, I didn’t reach out to you, john, and think Dawn’s gonna be a client someday I was like, wow, would be great if I can do it. And I can build the relationship because maybe I can get more visibility for my products and services through her show. And that’s exactly what happened.

Dr. Dawn Graham 5:54
Yeah. And I think when people often hear the word networking, Karen, and they get very nervous because They think it’s some kind of process. But you know, when you look at it this way, using this example, I think it’s two things. I think it’s one doing great work. So whatever you’re doing whatever your expertise is doing it very well. And that’s exactly what you do. So that this person called into my show and says, Hey, you have to check out Karen. And then following up on opportunities when they present themselves like this. So sure, you could have just said, Oh, this is a great day, and I’m very glad this happened and let it go. But you did it. You followed up on it. I think that is the true spirit of networking. And if you constantly are doing those two things, you’re going to start to get a lot of opportunities.

Karen Yankovich 6:36
Yeah, and I think this is true across the board and I I feel like and I’d love to know if you what you think about this, I kind of feel like that is how like that relationship marketing is what fueled sales and marketing and you know, careers 20 years ago, but I think it’s coming back to that now. I think that we’re starting to like the noise is starting to get deafening there’s so much wear Like we’re getting hit, like, almost barrage by so much content and so much stuff, you know, says the person with the podcast but we’re getting barrage with so much content and so much stuff that I think we’re going back to oh my gosh, I can’t just talk to a person who were there to build my business. So I think that it is starting to kind of come back full circle to that.

Dr. Dawn Graham 7:19
I completely agree. I completely agree. We just talked about this on the on the radio show today about the future and how it is coming back around full circle because relationships have always been core to opportunities have never really gone away. But you’re right when the internet became very popular and job searches on the internet and social media. Now this gave everybody a brand new platform, which has been wonderful, but now the novelty is these one on one relationships or face to face relationships. So again, you can definitely use these platforms as an opening but if you want to get to the next level trust is very important and that often comes through building those those one-on-one relationships.

Karen Yankovich 8:02
Yeah, yeah, I completely agree. And I think that so you know, you have a new book out. So let’s take a step back. So we, we already dove into like topics. Let’s take tell us a little bit about your journey that brought you to being the host of this radio show and coming out with a book and tell us a little bit about your journey.

Dr. Dawn Graham 8:20
So yeah, my my expertise is around career coaching and all things career and the way I got here was actually having some stumbles in my own career. I was with Arthur Andersen when the whole Enron fiasco happened, and you know, that’s a long time ago now so maybe some of your listeners need to look that up. But but it was it was terrible, 100 year old company with a great reputation and 10s of thousands of employees across the world basically crumbled in six months. And here it was a young professional thinking I would spend my career here and I was doing well and getting a lot of opportunities just to find that not only did my job go away, but I spent all my time I’m building my network in that company. So all of my contacts now we’re also out of work and also the brand of that company because of the, you know, unfortunate way that it came to fold was pretty much not very positive, I will say. So I have the, you know, the three things I talk about all the time, which are, you know, strong skills, network, and brand where we’re all kind of crumbling at once, and I thought, I never want to be in this position. Again, I never want to be in a position where I feel like I’ve been, you know, I have nothing and that my security lies with one company because that really put me in a very difficult place. Of course. After that, I made sure that I built a strong network both in and out of companies, I made sure to focus on my brand and I made sure to continuously grow my skills, not just in the company or role I was in but outside of that to that, should this ever happen again. I’d never find myself in that. Place. And then I’ve built basically my career around helping others to do that. And that’s where all this came from.

Karen Yankovich 10:07
So one of the things you said there that I think is really important is that you under you started to learn about the importance of building your brand. And often we think about that, as entrepreneurs, we don’t always think about that as a career employee. We don’t think we have to have a brand. In fact, when I talk to people that are in careers that are in corporate or that have paycheck jobs, about LinkedIn, a lot of times they’re like, Well, my employers, but I think I’m job hunting. And I’m like, on a personal mission to overcome that stigma, because it’s really so important that, you know, I feel like if a company invest in the personal brand, for the people that work for it immediately elevates the company, if all of the people that work for the company have strong personal brands, and that is a different. I think that’s a different mindset that has evolved as this as we’ve evolved through the past 20 years.

Dr. Dawn Graham 10:56
Yeah, and I completely agree. I feel like a lot of people Look at brands and say that’s for a product or that’s for an organization. But here’s the deal. You know, Carla Harris, who has also been a guest on my show said something that I think is really profound for anybody who’s in an organization, which is a lot of the decisions that are being made about your career are happening when you’re not in the room. And when you think about that, if you think about you know, the higher ups you know, the new clients who are coming in know if there’s going to be a merger knows if if there is going to be some kind of layoff, you know, if you don’t have a strong brand and brand being, you know, your reputation for doing good work, your expertise. I mean, there’s a lot wrapped up into that word, but if people don’t know who you are, what you’re good at and what you want to do. Those decisions that are being made may mean that you get overlooked not because you’re not qualified, not because you’re not a great person or a great fit for whatever they’re doing, but because they don’t know about you and what you can do.

Karen Yankovich 11:55
Yeah, it’s so true because skills are important right skills are important, but I think I think skills are, you know, people know how to use Excel and Word and you know, Adobe products and things like that. So, so skills are definitely important. But you’ve got to stand out from all the other people that have those skills.

Dr. Dawn Graham 12:14
You really do. And some people think about that. And they say that that sounds difficult. I don’t know what that means. And, and so I think a good way to look at it is how do you approach your work that’s made me different from other people who do the job and you know, for me, I’m a licensed psychologist. So I bring a lot of psychology into my coaching and into the work that I do. And so that that kind of differentiates me from from maybe other career coaches. So I think people need to start thinking about what makes them unique. Maybe it’s how they approach their work. Maybe they have a dual background, because they switched careers and they can bring those skills in to help but there’s always something that makes your approach unique or the way you do your work or what you focus on or if you’re not sure You can ask people you see, what am I known for what what you know, stands out, because I guarantee that other people will probably tell you things that maybe you don’t see in yourself. And that can be a great way to start understanding the value you bring to your workplace or to your clients.

Karen Yankovich 13:17
Yeah. So So how does this all relate to recruiters because we, you know, we talk a lot about on this on this podcast about entrepreneurs and how to build your brand as an entrepreneur. But, you know, often recruiters could be valuable to us in many ways, not just as we change jobs and change careers. But even as we enter enter a new phase of our new, you know, a new stage of our life or career. So how does how do recruiters fit into all of this conversation about branding?

Dr. Dawn Graham 13:47
Yeah, so I mean, obviously, you’re a LinkedIn expert and LinkedIn is the go to place if you’re a professional, you need to be on there and you need to be you need to have a clear brand and so before we get to the recruiter part, I will say One of the things that we know, especially in 2020, we are we are very, we are very targeted, we want information quickly in bite size. And we don’t want to have to wade through anything that’s not relevant. So I would say, first and foremost, when you’re thinking about brand, make sure it’s relevant to your audience. In order to do that you have to identify your audience. If you’re looking to find a new job, and in a corporation or somewhere where recruiters are looking for you, they need to see this first and foremost, they’re not going to go through your LinkedIn profile or your resume, or you know, whatever other social media they may be looking at and say, Hmm, Karen’s get it all these things, which one do we want to hire her for? They’re not going to do that if you don’t meet their need very quickly, and front and center, they’re going to move on to the next person. So I think that’s, that’s first and foremost is that you have to know who your audience is, and you have to speak to that audience. The other thing is, is not to forget about their relationships, I mean, building relationships whether it’s Executive external headhunters or recruiters if you’re, you know, you’re going to be in a job search, the relationship part still counts. And I think sometimes we overlook that because technology has made it so easy to just click and send and, and you know, like and all that. But I mean, the fact is people hire people, they like people hire people they trust. So I think it’s really important to also build that relationship. And remember that we’re all dealing with people, even though we’re on a computer, there are people on the other side.

Karen Yankovich 15:29
Oh my gosh, I love that. And that speaks to the need when you’re creating your personal brand to make sure that it’s in your voice. Because often I see people on LinkedIn feeling like they have to be really they have to have corporate speak in there. You know, they have to be really have to sound really professional. And yes, you need to sound intelligent, but I think it’s important that it’s still in your voice and that you don’t have to pretend to be somebody you’re not. Because people will people we can feel that in your online presence and feel when it’s really you and when you’re trying to be Someone you’re not.

Dr. Dawn Graham 16:01
Yeah, being genuine is so important. I think that’s why a lot of people shy away from the idea of brand because they feel like for some reason, it’s, it’s not genuine, but it is actually all about being who you are. And picking and choosing those aspects of yourself that are going to be most relevant and impressive to your audience. So it doesn’t mean you’re making things up. But you know, the way I describe it is if you if you’re buying a car, and that car has amazing safety features, airbags, child locks and all that, and you’re selling it to a young family, that’s what you’re going to start out with. But if you’re selling it to somebody who wants to use it to go camping in the mountains, you’re going to start with the features of that car that include the the built in refrigerator and the four wheel drive and all the other things. So it’s like, we have to look at ourselves as complex with a lot of skills and a lot of dimensions and then say which of these are going to be most relevant to my audience and that’s what I’m going to put forward. And that’s completely genuine.

Karen Yankovich 17:03
Oh my gosh, I, I say the exact same thing when I’m helping people with their LinkedIn profiles. Nobody needs to know what you did at that job that’s not relevant to what you’re doing now. It’s not being inauthentic. It’s just irrelevant.

Dr. Dawn Graham 17:16
It’s so true. I tell people all the time, Karen, that, you know, if you look in my background, my resume my LinkedIn looks like guys, I’ve had this perfectly planned career all my life, you would never know that I was laid off twice. That, you know, I tried some things that weren’t a fit. And, and that’s the fact is that we all can create this story. And just because we leave parts out of the story, it doesn’t mean that the story’s not true. It’s just that look, people are very short timeframe. They need to hear the story that grabs their attention. And once you grab their attention, there might be other things you want to add. But if you don’t grab their attention, you’re not going to have an opportunity to do that.

Karen Yankovich 17:52
Yeah, yeah. Well, one of the other things that I say about LinkedIn as it as it relates to personal branding, and I’d love to hear what You think about this is, you know, when you when we think about careers, and recruiters, you know, job searches, we think a lot about resumes. And I think I like to, I like to think about LinkedIn as differently than a resume and that resumes are who you used to be all the things you used to do. But your LinkedIn profile position properly is the person that you want to become kind of a dressing for the job you want. It’s not faking. It’s not faking that at all. But you have to be you have to put forward the confidence in being you know, having the skills and the desire to be this, this next chapter version of you. And that’s what I want to see you portray in your LinkedIn profile, because that is what you know, that helps, like you said early on, like, tell me what makes you different than everyone else. Make it easy for me to pick you. Right. And I think that that’s one of the ways to do that.

Dr. Dawn Graham 18:52
Agreed. I would say that you want your LinkedIn to be aspirational in nature and again, using the skills experiences and every thing that you’ve built, but but framing them in a way that shows what you can do with those things. I mean, the fact is, is that the number one thing any employer wants is, is hunger. And then they’re gonna say, once you have that hunger and that drive, which you’ll show through your achievements and accomplishments, they want to know how you’re going to help them with their mission or their bottom line or helping your clients with with getting their projects done or what have you. And so they want to see that. And I think that aspirational piece is so important, because we’re moving into a time where passive candidates are becoming a huge way that recruiters are bringing on new hires and passive candidates or people who are not necessarily looking but have this aspirational LinkedIn profile that shows their skills and accomplishments in light of what those skills and accomplishments will help companies do and they’re seeing this and they’re reaching out to these candidates are not necessarily looking and starting the interview process and this is where they’re hiring from. So I think knowing that this is Even if you’re not looking today, you think you might be looking, you want a profile that speaks to recruiters who are starting those searches.

Karen Yankovich 20:08
Yeah. So in your book, you talk about some of the mistakes that switchers make with that you wish you had known before making some of your own career switches to any of these applied to like your personal brand. And tell us about some of those, those job switch killers.

Dr. Dawn Graham 20:24
Yeah, so I think one of the job switch killers, if you’re looking to make a functional or industry switch, one of the things that we have to realize when it comes to our brand is that what works for us last time may not work for us next time, meaning there might have been a specific accomplishment that everybody’s been impressed with and that we lead with. But if you’re looking to move into a new function or a new industry, this may not be the most relevant and so you need to look at your background and your brand and see what’s most relevant. So you know, quick example from my from my work at Wharton is I had a student you He wanted to move from the the clinical side of pharma to the business side of pharma and the student had all the business skills and all that but kept leading with the PhD, which is very impressive. Having a PhD in chemistry is ridiculously impressive. But now that you’re looking to do something completely different, the business side didn’t really care about the PhD. They didn’t care that that you know, you had the scientific background, what they cared about was that you had data analysis and that you knew finance and that you had, you know, client experience and this type of thing, which this student had, but she wasn’t leading with it. So when she started leading with that, all of a sudden doors started opening and the best part of it, Karen, was that when she got down to the the final two candidates, they said, Okay, well what makes you different, what makes you stand out and she’s like, well, I also have a PhD in chemistry, and so…

Karen Yankovich 21:56
Which is like, a dream, right?

Dr. Dawn Graham 21:58
Yeah. Bam. So I always say metal. First standout second. And this is a prime example of how that works much worse because what people don’t understand is that the hiring process is actually about elimination, it is not about selection. And elimination is a very different process in your brain. And when a hiring manager recruiters looking to eliminate there, it’s really easy. Oh, you have a PhD, we don’t need a PhD, we need some of our business fields or you have this or you don’t have that. But when you’re down to those final two or three candidates, now it flips and now they want to know what makes you unique. So when you know that the job search process is like this, you can redesign your strategy completely to be more competitive and get where you want to be.

Karen Yankovich 22:39
Very cool. Very cool. Tell me what else prompted you like what what were you seeing that prompted you to write a whole book around this?

Dr. Dawn Graham 22:48
So great question. And I this is a this is a very easy answer. The fact is the job world is changing and hiring hasn’t caught up period. So so we are now Moving into a market where we have hybrid roles, we have portfolio careers, we have, you know, basically hire for project type work gigs, because there’s such a fluidity in the market right now in terms of, of what the needs are globalization, technology, all these things are happening, which means what I hire you for today may look very different from what I need you for next year. And so, so switchers, in my opinion are becoming the new normal, you need to be able to have this agile set of skills and be able to move from function to function and industry to industry. However, what I see is that the hiring practices, although they’re changing, they’re not quite there yet. So we still have applicant tracking systems looking for keyword matches or five years of experience in marketing and this and the fact is, if your switcher you don’t have that doesn’t mean you won’t be a successful candidate, but you’re probably not going to make it through the applicant tracking system. So what I realized is that we’re in this very interesting time where The, you know, career dreams that people have, are not necessarily in alignment with hiring practices that we have. And this book essentially helps you to get past that barrier so that you can land the job you want. And it’s a very tactical practical book around, here’s how to make a career change as a switch. Of course, the techniques work for non switchers as well. But what I’ve realized is that the traditional methods that sometimes you can get away with as a you know, non switcher just are not going to work for the career changer.

Karen Yankovich 24:37
So tell me, I don’t know that we’ve actually ever defined what you what you will define switcher for us. I don’t think we’ve got to defined. How do you define switcher?

Dr. Dawn Graham 24:46
So a career switcher is somebody who’s changing industry function or both industry and function. So, you know, the traditional career path is usually, you know, moving into a similar industry or function or maybe moving up The ladder progressing advancing, but a switcher is going to go from maybe the the manufacturing industry to the farm farm industry or maybe they’re going to go from working in marketing to working in finance. And so these are some pretty big changes that, you know, that people are making today which honestly, are becoming more and more necessary as jobs change and shift and more. But we don’t necessarily have the tools in place to hire or to assess these candidates. And let’s face it, I mean, you know, this to hiring managers are often not trained on how to to select candidates, and that’s not a slam on hiring managers. It’s just not their job. their day job might be accounting or finance or data analysis. And so maybe they hire somebody two or three times a year and they don’t really get trained or get a lot of experience doing this. So to hire a switcher, they you know, they really have no idea where to start. What they tend to do is go away The tried and true skill match or word match and hire those people, which, you know, I’m not saying those people aren’t qualified, but you may have a fantastic candidate who’s a switcher that gets overlooked for the sheer fact they don’t have the right keywords on their profile.

Karen Yankovich 26:16
So could you be a switcher, if you’re going from a career to an entrepreneurial role or from an entrepreneurial role to a career or even from a career to a, you know, side hustle, entrepreneurial role? Maybe, maybe you’re retiring and you want to, you know, just do something different? Can that is that can you still be considered a switch? Or do you really define it as career to career?

Dr. Dawn Graham 26:37
I think all those things are switchers. In the book I talked about, you know, returning after maybe an absence from work, that could be a switcher. So there’s a lot of that, yeah, retirees are great, because a lot of times you’re retired, but you want to keep working, but you want to do something different. So yeah, I address that in the book as well. Because the fact is, it’s really anything that is not the traditional career path. So it’s not traditional for People that work in corporate and then stop and start their own business. So all of the skills and practices we talked about in the book absolutely apply to all those populations. Because the fact is, all of that is based on on building a strong brand, building a network, understanding how to present yourself differently, and in a way that’s relevant to your target audience and not let the great great things get lost in the good stuff. And, and a lot of it to Karen is I weave a lot of psychology into the book. As a licensed psychologist, what I’ve learned is that a lot of the job search is based on human relationships and interactions. And, you know, we all know that humans tend to have communication challenges at certain times and things like that. So I talk a lot about how psychology gets in the way, both from the hiring managers perspective and what’s going on in their mind. Also the candidates perspective and some of the things that trip us up as candidates so that we can kind of wipe that off the table and get around that barrier as well.

Karen Yankovich 28:00
So cool. And I almost feel like you’re kind of almost giving, if you need it permission free will to do this because I think it’s becoming more common. But I think there’s still a lot of reluctance to kind of straying off the what is I don’t even know if there is such a thing as a traditional path anymore. But, you know, I think the days of starting with the company when you graduate college and retiring when you’re 70, you get that same job. I think that’s not happening that often to me. I don’t think that’s traditional anymore. That being said, though, I think that’s still kind of what’s expected. Right. So I kind of feel like you’re giving permission for people to be switchers?

Dr. Dawn Graham 28:34
Yeah, I love I love the way you say that. Because I think that’s what this book does. It basically says, like, this is a new world we’re living in. And for most of us, you know, we’re hanging on to strategies and tactics and ideas that that don’t exist anymore. So to your point, if you you know, you’re not a job hopper anymore. If you stay at a company one to two years Matter of fact that especially in certain tech industries, that’s pretty expected and the flip side is if you stay with a company, ah, 10 years, now employers start to believe that maybe you’re not agile enough to make a move, and why did you stay somewhere so long? So attitudes are shifting. And, you know, applying online used to 20 years ago be like it was new, it was great. It was working. But as you mentioned earlier, it’s so oversaturated now that it’s not working anymore. So I think what the book does is exactly what you said, Give people permission to let go of the old ways of doing things and what used to work and what now is actually getting in their way and to say, look, it’s not me, it’s not that I can’t do this work. It’s that I’m using old strategies and techniques, and that’s why I’m not getting where I want to be.

Karen Yankovich 29:44
Oh, my gosh, well, I I love that you’re doing this because I think, you know, I tend to talk too much to my entrepreneur listeners. And I know that there’s a lot of business professionals that listen to this show. So I’m so glad that you were You know that that you and I were able to have this conversation, and that you bought this book to us because I think that, really that’s what this whole podcast is really about. Not that you need my permission or your permission to do anything, but sometimes we just need to hear it, we need to hear that it is more common than not, especially one of the things you mentioned, too, that sometimes you’re you, you’re, you know, you’ve taken a few years off for whatever reason, maybe you raise kids, maybe maybe you just traveled for a while, whatever. I think that that’s becoming more common. And I also think that it’s rare that you’re sitting on a sailboat for three years, you know that you probably did something in those years, that still positions you maybe around maybe you were you know, working for a nonprofit, you were volunteering, you’re on the board of directors of something, right, those are all things that still position you I think with the skills that put you in a position of leadership to get that new, you know that have that new chapter in your life.

Dr. Dawn Graham 30:50
I totally agree. And the book talks about that there’s a there’s a lot of exercises, ones that who I am map and it really encourages you to look at all those things. You’re Three years sailing trip your volunteer experience and everything and look at yourself really holistically because i think i think we do tend to, you know, start to identify with our label our title our company. And we it’s really hard for us to start to see ourselves different ways, but, but my mantra in the book is no apologies, you don’t have to apologize for anything in your career, whether you were fired or laid off or took three years off, because you wanted to or whatever, you don’t have to apologize, stop doing that, and start owning what you did and showing how it has made you an even better candidate. And I think when you start to do that, again, confidence breeds confidence. So So it’s about taking what you’ve done and positioning it into a story that shows why you’re qualified.

Karen Yankovich 31:43
Oh, my gosh, so cool. So, Dawn, how can people learn more about you? How can they get a copy of the book? I know you spend a lot of time on LinkedIn. So maybe that’s a place people can learn more about you tell us how people can?

Dr. Dawn Graham 31:54
Yeah, absolutely. I’m on LinkedIn. If you if you heard me on this podcast. I’d love for you. To say that in a personal note, so I know where you saw me. You can also follow me on twitter @drdawngraham. Of course my radio show is on SiriusXM 132 every Thursday live at noon. So if you want to call in and ask a question, you can do that. And of course, I have a website as well, drdawnoncareers.com where you can find everything that I’ve done, including all my podcasts and radio shows and my blog and everything in one, one quick place. So lots of different ways no matter what what kind of media tool you’re using.

Karen Yankovich 32:32
Cool. We’ll put links to all of that in the show notes. Thank you so much for doing this. This was such a it was fun to hear what you’ve been up to. And I haven’t talked to you since you’ve since the book has come out. So it’s been a It’s been a while. So I’m glad we got a chance to do this. Thanks so much for being here.

Dr. Dawn Graham 32:46
Yeah. Thanks, Karen. It’s been really fun talking again and yeah, let’s let’s get together soon.

Karen Yankovich 32:51
Sounds good to me. It was so fun to catch up with Dawn. Dawn and I met in person a few times because she does her interviews for SiriusXM Career Talk Radio, in person in her studio in Philadelphia, which is always fun to, to meet up with people in person and what we’re kind of missing now at least I’m kind of missing now that it’s spring of 2020. And I’ve been cooped up in my house for a couple of weeks now. So, first of all problems, you know, it’s really nothing to complain about here. But uh, it was it’s, I’m looking forward to the days where we can start doing these interviews in person again. So don’t talk about a challenge. We’re not doing that challenge anymore, but we are still doing weekly live workshops, you can check them out at freelinkedinworkshop.com, and every Wednesday, I’m doing a live workshop at that, at least in the spring of 2020. We’ve also started doing more YouTube videos, so make sure you check out the link to our YouTube channel, in the show notes and subscribe to that we’re doing lots of LinkedIn tips on YouTube these days. So that’s just a way to get some more support and more connection, right? So again, check us out at freelinkedinworkshop.com, join me for a live workshop. What I love about what we’re doing with this version of the spring 2020 version of these workshops. I’m actually staying on the workshops at the end of the live workshops for as long as you want me to do brainstorming your ideas, there is nothing that we did I teach on LinkedIn marketing that doesn’t start with what is a win look like for you, right? If you invest in my course or my programs, or any one on one strategy, I want to know before we even get started, what does it look like on the other side, right? What is it? What is going to make you say this was the best money I ever invested? And everything we do from that point forward is focused to make that happen, right. So I help you brainstorm those things live on this free workshop every Wednesday. So check it out freelinkedinworkshop.com. If you’ve been on these workshops before, join me again because it’s all new. And I hope to see you there, and we’ll see you back here next week for another episode of the Good Girls Get Rich Podcast.

072 – Imposter Syndrome on LinkedIn

Imposter syndrome is something that can effect the best of us, including myself! Check out this week’s episode on dealing with imposter syndrome on LinkedIn and how to overcome it.

This week’s episode of Good Girls Get Rich is brought to you by Uplevel Media and in it, Karen talks all about imposter syndrome and she shares tips on how to overcome it. According to Psychology Today, imposter syndrome is a psychological term referring to a pattern of behavior where people doubt their accomplishments and have a persistent, often internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud. Listen and learn to start recognizing that imposter syndrome happens to all of us, including Maya Angelou.

 

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About the Episode: 

Imposter syndrome on LinkedIn has been shown to be the most prevalent among those who are high achievers. It seems like the more people accomplish, the harder it becomes to own it! I talk a ton in one of my previous podcasts with Janet Zaretsky about being more confident online. In addition, I wanted to dive deeper into this issue as many people, men and women alike struggle with imposter syndrome, especially on LinkedIn!

 

TIPS FOR AVOIDING IMPOSTER SYNDROME ON LINKEDIN:

 

1. RECOGNIZE AND OWN YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS

 

First, to define imposter syndrome, obviously the entire concept surrounds having issues around doubting your accomplishments. However, the first step to getting over it is to recognize what you’re good at and what you achieved in the first place!

 

To get started with the podcast, I give a few of my own tips on the first steps to getting over imposter syndrome and they are

 

  • Writing down everything you’ve accomplished, personally and professionally
  • Giving up being perfect to get things done
  • Create a physical positivity box full of accomplishments and positive sayings about yourself

 

Like I’ve explained in a few other podcasts, doing these few simple things will help boost your confidence daily. As well as helping you build confidence, these will also allow yourself to gradually move past the fear that comes from imposter syndrome.

 

2. HIRE SOMEONE TO WRITE YOUR LINKEDIN PROFILE

 

Still think your struggling with imposter syndrome when it comes to marketing yourself on LinkedIn? The best way to avoid this is to simply, hire someone to write your profile for you!

 

Moving on through the podcast, I list a few of the questions us at Uplevel Media ask you guys when helping assist in writing your LinkedIn profile. As we go through the discovery phase, this is where we take all your accomplishments and highlight them in the best way possible!

 

3. POSITION YOURSELF IN THE WAY YOU WANT THE WORLD TO SEE YOU

 

Let’s think for a minute: why is someone coming to your LinkedIn profile or company page in the first place? It’s because they want to know more about you to see if they want to work with you!

 

While developing your LinkedIn profile or company page, it’s crucial that you are positioning yourself in the best light possible. Nobody wants to work with someone who is just “ok”! You know you are awesome, you know you’ve accomplished a ton in your career, so state it loud and proud on your profile so others know it as well!

Episode Spotlights:

  • One of the services that UpLevel Media provides is writing LinkedIn profiles. Contact them here if you need help making that first great impression. (4:39)
  • What is Imposter Syndrome? (6:00)
  • Have you ever experienced Imposter Syndrome? Karen shares her experience with it. (7:15)
  • Recognize that Imposter Syndrome happens to all of us and we need to have tools to learn how to overcome that. (10:30)
  • Write a great LinkedIn profile that positions you the way you want the world to see you. (11:27)
  • Imposter Syndrome is most prevalent among high-achievers. (12:50)
  • Tips on how to overcome Imposter Syndrome
    • #1: Give up perfect. (13:30)
    • #2: Keep a positivity file. (16:18)
    • #3: Let somebody else write your LinkedIn profile for you. (20:45)
  • Important questions to answer when writing your LinkedIn profile (22:00)
  • Recap of the episode. (24:28)

 

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